Hello, I am a girl of 20 from Balchik. More than a year ago I met a boy, originally from Balchik, 24, but living and studying in Plovdiv. When we met he was engaged for 2 years, but we constantly communicated, he behaved very well, he was very kind. He broke up with his girlfriend a few months ago and I wonder if he can be serious with me. I really want to be with him, but the fact that he had a serious girlfriend and cheated on her with me worries me a lot. On the other hand, he behaves literally as a child (he constantly posts his opinion statuses, most of the time he jokes and can't be serious), I know that he writes to others, but he denies, I have many times closed my eyes to his mistakes no matter what they were and how much they hurt me. I keep being with him because he showed me that he cares about me, he cares about me, he behaves so well, and he is the only boy I have any feelings for after my ex, with whom I broke up 4 years ago. I'm confused by his behavior and I don't know what to do, I don't want to be sorry if I leave him, but his behavior hurts me ... Does it make sense to keep being with him or does he just Use me because I'm comfortable with him, because I know that he still has feelings for his ex.
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You will certainly regret it, but not if you leave him, but if you continue to have a relationship with him! A person, if he cares about you, if he wants something serious with you, will show it to you in every way. He will try to make you feel happy, not hurt. You realize very well that as he did to his ex-girlfriend, he can easily do the same to you.
Never deal with a man who has feelings for his ex or one who claims to have a real love affair with another.
If I understood correctly - at 16 you broke up with your ex (with whom you went at 15), then 4 years of drought, you were (and you are) his mistress and you ask if you should remain his mistress? Egati! Some women have no idea what a "relationship" is and what the difference is between a boyfriend and a tramp!
You will hardly regret it, you better look around for other possibilities. Don't just bet on this one because you risk losing.
I just didn't understand - are you squirming or not? And did you flirt while he was still with his ex? If the answer to both questions is yes, then I don't see why you're bothering. Understand - you are no different from him, so apart from giving him anal, you have no choice.
If you have the mind and experience, you would not regret a gram!
As I read, you haven't taken it yet, so take it first and if you regret it later, leave it. If you try it and you don't like it, you won't regret leaving it - guarantee;))
Enough with these stupid topics! Who knows this person better than you? You can't evaluate it, who else can evaluate it, not knowing it at all. He behaves like a child at the age of 24, and how do you behave at the age of 20? A person in need knows each other, if you do not live together, how can you know if it is worth it. Watch your beans!
"He showed me that he cares about me, he is interested in me" He is interested because he has an interest in you, namely to let him go. Stop letting him go and I bet he'll stop caring about you that much. If you were a person you could count on, you would hardly feel confused. And remember the most important thing - if someone cheats on you, they will most likely cheat on you too.
No and no! Complex boy, thirsty for attention! Believe me, I know enough of them ... Supposedly in a relationship, but close to MANY other girls ... Stay away from such. They are still childish and not masculine.
And I can be gentle and kind to a woman if I sleep with her and if she gives me nice blowjobs. We boys are like that, we lie to you and behave well to get you in and to keep you in bed. However, if he wants to introduce you to his friends, to go out more often, etc., then he wants something serious! And when I look, only your acquaintance extends to bed judo
10, and what is male behavior, just to slap? A woman can never be pleased!
I was referring to his behavior, number 12 - flirting with others while in a relationship, releasing child statuses (how stupid do you have to be to release such statuses unless you're 13-14?), Preferably female company, as far as I understand other slimy actions (the author only hints at them, but she is obviously very disappointed). A normal man does not have such behavior on social networks and does not deceive anyone, but is honest and open, and keeps his choice and word. All the others are lignins.