Hello! I am a man of 25 years. and I want to share one of my views, respectively, for which I will receive your competent opinion. After the New Year, I was with friends at a restaurant in my hometown to see each other, because it hadn't happened in a long time. There was an all-female company at the table next to us, one of the ladies visibly upset and repeating out loud - "Why are men such idiots" - apparently hoping to be heard by as many men as possible. Not long after, a young girl entered the restaurant, holding hands with the tallest simpleton we have in our city. My friends and I were shocked. None of us thought that was possible, and the upset lady at the table next to us didn't even realize that the answer to her question was in front of her. If you haven't guessed the answer, please keep reading and follow my thought! If we stop a woman (no matter in which part of the world) and ask her - What is your ideal man - at least 100% of them should answer - Well, first of all a man should be a man / whatever that means /, to be a person with whom I feel safe and protected and in the 3rd place, to be financially stable . - in whose answer there is nothing abnormal in my opinion. The problem, however, is how these words are already interpreted by the ladies. In recent years I have lived abroad. After graduating from high school in Bulgaria, I went to study in the UK, and now I continue my education in the United States and I dare say that I notice a serious difference in the way of thinking and behavior of Bulgarians, compared to people from developed countries / in particular women / . Personally, I can not boast of great success with Bulgarian women / by success I mean not only sex, but also female attention, flirtations and various other jokes /. This weighed a lot on me at the beginning of puberty, I wanted to change, I blamed my parents and the upbringing they gave me for making me like that, but when I went abroad things changed, as did my point of view. Taking into account my personal experience, observations and some facts and drawing the line to take stock, the following truths emerge: For the Bulgarian woman the most suitable man is the one who: * can beat a crowd of people without the presence of specialized audio equipment. * for formal wear, use anzung. * to drink an ugly amount of alcohol, get up from the table and go home driving. The next day to proudly tell of his great deeds, and let the others tell him - Ehaaa! How crazy you are! * can beat most people in the disco before the guards throw him out. For women from Western Europe and the United States, the most suitable man is the one who: * has a good upbringing. * with plans for your future. * funny, but not slimy, kind, but not sweet. * is able to control his emotions. * with a sense of proportion. Most Bulgarian women like the male model, which I have described above for them, but they will certainly say the opposite, that they prefer the second model of men, which is preferred by women in Western Europe and the United States. If you are still wondering and do not understand the answer that passed before the eyes of the upset lady in question, it is as follows: Your actions speak more about you, even if you yourself say the opposite. In other words, "men are such idiots," because you choose them like that, and the most terrible thing, for which I have no explanation, is that once you get burned, you don't take a note, but you catch up with an even more terrible and hardened idiot, which borders on living masochism. I hope to see other opinions and I will be happy if someone can refute my thesis.
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Author, you may be right about yourself, but you are not right in PRINCIPLE. You are a scientist, you understand that in order to make such a generalization as "Bulgarian women fall", you have to make an inquiry and a scientific analysis among at least 1000 RANDOM bg. women and those from the West, for example, then to verify the results, to clear the statistical errors and so on and so forth ... I think you just come from a small town in Bulgaria or have inappropriate company there, while in the West you are among selected people among academics among. If you go to the Bronx and there you will see that women fell for thick criminal elements. I am a woman who has lived at least half of her life in the West. At the beginning, I also had the impression that Bulgarian men were full of rubbish compared to those I met in the rich and big city where I studied. There were only well-dressed people at the university, smoothed children from good families with whom I could speak a language in which the Balkan mentality is unknown ... and blah blah blah. After graduation, I returned to our country, where I made a career and what was my surprise - suddenly I was dealing with men and women who were no different from their Western peers, with whom I was dealing (well, except for the eternal grumbling, negativism and some typical Bulgarian features). My environment in Bulgaria did not consist of people born in my small town, but of people from all over the country, who studied, created a career, people whose values, way of life and CULTURE did not differ significantly from those I had met in the West. . (I'm talking, of course, only for people under 30-35). ... Author, at least compare the same environment in Bulgaria and in the West - for example, academics from the Capital of Bulgaria with academics from the capital of England. The differences will not be so great. To compare the selected students from the Anglo-Saxon universities with the audience in some random Bulgarian pub or with the Bulgarians, as they were 5-6 years ago (when you left the country) is stupid and unscientific. Open your eyes and ears, because there is nothing more misleading and limiting than the prejudices we blindly believe in without the slightest reason to do so. "Why men are such idiots" otherwise you can hear in literally all languages and from every woman in the world, the question is whether you will be one of them or you will move your brain and think logically. The individual case, however striking, is not the rule. ж.28 To compare the selected students from the Anglo-Saxon universities with the audience in some random Bulgarian pub or with the Bulgarians, as they were 5-6 years ago (when you left the country) is stupid and unscientific. Open your eyes and ears, because there is nothing more misleading and limiting than the prejudices we blindly believe in without the slightest reason to do so. "Why men are such idiots" otherwise you can hear in literally all languages and from every woman in the world, the question is whether you will be one of them or you will move your brain and think logically. The individual case, however striking, is not the rule. ж.28 To compare the selected students from the Anglo-Saxon universities with the audience in some random Bulgarian pub or with the Bulgarians, as they were 5-6 years ago (when you left the country) is stupid and unscientific. Open your eyes and ears, because there is nothing more misleading and limiting than the prejudices we blindly believe in without the slightest reason to do so. "Why men are such idiots" otherwise you can hear in literally all languages and from every woman in the world, the question is whether you will be one of them or you will move your brain and think logically. The individual case, however striking, is not the rule. ж.28 for there is nothing more misleading and limiting than the prejudices in which we blindly believe without the slightest reason to do so. "Why men are such idiots" otherwise you can hear in literally all languages and from every woman in the world, the question is whether you will be one of them or you will move your brain and think logically. The individual case, however striking, is not the rule. ж.28 for there is nothing more misleading and limiting than the prejudices in which we blindly believe without the slightest reason to do so. "Why men are such idiots" otherwise you can hear in literally all languages and from every woman in the world, the question is whether you will be one of them or you will move your brain and think logically. The individual case, however striking, is not the rule. ж.28
Author .. and have you ever thought that these women have no choice .. apparently you are quite detached from our native reality .. unfortunately here the mass simplicity does not forgive anyone .. I'm not saying that absolutely everyone and 100% are like that but even if they are brought up and purposefully suppress and cover it up .. because let's say it's not fashionable and they don't fit into the situation .. looking at the "simpletons" how busy they are and how much everyone admires them .. good guys prefer to are such .. as a woman who is looking for the 2nd type of man I can tell you that it is very difficult to find .. I notice that many men and women do not even have any principles or priorities .. they have no hobbies .. no interests .. no quality communication .. it may sound extreme .. but the picture is deplorable ..and the situation is not assessed only sitting in a restaurant and watching people from the side .. if you had joined the women's group maybe you would have judged to what extent you can have a quality conversation with these girls ... because for example I say that I am interested from the theater or that I can't do without a book, everyone looks at me like an alien and tells me "are you crazy who goes to the theater in the 21st century" .. where to look for these developing people ...
Well, I think women go mostly with men who like it. And when it happens to them - these men have the motivation and focus to take down women, that's why the job is done. Unfortunately, those who seem polite are often temeruts, egotists and checkers who do not need real intimacy - that's why the dump is not realized. I'm sorry, but I think that will be the truth. ABSOLUTELY all my girlfriends screamed at nephew "educated men" and I guess that if the "highest simpleton" appears, they will prefer him - do they have another choice?
Your language for education!
You're generally right, author. But there are also women with their minds who have grown up, become smarter or have just always been smart and know who is a man and who is a loser :) The bad thing is that these women have to be looked for a lot and in many places they are almost absent. PP I'm usually not one of those people, but you're supposed to have studied "in the west", you can't make elementary spelling mistakes.
For me, Bulgarian women are one of the simplest women, I don't know about you ...
Author, my requirements for a man also include mastering the Bulgarian spelling. When I see someone who writes to me "officially", "upset lady", "puberty", "upbringing", "emotions", and I feel sorry for him. I don't know what kind of student you are, you only went to England and the USA, obviously the literacy criteria are very low there as well.
You need to clarify that these are women and men from a small town or village. I can not agree on: * with a sense of proportion. While the one with the sense of measure wonders how far his measure is, the one with a little freer feelings has already impregnated the lady ... Also with: * he knows how to control his emotions. This sometimes leads Westerners to their complete suppression (of emotions) ... and then they run after overpriced psychologists. Isn't there sharing, isn't there revelation in front of the partner - put ashes on him ... otherwise at least one psychologist must be included in the couple's scheme ... I also smell: * for formal clothes, he uses an anzung. And doesn't the Westerner use jeans and a sweater? I don't comment on your spelling at all. You will have to change your point of view once again - this time turn it towards you, direct it inside yourself. Being a Man seems very simple, but in fact it is much more complicated, mostly because there are no ready-made recipes for it - neither in the west nor in the east ... Have you ever wondered, for example, what is wrong with a woman who lives with a man with a "good upbringing" (never sincere and never being able to peek into his soul, who never reproaches you while you are wrong, but hides it in himself and then returns it unconsciously as suffering to his partner)? Or with someone who is "funny but not slimy, kind but not sweet" who never manages to relax, do something wild, unusual, and then go to psychologists? Who doesn't do anything romantic because it's "sweet", or if he does, then 1: 1 follows Hollywood patterns and scenarios, of course with a thick commercial "lining" ? And who never manages to take on the role of a hashtag - hey, for variety and to overcome himself, to look with ridicule from the side - and his social status, and his scientific degree, and all the other roles in life, in who imperceptibly and quite seriously lived ... Greetings with "Warrior from the West" of the Colombian and the Mist
Great post, very intelligently and fun written, although long, I read with interest and pleasure. There are many answers to this question. One of them: That we complement each other, that we choose our own self, but its opposite side, ie the bad, negative side in the face of the man next to us, thus subconsciously trying to balance our own personality. And you know that personality is formed by gene, environment of growth and upbringing, personal experience and parental example, so any such choice is strictly subjective. My ideal man is my true close friend, with whom we do not cheat on each other and go through life together and to the end. Everything else makes no sense in the end. Money, success, career, security, children that we can lose in a tragic moment. In the end, there are two of us left. Maybe they call it mutual love? That is my answer. And no, men are not idiots. Only some :)) g, 42g
I don't know what you studied, but your grammar is lame ..
I completely agree with number 1. I just hope that the topic does not turn to the already banal dispute Sofia-province, but obviously the environment is decisive ... Not that in Sofia, especially in the suburbs, it does not have the same gang.
I agree with the author. I'm not one of those mass girls who fall for simpletons who experience themselves as 'bad boys' and spend all day in an anzung shalwar type, thinking of the second Americans, and writing on social media and wherever registrars say they are. from the USA (of course). These types look vulgar, behave vulgarly, and can't make a real self-assessment of exactly where they are and who they are. The girls who fall in love with these country defenders are no different from them, believe me. So, my dear author, don't fill your head with nonsense. No sense in wondering how 'some normal' girl you've seen walks around with such a sulo, and she's no different from him. This is the mentality here. The settlements are present.
I can give you my observations. Women, in general, like CONFIDENT men and cocky. The bad thing is that the gentlemen described above do not have real self-confidence, the air is under pressure and that is why they behave in this way. Their behavior is really confident, but it reaches even insolent and impudent. In general, almost every woman will prefer a complete idiot, a simpleton, as long as he is confident, to an insecure or anxious man. So, you are right that this behavior is justified, but it does not pass the number in all women. The simpler and chalga type of women perceive some gentlemanly attitude as a form of weakness and anxiety, but others would be impressed. M20
The topic is very nice, I personally like it. But just as there are men like you, educated and smart, so there are women with a perspective on their future. not all women from bg fall in love with such "idiots", of course, and not all men here are like that. therefore, what kind of men women fall for in Bulgaria and in other countries, it does not matter the state ... but the character of the man and his preferences. maybe that's your point. there are women who fall in love with this type of men, but not all women in bg are like that ... you are right about the rest. I would not go with such a man, but I would prefer someone intelligent.
It's not just bad taste, it's a struggle for survival. This choice leads to broken hearts.
I find very funny people who make some completely crazy generalizations like "Bulgarian women are the simplest" or "Bulgarian women only fall for idiots" and others. such. No one has the right to make such summaries. If you have met and got to know absolutely all Bulgarian women, then yes, but considering that you are not / are, such statements are UNNECESSARY. On the subject ... I do not particularly agree with the author's thesis. You can't make such comparisons! It was written above why, but I want to add something else - people are the same everywhere, as there are simpletons and idiots here and among men and women, so there are in every other country in the world and vice versa, as there are smart people here , educated and cultured people, so they are everywhere else. I was born in Bulgaria and I think I will die here. I meet new people all the time and just as there are smart people among them, there are also stupid ones, but I can say that it is rare, but really very rare for me to come across an idiot. And one more thing, when you saw that girl with the "highest simpleton" did you wonder what quality he has to be that girl with him. He may be a moron at first glance, but have you ever sat down to talk to him, have you ever bothered to get to know him, but to get to know the real one - hardly. Smart people have said that everyone wears a mask, so next time think about why a smart girl goes with a jerk. did he wonder what quality he possessed to be that girl with him. He may be a moron at first glance, but have you ever sat down to talk to him, have you ever bothered to get to know him, but to get to know the real one - hardly. Smart people have said that everyone wears a mask, so next time think about why a smart girl goes with a jerk. did he wonder what quality he possessed to be that girl with him. He may be a moron at first glance, but have you ever sat down to talk to him, have you ever bothered to get to know him, but to get to know the real one - hardly. Smart people have said that everyone wears a mask, so next time think about why a smart girl goes with a jerk.
16, you think very limited. The earth is the same and Bulgaria is a part of it, which is neither worse than the others, nor better. Is Serbia a bit worse than Bulgaria, for example? At 21, it's funny to limit ourselves like that, there are no more borders.
The problem of the Bulgarian man is his fear "not to catch a cold and not to pass"
I expected to understand from at least one of the opinions why men are such idiots, but alas, apparently no one has an answer to this question! : D
As for me, as a woman with a lot of experience, with a mind in her head, hoping for many years to meet a man who would not compete for the title of "Idiot of the Year", I also despaired of these fruitless hopes of mine. They are just like that! For the record - education here has little in common ... do you know how many "smart idiots" I have encountered in my life ... I can give specific examples.
Because someone needs sexy women
Young man, our women in the East and in the West prefer Illiterate men !!!
The author is full of crap, from head to toe. In the same way that you accuse women of choosing men badly, you yourself choose those who made bad choices. You, on the other hand, fit perfectly with the stereotype "a grumbling Bulgarian, singing about how bad Bulgarian women are (European ones, of course not)". The funny thing here is that it didn't heat up as much as the one you heard in the cafe. You make fun of her, it's a pity you don't realize how your mentality is the same. Language for education and Europe, huh? Pretentiousness and intellectual vanity intercepted, only one of the most important values, stated in the European anthem itself, was omitted: Schiller) Do you want to be European? An American? Here is what a Bulgarian, with a European value system (which you are far from building) it will tell you: Stop generalizing people. Until you get to know each woman or man in particular, you have no authority to set patterns for others, let alone infringe on the dignity of others, male or female, Bulgarian or Pakistani.
The author! This is a pretty old post that I released a year or two ago, I don't remember. Everything is over and forgotten. The thing was that I had a claim to the girl in question, but as my friends from Bulgaria like to say, "I hit another beam of life"! Now, I can't even read the nonsense I posted some time ago. I feel uncomfortable with myself. Whatever! I went on my way, and she went on her way. They are still together and look happy because they can really be for each other. And I! I am devoted to my things. I try to cope with my commitments and achieve the goals I have set for myself in the near future. Thank you all for the answers and frankness and I'm sorry if anyone felt affected by what was written!