The story is this - We were together twice and after the second he behaved strangely, sometimes nice, sometimes talking behind my back. One day he told me he didn't want to see me anymore. I cried, it was hard for me, but I didn't look for him anymore. Four months passed and he wrote to me as if nothing had happened. I reminded him of his words and he apologized to me. At first I did not forgive, but then I gave in. But I couldn't swallow the past. He had hurt me. So I instinctively scandalized him, talked behind his back, hurt him, betrayed him, but he forgave me everything, even told me that he would forgive me everything, apologized to me, complied with my wishes. When I was rude, he treated me like I did. Abe, like a cat and a mouse, we were 9 months old. Everyone told me he liked me more, and he told him I liked him. We said to each other that we love each other ... Finally I told him how I felt, he didn't believe me, and then he cut me off. A week passed and I told him that I did not want to communicate with him anymore, he did not agree to leave my life. But a few days later we talked and he told me how he wanted everything to end well. I was sick, but I agreed. We saw each other a few times, first he didn't look at me and then he stared at me, but he spoke badly to others about me and he hated me in front of them. My thought is ... Will he ever come back? but he speaks ill of me to others, and he hates me before them. My thought is ... Will he ever come back? but he speaks ill of me to others, and he hates me before them. My thought is ... Will he ever come back?
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And it won't be normal for anything between you to come back ... so you just don't go back to it
Will return! For a little sex with the "hollow watering can" - then, a little insult behind his back and so on. A little dignity, self-respect and pride are not superfluous in your case. I guess you have naughty models in life, (mothers don't respect her or something) what I'm telling you is that your behavior is not normal and your question is simple, to put it mildly Infantile !!!
Scenario hot-cold again. Why? Why can't you be sincere and open and concerned about the other's feelings and distort love in a child's play? In this way you only hurt each other and fail the opportunities that life gives you to be happy. When someone is warm to you and you should be warm to him and not cold, when someone is approaching you and you should be approaching him and not moving away. If you act inadequately then you suffer.