The story is as follows: I am 30 years old, about a year ago I started a relationship with a girl who is 5 years younger than me at 25. After about 8 months, we broke up on my own initiative, as fault for our separation as in any relationship that has ended. we both had. We could not understand each other, there were many misunderstandings between us, she did not understand, I did not understand and so a separation ensued at a time when we both did not experience our love and emotions ... During the time we were separated I tried sexual relations , not emotional to try to forget her and move on, but alas I could not .. I missed her, and I began to see her somehow "non-committal" just for sex, as she wanted to come back to me and try again while I gave myself a pass disoriented in what I want and how to get it.
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Hi, I don't know, it may be too late. You often change your opinions and moods. Now you want her, now you offer to separate. How many times will this go on, and you wonder why she's confused. How many times will you play it. If you really want her and prove it, and if she happens to be together again, which I doubt, be careful not to do the same. I think she's lost faith in you. I'm sorry I don't want it to sound like I'm arguing with you, but I was angry because really men often do that and play, and they want women to put up with them and always come back to them. Tighten up and do not allow such behavior anymore. Good luck.
You're very interesting, but I don't think you're the only man who didn't know what he wanted. My advice is to look for her immediately. For example, I also really wanted to be with a man with whom I fell asleep and then we wrote to each other as you describe. But I decided that he had to write first so that it wouldn't turn out that I was desperate and intrusive. So if it doesn't say, we probably won't see each other again, unfortunately, although I really want it :(
I think you need to be open, talk to her, tell her what you think and feel. You are more open with us here than with her ... Well, how do you want to have a relationship then !?
From the author to N; 1 You are infinitely right and comprehensive enough to comment on the love drama I created for myself! In addition to confusing and perhaps losing the woman I love, I also drew with my indecision what to do to other people in the drama, one of which is the "new" woman I tried to enter into an emotional relationship with and to whom I am not indifferent, as well as the young man she is with now, and in the event of our reunion, other people will suffer, which is not pleasant at all. To N; 2 Did you have this relationship with the man you slept with before? And the moment you slept he was in the role of "ex" or it's a new man on the horizon, because he is very new, things are radically different…. I've decided to give her at least a week anyway, but if there is no "movement" on her part, I think I will look for her and surprise her in some way pleasantly with a centimeter metal gift or something else to remind myself…. Anyway, so far for one reason or another I have not fought for any woman and not because he was not ready and I did not want to but for the simple reason that they did not deserve it .. But she is something different and worth every struggle even if it is pointless and late… she deserves it …….
From the AUTHOR: And all of the above I forgot to mention in the title that she recently went out with another boy which is a very important factor, because if before with kind words and promises with coatings the scales lean towards me, now the situation is completely different ...
Well, me, don't take it that far. There is no way for a man to learn to adore things a few times before ... There are other women, no worse than the cherished one. Also, it can happen to you in time, if the Chief (Lord) said ..
Women, when they decide something difficult, you can dissuade her. You're not even for advice, you had a beautiful wife by your side, but as you said yourself, you didn't appreciate it, bro, you're not that young anymore, it's been 30 years. I'm not scaring you, but that's right, you'll see for yourself, I didn't say you wouldn't have sex, but it's hard to make a serious relationship
That's right, there are no problems with sex, but a valuable person for a relationship is quite difficult, let alone with shared feelings .... Today I saw her, I sang everything, but someone else is already brainwashing her, she seems to be in love ... I wished her a lot of happiness and I said goodbye ... The only option is for him to say something cruel or for her to decide that I am still missing, but these are hopes of despair ... What to do is to live a fulfilled life. with mistakes to make us better and wiser for the next life :))
What is the point of dissuading her? Do you then want him to hold you responsible for ruining your life, even with the slightest depression? Let her chase the wind, that is, no matter what she tells you, there is another. Let her break her head, and you look for one a little more readable.
From the Author: She wants to experience her relationship with the new boy, even though she claims to be hellishly confused ... no matter how confused she is, a person must know what he wants and what his heart tells him ... it is obvious and he says to get involved in the new emotion and to turn her back on the past and how long I would wait for her or not, time will tell, because she accepted me from a psychological point of view, as a given that loves her and will wait for her ... and here somewhere is the mistake ... As was mine ... And love seems to win ... Maybe it wins, but then when you are old enough for it ... and I obviously am not or at least I was not .... If there is a development in one or two months I will I'm writing now, all I have to do is wait or not wait, respectively, but in the end only time will tell ... Good luck to all and don't forget: fight for love when you have it and not when you lose it,as we usually do and then whine to friends and on the internet looking for advice and comfort for our mistakes!