Hello! I'm a girl who will be in 7th grade this year. I have a little worry ... I have a lot of friends at the moment, but I know who are my real friends and who aren't (I haven't lost those who aren't my real friends, because I don't care to get extra negatives), but I I'm worried in the new school if things won't change. I am quite tall for a girl (175 cm) and I do not have a great figure. Meaning I'm not fat, but I'm not weak (definitely). Something in between. People define me as a normal structure (I always add "with a penchant for fat" or something of the sort. It literally defines myself as "fat fat." Everyone around me says I'm cute, cool, funny, and with a unique sense of humor. that is so). When someone betrays me or something happens and ends a relationship, I get extremely angry, but only at the person in question. So my question is whether someone will want to get acquainted with me with these shortcomings of mine (height, structure) and whether because of them I will not be left without friends. Thanks in advance❤️
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If someone doesn't like you because of your structure, don't just deal with them - you don't need such superficial people. But do not be superficial, but give a chance to all people.
But you have yet to develop as a woman. When you turn 18-19 you will not be the same. Calm down, 175 is not much. I am 180 and I have many candidates. Don't worry at all.
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'' I'm quite tall for a girl - 175 cm '' '' Great figure '' Yeah, you'll be alone.
Don't worry, author, don't get complex. As a 6th grader for 7th grade, I will tell you that you will not be left alone. Norwegian scientists call these harmful thoughts viruses. You must not allow them to reach you. He thinks people will appreciate you being nice, cool, funny. I recommend that you write motivating and kind words about yourself on a poster or sheet, stick them to your bed and you will constantly see and read them. Good luck in life, I also wish you luck and happiness! One girl
A long time ago, as a student, I had a classmate we called the Yeti. She was big, silent and closed, just like me. On an excursion we found ourselves alone and for the first time in my life I suggested to a girl to undress and talk. To my surprise, she agreed. And so until we finished at every opportunity, either at home or with them, we would undress and "talk" to each other. Now I have a very fond memory, but unfortunately it is only a memory.
Thanks to everyone for the tips! After a scandal with my mother (on this topic) I try to be on the bed that I am beautiful and that my body is not so bad ... In fact, my problem seemed to be that I looked at myself and found thousands of flaws, and at the same time I didn't realize for a while that the others weren't perfect either. Thank you very much again and especially for the advice of One girl. Otherwise, your comments worked great for me