Abe, his mother is old, one thing I can't understand - why women never, but never take the first step towards a relationship. Every time signs, numbers, some secret looks and smiles and when you go to her - "fraaaaaaaaaaas one through the face." Is it so hard for a girl to sit next to a boy and tell him that she likes him, to start a conversation, to throw topics and jokes. Why should the boy blush and be ashamed every time
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Abeeeeeeee, not everyone is like that, my dear husband, if it weren't for me to tell him that I like him and I want to be with him, we probably wouldn't be boyfriends yet. In our relationship, the initiative was entirely mine. And it's not about seduction and sex at all.
I also took the first step towards my boy
Not all girls are waiting for the man to take the first step, there are also quite cheeky and cocky "khakis", from which quite often there is no getting rid of. If you prefer such, you will find it. And you won't have to wait long.
What does it matter who is first and who is not? If you like someone and he is obviously more shy than you, you take the first step and do not analyze this action unnecessarily. Otherwise, it turns out that you are either lazy or furry. Either way, it's super congested. If you are just as shy, no one will do anything and you will sit and look dumb and look at each other.
There are some :) Even this suits me more personally. Without unnecessary blades and nonsense. There is no point in pretending to be a clown in front of her. * Syndrome
Number 3 - I don't understand your ironic tone. What's wrong with a girl taking the first step and why it makes her - cheeky and cocky. And then there is no escape. F18
Listen to your heart..whatever comes from inside you do it ... you have to pursue your goals ... so you can miss the moment and then regret..Women give pleasure to be courted ... but I don't think it's always men take the first step..even lately I have the feeling that more and more women are initiators ...
Don't you want to bring you flowers and candies to the meeting and pay the whole bill? Safe from pickles
Why is the opposite the case with me, I always have to act first .. I am of the opinion that most men (or boys in my case - I am 18) are waiting for the woman to take the first step or give them a clear signal. I think they rather want to be absolutely sure that they will be reciprocated so that they do not fail. The other part is that there are still girls who think that a man should act first. Meg *
Number 3: Number 6, congratulations on feeling the irony, but I just note that there are all kinds, for all preferences and tastes. I do not think that the author is right in putting all women under one denominator and using the strong word "never".
There is a saying that the one who takes the first step in most cases remains the one in love with the relationship. :)
Number 6: Number 10: I agree with you. But so far in most of my relationships, I've given the first signals and I just don't think that makes me cheeky. :)
Only now do I think. I don't like to bother. I am not one of those men who will pursue to the last. This does not mean that I am afraid to take the first step, but as long as you see that there is interest from the other side. Otherwise one is exposed, the other feels awkward ... :) Ralph
What does it matter who took which step?!? The whole idea with this first step is a big mess! If you like someone, what's wrong with showing it to them? It doesn't matter if you are a boy / man or a girl / woman. There is hardly a greater compliment (for anyone) than for someone to show you that they like you. And if you can't evaluate it and react correctly, you are a complete fool. Get rid of the person who likes you because you are terribly cool and open and of course he is below your level, and then complain and shed tears that you do not have a boyfriend and that no one pays attention to you. Even if he is not your man, you do not need to insult and humiliate him, because surely, sooner or later you will find yourself in his situation. And if you think you're insured, you're wrong! Bate Itzo said it briefly: Who plays dudes, who does not play - blows the soup! Come on,
THE WOMAN OF 49, with the question ??? Why once you are a woman, in another site a man ??? YOU TOLD ME TO "PROVE" YOU ... first: WHY doesn't he start first ??? second: MISTRESS ??? III ... I will continue in the same spirit to find out why you are doing it ???
UP TO № 5 SYNDROME ??? 49 WOMAN I asked you a question: Why are you both a woman and a man ??? Why do you present yourself differently every time ???
Madam woman at 49. I don't know where it occurred to you that I was posing as a woman and a man. I haven't even written on the site recently. Honestly, I didn't even understand your arguments. Greetings! * Syndrome
TO SYNDROME: I WILL PROVE TO YOU BY WRITING MY 1. "MISTRESS" 2. "WHY DOESN'T YOU ARGUE THE FIRST IN? Do you argue everywhere? in Mr. RosiRos And I ask: for what purpose do you do it ??? I will not write just like that, if it did not impress me !!! GREETINGS:
Sorry ma'am, but I don't think you can prove that I wrote these stories. Firstly because I'm not interested in doing it and secondly I don't know from so many people visiting the site exactly how YOU decided I was doing such nonsense. * Syndrome
* Syndrome, no? tie yourself up. Paranoia is obviously one of the side effects of critical age :)
As it became clear from the above comments, time does not forgive anyone. Some gain weight, others go crazy, and others go crazy. I work in optics. When customers take their glasses and look in the mirror to see how they look, almost everyone reacts with "God, how old I am" or "What are these wrinkles! You have a disgusting mirror!" The truth is that after 35 a person's vision begins to decrease and does not notice well the changes in his face and figure. Sad but true. The important thing, however, is not this, but how you accept the natural aging process. Some people are happy with life and this gives them extra charm, especially those whose wrinkles are from laughter, and others in addition to the loss of young skin have lost the desire to live and the ability to enjoy. And of course, the third kind - people who can not accept this,