I want to ask. Why in every topic - sex, sex, sex? Married women start cheating on their husbands because they do not satisfy them often. And the question is, how do these things suddenly happen? Because when this woman was a teenager, she was looking for true love, she was wary of oligophrenics, of the inappropriate, she was afraid to do it just like that with someone not so familiar. And now? When they became WOMEN, I think they should be even smarter now, but something doesn't look like that. They don't seem to pay attention to the fact that their husbands love them, but some just don't like to have sex that often, or they have some problems or some other reasons and some obstacles in their sexual life and so on. Women seem to be already paying attention to what sex is, how often it is, whether it is good and if something is missing or wrong, they immediately look for a lover and it's strange how they suddenly get along like that, with some men they know very vaguely. And where is this former trust, love, loyalty, understanding that once existed between the two of them? And the man now that he is like that and has problems with ejaculation, is fast for example, and can't hold much? These women do not have such problems, they just spread their legs, moisturize and are ready. Do you think it's easier for them than for us men? But there must be understanding, every family and every couple with their problems. And what happens in the end? She loves him, loves him and suddenly because the man may have some, as I said, problems with ejaculation or erection, etc., his partner needs to show understanding and patience and not start looking for lovers and sleep here and to whomever he desires, as it actually happens! I think that girls should not be like that and love their partners, because I still say that, because there are men with problems in sexual life (erection, ejaculation, etc.), and they also want to be loved, to be have someone next to them, not to be dumped for one sex. Because it is not good, and fair, for a man to give his best and to love his partner with all his heart and always be by her side and be together for 2 years and as a result, in the third year, for example, to be abandoned for a not-so-quality sex. You have to enjoy the little you get, right? The person who has problems and can't change or eliminate them, it's not his fault, you know, so I'm asking you why every third topic you complain about that you are not as satisfied as people, and you immediately went to cheat ?? And when you have some problems, we must always understand you, right, and if sex is not going well, the very next day, you have found someone to do it with and even already do it. Is it fair, given that there are, as I say, men with problems, you already know what. These men, looking at your posts on the site, seem doomed to live alone, unloved by anyone, lonely and abandoned, right ?? (I'm not with such problems, I'm a virgin, so I don't know if I have such problems, but I still remembered that there are such men and I wonder what you think about it, you girls?) I can write a lot on this topic and to give examples and ask questions but I just don't have time and it became a very long post, so for now goodbye and write your opinions and still I think that's enough I gave as an example.
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It is foolish of you to think that a woman goes to a lover for sex. She leaves because of an attitude she lacks at home. He sex can do it and the fattest bum. Why don't women catch a tramp as a lover? And even if a woman lacks only sex, she has masturbating vibrators. Lack of women's romance attitude. A man who has a problem with erection, ejaculation, etc. is not the only problem, it is not without the tongue and fingers. What prevents him from saying kind words to her and caressing her, etc ..
Good job son! Let me tell you, I also notice that in many topics women write that their husband did not satisfy them and that they cheated on him because of that. In one story, a woman wrote that her husband did not satisfy her, then she cheated on him, but he understood and drove her away. Then he even dared to complain that she had never been happy, given that he cared for her, loved her, and even had children. Instead of talking to him, she immediately went to another. In almost all stories it is so - they do not satisfy them, they do not like it, but they do not talk to their husbands. The problem may not be just an erection or ejaculation. It could be some other problem - he may be very busy at work and just not want to have sex. And only if one day they are denied sex - "Come on, he doesn't love me anymore, even though he takes care of me, but we have to have sex every day." I advise dissatisfied women to talk to their husbands about it if they want to several times, and not to abandon it immediately. There may really be a problem. * Yasa
Women / most / who start an extramarital affair are dissatisfied first emotionally, secondly sexually. Attention, attitude towards children and finally sex - this is important. In addition, when things are okay on an emotional level, there is always communication, a way out can be sought, and even sex can be improved by alternative means. But usually the relationship between the two begins to limp, the conflicts deepen and when sex becomes increasingly poor, and sometimes the woman stops finding warmth, love, and why not sex elsewhere. This, by the way, fully applies to many men.
1, what you say is stupid. There were vibrators: D. I also have artificial vaginas, but men want something else. : Д. Author, if you have a problem, it's better to take care of it instead of complaining and talking nonsense that sex was not important.
Something is still missing, there are cases like the ones described by the author, but there the problems were the same before the marriage - it is foolish to think that the marriage itself will solve them, there are specialists for this job. "Perfect sex" is often mentioned in the posts, and yet infidelity is present - as many cases as there are reasons and more and more justified. Recently, an elderly woman said the following on the topic: "Don't think that everything was fine with us and there were no dirt, but now you seem to be looking for reasons to justify your freedom, that it leaves a person without a job and kills him for nonsense." . Her daughter-in-law left her son even after twenty years of marriage because of a much younger man - for her her logic is the most correct. And as for the reasons for the break-up - whoever seeks them - will always find them and be right - but it's good to know that one-sided guilt does not exist, it is good to keep one thing in mind when reading dramas. Winnie the Pooh
You are absolutely right! It is written to you by a woman who has agreed to love the father of her children. When there is trust and love, sex is the smallest problem for a responsible woman. But it seems that the whole mass culture preaches something else ... At every step there is a temptation for both husband and wife. The weaker anget somehow works at the first signal and ... people cheat. Then they look for excuses. I would understand a confused woman who makes a mistake in a moment of weakness, but to consciously look for a sexual substitute is very selfish. Cheap...
Yes, women are like that, it's good that you understand it. Over the years, I've learned to feel what's wrong. And it brought me a lot of sexual thrills. On the other hand, I'm always careful when I'm in a relationship myself. Sometimes I have to have more sex than I want just to be calm, but that's not a guarantee.
Coco, author, not that I will say it out of female solidarity or simply because I think so, but from my experience I see that women are looking for something emotional and then sexual. Otherwise, you are right about how women do not evaluate their halves, you are right about the fact that it is not right to sleep left and right ... But who cares? You see what kind of society we live in. Decent people ... are decreasing ... Too bad for that!
The author: I agree with number 6, with what she said at the end, that they are looking for a replacement immediately. Since I am a virgin, let me ask, don't you have hands, women ?? I have been working by hand for 6 years now and I do not complain !!!
AUTHOR: I'm not opening a new topic, so I'm going to ask here something that seems to be extremely stupid and inexplicable to some extent. A woman who doesn't have a partner, for example, doesn't have one and that's it, she's not looking for someone to have sex with, but she lives alone, she does what she likes to do the most and everything is great for her, isn't it? And when the same one finds a partner and they already go together, long enough to start having sex and here comes the strangest thing: 1 month it happened that the man did not have much sex and they did, say, only 5 times a month, and the next month like that, they have a little sex, 3-4 times a month, for example, and already this woman who has not been with a man for 2 years, for example, before, and has not had sex, now that she has a man and despite that they rarely have sex in the last 2 months, but they STILL DO IT RIGHT ?? But she starts to harass her with this fact and starts to think about whether to find a lover and almost after 3 days she does it - she finds a lover and it starts with infidelity !! How do these things happen ?? I do not know!
They are obtained when a lack of love is felt. As a lady is alone, she does not rely on the lonely room to love and satisfy her sexually and there are no relationships that need to be "worked" - so to speak - it's easy! It is difficult as we have to make an effort in our relationship, most do not and in the first problem they solve it with the presence of a third person .. - it's easy! In general ... no one likes to give a lot, a lot of effort to build, given that it is easier and more convenient to demolish, especially when he can point a finger at someone else for his own desires. But anyway, in a relationship where there is a desire to escape from problems and to escape in general - there can be no development and constructiveness, and therefore true happiness for any of the parties!