I can't handle my own life ... And because I'm so indecisive, I set out to seek advice from complete strangers ... In every story involving a difficult decision, a man or a woman is involved. .. In my case he is a man. My boyfriend and I have been together for years, living together in an apartment in a city that was not born for both of us. Now he has decided that he wants us to return to where we are from, to start his own business and his life to become almost a paradise, because now he still lacks something (from a material point of view) .... And in general gets a slightly funny and silly paradox, we live together, we talk about a baby and a wedding and at one point he decides that we will return to that city and everyone will live happily with mom .... Together we will talk, but everyone will he knows his house. He didn't even bother to make a proposal like "do you want to live together again, but in a different place" .... We had a lot of problems in the past (I'm not even sure if they don't continue to this day), he cheated on me, I caught him. Another issue is that he didn't bother to ask me at all if I wanted something like this to happen. One day he came home from work and just said "I decided" ... again, the dogs ate me, Gram didn't care what my opinion was .... Now he's somewhere with his friends again, drinking beer and discussing the grand plan. , yet I sit and complain to strangers. So I want to ask you what you think - would I be wrong if I left him. Because for years he has been pulling me back and I am falling down and down because of him .... We had a lot of problems in the past (I'm not even sure if they continue to this day), he cheated on me, I caught him. Another issue is that he didn't bother to ask me at all if I wanted something like this to happen. One day he came home from work and just said "I decided" ... again, the dogs ate me, Gram didn't care what my opinion was .... Now he's somewhere with his friends again, drinking beer and discussing the grand plan. , yet I sit and complain to strangers. So I want to ask you what you think - would I be wrong if I left him. Because for years he has been pulling me back and I am falling down and down because of him .... We had a lot of problems in the past (I'm not even sure if they continue to this day), he cheated on me, I caught him. Another issue is that he didn't bother to ask me at all if I wanted something like this to happen. One day he came home from work and just said "I decided" ... again, the dogs ate me, Gram didn't care what my opinion was .... Now he's somewhere with his friends again, drinking beer and discussing the grand plan. , yet I sit and complain to strangers. So I want to ask you what you think - would I be wrong if I left him. Because for years he has been pulling me back and I am falling down and down because of him .... One day he came home from work and just said "I decided" ... again, the dogs ate me, Gram didn't care what my opinion was .... Now he's somewhere with his friends again, drinking beer and discussing the grand plan. , again, I'm sitting and complaining to strangers. So I want to ask you what you think - would I be wrong if I left him. Because for years he has been pulling me back and I am falling down and down because of him .... One day he came home from work and just said "I decided" ... again, the dogs ate me, Gram didn't care what my opinion was .... Now he's somewhere with his friends again, drinking beer and discussing the grand plan. , yet I sit and complain to strangers. So I want to ask you what you think - would I be wrong if I left him. Because for years he has been pulling me back and I am falling down and down because of him ....
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Don't hurry, I think it's better to open this topic to him and talk nicely about who thinks what about it. If he doesn't hear you, you know what to do ... / Gerrard
The most important question is do you love him? And he you? Talk to him. Or try to live without him for a while you may feel better no one can tell you whether to be with him or how to act - you know best. If you do not understand each other and you can not make a common decision, you better move on .. :)
If your feelings for this person have already cooled down, just leave him. You say he's pulling you back, then just tell him everything in your heart. After the infidelity in which you caught him, why didn't you leave him? Who guarantees that when he is with "friends" he still doesn't do it? Maybe you should start again and know that it is never too late to meet the right person ... :) :) :)
Think and decide, but you yourself say that it pulls you down! I think that if he sticks to "you", I will listen to you, talk to him! Success!