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Why They Only Want Sex

By travelgram_korea August 29, 2020 12 answers Last updated August 29, 2020

Hello. I want to ask one thing because I'm interested. But first let me clarify that I am a boy :) So my question is why boys (most of them, not to say all) only want sex from one girl? In a good sense, a boy wants sex and starts to enchant and entangle some decent girls in his cobwebs, bullies them and then when he achieves his goal, he clearly leaves them, breaks their heart, etc. But of course he may fail. to achieve his goal, but still, he hurts the girl after he leaves her, and she already liked him, she was deceived and ... you know what I mean. And I ask, if you can't do this and that sex, they have the highway, it's close, they go there, highways, they pay and everything works out and no one is hurt in the end and everything is correct. But what do they do? They hurt the girls, the decent ones who are looking for love, I say it, as I follow the topics here, and there are many such topics in which such events are talked about and shared. For example, if I want sex, I will do so - with a highway and that's it. I don't care about sex, I won't care that I can, for example, catch a sexually transmitted disease. But these guys are probably afraid of walking on highways, that they can get some disease, and that's why they decide to hurt normal girls? When a person starts to have fun and wants to have fun, he doesn't think about the consequences, does he? But they can't, they are afraid of something, innocent girls will use them .... There are also dating sites, especially for such purposes - to find sex partners. Well, they can also look for sex there if they don't want highways. But they seem to prefer to play the girls, the normal ones, and then leave them, after they have achieved their goal, or at least tried, but again, they do not think that this hurts the girls. But everything comes back !!! Instead of committing seriously and doing something in this life ... I can't figure out where they're in such a hurry, and there's room and time for everything. I'm just curious what the GIRLS think, especially on this issue.

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nnewd_ answered · August 29, 2020

   And what do you think a man and a woman gather in general - to touch their ears and tickle their heels? Once you answer this question honestly and objectively enough, know that some people are just trying to save their efforts until they achieve the end result. And these efforts are an important process in which the woman gets to know the man and assesses how stable and reliable a partner in the upbringing and education of the generation he could be. Women who immediately throw themselves into sex usually end up very badly - used and abandoned, hating their passing partners, as well as men in general, with children who either have to throw them in the trash or raise and support themselves for life ... It's easiest to have fun with someone and forget about the case (if you don't like it) - isn't it? Hormones and ego (sense of self-importance) require it ... And if you can save the effort of courtship, as well as possible complications then - even better, right? That's why ...

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moonypie answered · August 29, 2020

   Men are terrible, that's why I became a lesbian

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akremer answered · August 29, 2020

   №2, this will NOT help you - your partners (be they men or women) are just your mirror. Change yourself and you will (be amazed at how you will) change your partners.

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eyemediaa answered · August 29, 2020

   №3 everyone makes their choice. I made my own and I don't see what your problem is. You are not the person to tell me whether to change or not. You don't know me, you don't know anything about me. I DON'T KNOW WHY you're speaking unprepared. One can no longer write one's opinion because of connoisseurs like you.

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ntv7malaysia answered · August 29, 2020

   Author, you are very naive (at least that's how you sound). In my opinion, you are still a young man who has not experienced any good moments, who at some stage in his life was abandoned by a girl who was just looking for sex :) I think you failed to offer this girl anything interesting and fun (I mean and in seska) and she eventually abandoned you. There will always be boys who are only looking for sex and there will always be girls who will offer it to them - this is what the world revolves around. Don't think so. I'm sure if you had a "sex girlfriend" you would have a different opinion. Keep your head up. * Borko

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alicia_lang answered · August 29, 2020

   №3, I don't know you specifically, but I know enough people who share your opinion, and I know what they represent. I'm not the person to tell you whether to change or not - says the scoundrel you came to, as well as your thoughts about men who are not true. I'm just telling you that IF you find the will to change (I don't specify how at all), you will rediscover yourself, as well as others, as well as men, and you will understand that the reason is not in them. THEY ARE JUST ONE OF YOUR MIRRORS. Admit it honestly - am I a "connoisseur" or is it the person who claims: "Men are terrible" and "BECAUSE OF THAT I became what you are ..." Sorry for the inconvenience ... I know that without such like me, the world will be much simpler for you, and life will be much easier ...

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lisaloves6ix9 answered · August 30, 2020

   Not all men are as you describe them.

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tamara_pl answered · August 30, 2020

   Unfortunately, in most cases this is the truth. Most men are mostly oriented towards this. But it is not good to put everyone under a common denominator. If it comes to such girls. I personally know decent men who are hurt. I wish everyone to find their soul mate, as I found her. Good luck and love!

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hatakenjiro answered · August 30, 2020

   not all men are as you describe them I can tell you that there are women who only seek sex and hurt decent men I am one of them I was hurt several times because I came across such women constantly for a long time I do not look for a woman when I want sex I go I pay and I forget about what happened so it's much better for me I prefer to pay for sex than to come across the wrong woman again and get hurt

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angy_small answered · August 31, 2020

   'And I ask if it is not possible to do this and that sex, they have the highway, it's close, they go there, highways, they pay and everything happens and no one is hurt in the end and everything is correct. 'That's right, author. K ... ari at k .... they go, not to hurt normal and honest girls.

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beautydesire answered · August 31, 2020

   So a man who is looking for a partner in life is normal to try with one, with a second, with a third ... and so on until he finds it. During this time he has sex with them but I do not think that only sex is the goal but rather the search for a serious relationship. Otherwise, really everyone would pay someone for sex and that's it. But on the highway there is no chance to find your partner. The bad thing is sometimes when trying for a couple one or the man or woman decides that this is his man and the other is not of this opinion and says "well you just use me" But this is life :-) And I do not think that when one a man and a woman have sex then HE uses HER or she in this case gives him something to HIM. Sex is a pleasure for both.

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alexanim answered · August 31, 2020

   author, you're right, that's right ... but everyone likes the thrill of the hunter, this is the truth, then you brag about beer, I put in this one and that one.