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Why Would A Man Want To Be Intimate With A Woman Older Than Him?

By tonyjh46 August 31, 2020 33 answers Last updated August 31, 2020

I wonder why a lot of men say 20 to 30 and a few years are attracted to more mature women. The difference to say with 5 to 15 years is used by the woman. Shouldn't they be more attracted to young, slender girls with narrower vaginas. They are more open to life, while ladies over 30 are more cynical now. Here I am asking not about serious relationships, but about sex. I'm over 30 and it's very strange for me when boys 20-25 start to take me down. I keep wondering if these people are so upset and have no choice among their peers?

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imax answered · August 31, 2020

   ,, CATCH YOUR COFFEE, LET YOU GRAIN YOU "! An old folk saying, but relevant !!!

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playtimemilf00 answered · August 31, 2020

   I don't know, I like younger ones. I guess because the young are more capricious and the adults are more flamboyant, because they are already disappointed in love, and they don't have self-confidence like the young and somehow they aren't as stressful as the young who spin you on a skewer while they let you go.

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coreygamble answered · August 31, 2020

   Oedipus complex and the advantage of not being able to get pregnant anymore.

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ford answered · August 31, 2020

   Oedipus complex.

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amaya__ answered · August 31, 2020

   Not only with 20-25 year olds. I am 46 and I am attracted to nice-looking and intelligent women over 55 to 60 years old. I don't know why, but the feeling is different with them and I can't say that I miss anything about sex with them.

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aum_supperstar_mother answered · September 01, 2020

   If I have to talk about myself, the reason lies in intellect and class. Yes, young girls are tighter and more energetic, but many of them are stupid, capricious and slimy. They don't know what they want, they follow the new fashions and dress strangely. For many of them, eating is a hobby, and watching netflix all day is an event. Because they are still young and aware of it, they tend to replace you if they decide there is something better. On the other hand, we have women over 30. Already grown up, they dress stylishly (some of them), more intelligent, which means that you can talk to them. He would take such a woman to an elegant restaurant. They are not greedy to save the world because they have realized that they must first change themselves. You have a lot in common, you do not rely on yours to support you and you understand that sex is not done in order to keep someone in a relationship, but for mutual pleasure. They are not naive, on the contrary. They already understand the world and achieve their goals through the accumulated knowledge. In short, they have class.

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yourhealthcareyhc answered · September 01, 2020

   A fact of my life. My first anal sex was with a 32-year-old woman, unmarried, seven years older than me. And not me, but she asked for it.

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food_retail answered · September 02, 2020

   Because if you're a slipped-out bag, you're more likely to stab it in the anus. Brother.

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irishboy2001 answered · September 02, 2020

   Very nice comments 3 and 7! I will add that most of the younger girls go with older ones and the trend is intensifying, as you can see, over the years a lot! Most young men aged 18-25 do not find girls their age for a serious relationship. If it happens, it will be something short ... Women over 30 start to perceive the world in a more correct way, an extra dose of intelligence comes to their heads and they will rarely hurt you like a 20-year-old! You understand men better, which makes us feel closer emotionally to you. Well, about the topic! And I'm ready for you !!! M30

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limemarry answered · September 02, 2020

   Empty fashion ...

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peta2 answered · September 03, 2020

   An interesting topic. I am a woman, 31. Men of all ages, including younger ones, take me down. In principle, I like men my age and I do not know their reasons to take down women 5 years above theirs. But I can tell you how I think I've changed for the better over the years. First, the vision. As a child I did not pay so much attention to sports and health, I did not understand much about makeup and clothes. In principle, I am beautiful, but over time I realized that I did not have the clearest idea of ​​how to present myself in the best light. Now I exercise and eat right, I would say I'm in the best shape ever. I put on very little make-up, I learned which clothes emphasize my femininity, I know how to style my hair, what perfume to wear, etc. things that look small but make a huge difference. Second, the character. I work now, I have a serious education, diverse interests, self-confidence, I learned to cook, to maintain my home. I know what I like, what I want and I'm always looking for a way to achieve it. All things that matter a lot in a relationship. Against the background of my previous immature and disoriented image, I now know that there is much to offer. Finally, sex. I've always been a sexualist and quite naughty in bed, but with experience and relationships comes more confidence, more skills. I no longer worry about what anyone will think when they see me naked, I don't wonder if I should tell him what I like, I don't think constantly, if I do it right. Things happen much easier and without unnecessary drama. That's right. After all, I've always met people my age, because the same things apply to them. Still, I prefer an already built man.

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mreasonchan answered · September 03, 2020

   Because it's better to catch an old woman than a 20-year-old. Otherwise I like the hypocrites here :), a 15-year-old with a 30-year-old can, but a 20-year-old with a 30-year-old can't :). It is obvious what kind of people are bent, and not only in Bulgaria, but in the world as a whole. Fuck the perversions ... I hate when someone 10 years younger than me comes to me, I immediately smell what they are looking for ...

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serina_surrenders answered · September 03, 2020

   Many factors play a role, but with different weight in each case. One of the main reasons is that older people are more experienced and mostly more relaxed. Young women have tighter bodies, adults have a more whore look. The Oedipus complex is another factor, often resulting from emotional deficits, often as a result of an upbringing that is considered "masculine" today. In addition, this gives a "taboo" factor to such relationships, which arouse the fetishistic fantasies of boys.

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sublime answered · September 04, 2020

   Enough nonsense intellect, class, Oedipus complex, etc. The reason in 90% of cases is one - personal complexes and failures with young women. They can't settle with young people, and almost everyone is guaranteed to want it. They imagine that women of many years are depressed, insecure about their appearance and stuck to fucking, and when they get a chance with someone younger, they will throw themselves and will not give up. Or if he is not perfect as a figure, the older woman will not pay attention, because she considers herself imperfect anymore. Separately, he can make himself interesting in front of his friends - all with young women, and he can tell how he fucked some aunt.

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style_and_haute_couture answered · September 04, 2020

   And it's weird to me, they should like their age, not older. I like women my age, as well as 2-3 years younger than me and this is normal in my opinion.

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booshbot answered · September 04, 2020

   Will this topic be chewed again? Last year at least 5 people released it. They walk with older ones because they play easier, didn't you understand?

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janeoineza answered · September 04, 2020

   For the same reason that we young girls fall in love with older men. Vision, style, class and mind.

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casey_williams answered · September 05, 2020

   Because young girls (women) aged 20-25 usually do not know what world they are in, most behave like mother's daughters with a mind of 12 years. Even if it is not a serious relationship, it is still quite repulsive.

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amy_quinn420 answered · September 05, 2020

   I remember when I was 20, I had a relationship with a 27-year-old woman. Before her I had slept with 2-3 girls, one of whom was a virgin, the others inexperienced (not that I was experienced). Honestly, before this poop I just didn't know what sex was. Stormy, passionate, experienced, liberated, knowing what a WOMAN wants, not some girl. Right after having sex with her, I said to myself, "I'm starting to become a man." Of course, it wasn't just sex. We fit in, honestly I didn't understand what he saw in me. The conversations with her were different, on another level. A woman with more life experience, more knowledge in a number of areas, etc. There is something romantic in the older woman. Maybe it's some kind of fetish, maybe it's really some kind of oedipal complex. I don't think there is only one reason. Fetish, complex, forbidden fruit, thirst for something new, curiosity.

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stylebender answered · September 05, 2020

   H 7, thanks for the opinion! I am a woman over 40 and I have an extremely strong and full-fledged relationship with a man much younger than me! I've always wondered what he finds in me so much that he wants me like that and makes me so happy, and here's the answer, you gave it here, right in the tithe: it's definitely not and never will be just sex between us! Thanks for the kind words about us, the more mature ones! And let's not forget - my best orgasm was with him, not because he is resilient and gifted, but because he drove me crazy and made me feel like a woman to the marrow of my bones long before we even thought about having sex ...

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mannymua answered · September 05, 2020

   15 years difference is a lot, but 5 years is nothing. 10 is a difference, but not very big. Well, why, because women aged 18-20, as young and beautiful as they are, are boring and inexperienced in sex, in general. And if they have a lot of sexual experience, men will label them a "whore". After 25 years, it is normal for them to have gained experience, to know what they want and how they want it, they know how to give pleasure to a man and at the same time they continue to be young and beautiful and if they support themselves, they will be up to 35 years old. It is funny for the wide vagina, if the woman has not given birth and is not over 40 years old, there is no need for it to be wider at the bottom. No wonder I don't see, it's not the age as a number that matters, but the vision and the character of the woman.

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adjequieoficial answered · September 06, 2020

   I am 44 years old, nice and quite well-preserved. I am divorced and looking for company from men around my age. To my horror, they stick to me or attract young boys in the range of 27-30 years old, but they are not suitable for a relationship. I think I will stay alone :))

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officialbarnesy answered · September 06, 2020

   I know :) I probably think that we are sex goddesses and we have no taboos :) I'm 45 and there is interest from young people. Strange that 4-6 years ago, I did not feel like that. But I'm a can and for me the maximum in years is 4, either in favor of the man or mine.

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bcnopenbs answered · September 06, 2020

   I'm 33, I look 25, but I have more intelligence than a kid. And I support myself because I know my age. So why not?

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emily_hill1 answered · September 06, 2020

   Hello, Interesting topic and I was wondering WHY? But the answer is clear..Just because they are mature they know how and have no restraints.Experience.I had a girlfriend before the barracks super beautiful with whom we had sex -maybe he was nice, and I had no experience.I fired I was waiting. But sex was standard twice a week, Nothing different, and I wanted new things. Behind-taboo-shela to expand so they said ... Oral very rarely after long bargains..It remained to sleep with me, but I woke up dissatisfied ... We broke up and we were 21. I found a new girlfriend, It's sex every other day, but she didn't let me cum in her with a condom, Oral sex was below her dignity, and when I cummed on her breasts it was cause for scandal ... I'm not a sex maniac, I just briefly describe my sex life until then. And then SHE appeared. Beautiful, elegant, stylish, charming..At 37 years -15 years older ...Well, it's not an Oedipus complex..Complete opposite of my peers I was with until then..We went out and kissed her in a bar, caressed her thighs-all things that were not allowed to me..I remember that when we went home we had sex all night ... Just like I dreamed..In the morning I couldn't get out of bed I slept until noon..And she went to work..In the evening we saw each other and she asked me "Have you fucked a 37 year old woman so far?" I answered NO , but I can't compare it with the two 20 g pickles with which I wasted my time. Wild free and passionate sex followed .. I fucked her from behind and ended up in her ... During oral sex he licked the last drop. He made me fly. I felt like a man .... We fucked on a bench in the park, in the pool, on the beach in Sozopol, in a car. I can call her my -Teacher-But we had to separate. She left to live in Sofia ... Now is abroad ...After her I didn't want to look at 20-25 years .. I continued with a 33 g poop. Also very passionate ... I managed to finish it 4-5 times a night. I saw what a squirt was, we did a threesome with her and a friend. ..Well memories..After such an experience with 28-year-old poop, I got married to a 30-year-old poop, of course. blowjob, sex once a month. And in the back - I think he let me go for the previous Christmas. And again I started to look around, but this time for some 20-25 years ... They say that the wheel of history was turning ... Maybe and the time has come for me to knock for some 25 years. It's time for meAfter such an experience with 28-year-old poop, I got married to a 30-year-old poop, of course. I'm getting older .. When we got married - a sex dream..But after 18 years of marriage ... calm. No whistle, no sex once in months. And in the back - I think he let me go for the previous Christmas. And again I started to look around, but this time for some 20-25 years ... They say that the wheel of history was turning ... Maybe the time has come for me to I've been knocking for about 25 years. It's my timeAfter such an experience with 28-year-old poop, I got married to a 30-year-old poop, of course. I'm getting older. When we got married, it was a sex dream. But after 18 years of marriage ... calm down. months. And in the back - I think he let me go for the previous Christmas. And again I started to look around, but this time for some 20-25 years ... They say that the wheel of history was turning ... Maybe the time has come for me to I've been knocking for about 25 years. It's time for me

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divinedevil66 answered · September 07, 2020

   sexual pathology as a result of mental disorders is not treated

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chene23 answered · September 07, 2020

   It was just for me to try. When I was under 30, I really wanted to fuck a woman at least 40 years old, and even my boyfriend had one that looked bad and I'm definitely not proud to have sex with her. Well, she was the first woman over 40 to have casual sex with me, so I couldn't miss it. Then I fucked other women about 40 and older, but not because it was an end in itself, but simply because that's how things turned out. I even had sex with a woman for a few months, and she was 18 years older than me (we saw each other 2-3 times a month for sex and nothing more), but she was really very reserved for her age, it was very good at sex, and in general I had something to say to her. I'm 34 now, and to have sex with a woman over 40, she definitely has to be a really good MILF, because at the moment I'm more attracted to younger women and a compromise to be with someone older than me would only make if it's really worth it. As for whether they are good at sex - it depends on the man, not his age. If a woman is good at sex at 20, she will be good at 50, and if it is a tragedy at 20, then at 50 it will be the same situation (well, it will be a little better, because of the experience gained, but in general I have hardly had many cases of women who at 20 are trees and then at 50 become sexual furies). In general, it is an interesting and fun experience, which I think is definitely worth a try and I do not regret that I was with women older than me. because at the moment I am more attracted to younger women and I would only compromise to be older than myself if it was really worth it. As for whether they are good at sex - it depends on the man, not his age. If a woman is good at sex at 20, she will be good at 50, and if it is a tragedy at 20, then at 50 it will be the same situation (well, it will be a little better, because of the experience gained, but in general I have hardly had many cases of women who at 20 are trees and then at 50 become sexual furies). In general, it is an interesting and fun experience, which I think is definitely worth a try and I do not regret that I was with women older than me. because at the moment I am more attracted to younger women and I would only compromise to be older than myself if it was really worth it. As for whether they are good at sex - it depends on the man, not his age. If a woman is good at sex at 20, she will be good at 50, and if it is a tragedy at 20, then at 50 it will be the same situation (well, it will be a little better, because of the experience gained, but in general I have hardly had many cases of women who at 20 are trees and then at 50 become sexual furies). In general, it is an interesting and fun experience, which I think is definitely worth a try and I do not regret that I have been with women older than me. she will be good at 50, and if it is a tragedy at 20, then at 50 it will be the same situation (well, it will be a little better, because of the experience gained, but in general I have hardly had many cases of women who 20 are trees, and then 50 become sexual furies). In general, it is an interesting and fun experience, which I think is definitely worth a try and I do not regret that I have been with women older than me. she will be good at 50, and if it is a tragedy at 20, then at 50 it will be the same situation (well, it will be a little better, because of the experience gained, but in general I have hardly had many cases of women who 20 are trees, and then 50 become sexual furies). In general, it is an interesting and fun experience, which I think is definitely worth a try and I do not regret that I was with women older than me.

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internationalloopsllc answered · September 07, 2020

   Because the little pickles perceive serious men as handkerchiefs. There is nothing stronger than a 30-year-old poop that no one wants anymore, and it burns from the inside and wants someone to just touch it .. And not only ...

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ambyrchilders_official answered · September 07, 2020

   There are meaningful conversations, everything is going well in intimate terms. Real thinking, they understand, is not infantile. Those who had an affair with a great lady understood me.

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reprwilliams answered · September 07, 2020

   I had sex with a 42-year-old. Our difference was exactly 10 years. We had good moments, but she had some fixed idea to deepen the relationship. That was not in my plans. I am now 36 and I would definitely not communicate intimately with an older and one year old. I'm looking for a young boyfriend. It's time for family.

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annyrussell_ answered · September 08, 2020

   They are mature and think more sensibly, sex classes above the young. A woman of 30 and a girl of 20 - the superlatives are for the 30-year-old. There is a difference.

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sara_brown__ answered · September 08, 2020

   32, exactly 30-year-olds want them, and you don't become such pickles as you for a cabbage stick. If a 30-year-old poop deals with you, it will be to be a free gigolo and then throw you out the door like a dirty kitten.

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stephsean answered · September 08, 2020

   It's cool how to fuck you if you're about twenty and this shit to be in your thirties. But above, this is already losing its meaning.