I am a woman of 22 and a little over a year ago I found a boyfriend and only then did I have sex for the first time. We didn't fight at all, but after a year we got bored and didn't love each other like before and we broke up. I'm shy and then I was surprised to find a boyfriend. Then I was afraid that I would die a virgin, and now I am afraid that I will die without my family. We had met at our university. It hadn't bothered him that I was a virgin in my sophomore year. Otherwise, by chance, will I ever be able to find a boyfriend. Whether at work or while going to the store or on a bus or whatever. I went out with my friends in the city, but I rarely went to discos. And now in the city with the university I drink coffee with my colleagues and also very rarely and after lectures we go out and I went out with my ex. The other time I stay in the dormitory. That's why I wonder if I won't be able to find a boyfriend someday if I'm not very sociable and don't go out much. At least I already have some confidence. I'm thinking in a few years if I don't have to register on a dating site. But I've read about them that a lot of old men post fake young photos or that someone just wants sex or to cheat on their boyfriend. And the former first started talking to me and I answered. Would it be good to wait for a man to start again, because I will be very ashamed to start with someone. Ever since I've been with him, I've started to dress better and put on make-up sometimes. Before that I even thought that I would never want children, that it was diapers, roaring, money, but after I was with him I realized that if I ever really love someone I would want to grow old with him and have a child. When I turned 80, I shouldn't wonder why I lived at all and that I missed the best in life. And I don't care how much the man's money will be. I will work too. And lastly, I like decent men, I won't let anyone beat me or come home drunk every day. There are decent believe. The former drank only on friends' birthdays when he walked and still did not get drunk.
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I'm 20 and like you I'm pretty shy. You are not alone, everything is waiting for its time, believe me.
We are not God, how do we know if you will die without a family. There is something called destiny
When I look at your spelling, you will either be alone or you will be one of those who get drunk ...
You are still quite young. Things will change drastically when you finish and start working. All sorts of contacts and people will start to appear. Don't think that now, but study. М35г.
You spend a lot of time thinking about things that just happen by accident. Even if you don't want to, you will meet a lot of people, we live in such times. It is enough to have basic communication skills, enough to maintain a normal conversation and ask questions. Have I been to a disco 2-3 times in my life, but today I share my home with someone and we make plans for a wedding and a baby. Discos are not the only place where you can meet people, do not be afraid.