Hello friends. We have been married for many years and things are going more or less well with my wife. We have sex regularly at every opportunity. Many times we have talked with my wife that I want to try from behind, but she still finds some excuse, she was tired, it would hurt, let's try it myself to lose it and still procrastinate. A few nights ago I decided to ask her about the back again and to my surprise she decided and called me come on, I just couldn't believe what she told me. Everything went more or less successfully - like for the first time. In the morning while we were drinking our coffee she told me that she had already decided to do it, but only in the back I had a lot to catch up and for that there are no more ladies in the front in the next two or two years. so I asked again but the answer was the same. The next night we decided to try again, shortly after I started the game to lose the space in the back, she turned around and told me that she was a great masochist. After what I heard him say, it was over with the game and I told them I wouldn't tease her about this topic anymore, but she kept insisting. I don't know what to do, I won't try for the back anymore, but he doesn't want to give it to me anymore. Thank you in advance for the advice you will give.
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You and your wife are about to ruin your marriage - one out of pride, the other out of reluctance to comply with your partner's wishes. Talk to your wife and? apologize for forcing her to do something she doesn't want to do. Give? a nice gift and pamper her with dinners, movies, going out ... Take care of your wife in a nutshell and create an atmosphere for sex. Will? pass, but you have to take the first step and apologize.
Your wife talks to you all the time, are you so dumb you can't understand? She deliberately gave it to you from behind, she did it against her will, and she made sure that she didn't like it, and you still insist. Tell me what you would do if you were in her place. Imagine that your wife has a fetish for fucking men from behind, and begs you for it, how would you react? You may not react the same way as your wife, but as a woman I can tell you that she talks to you all the time, she's mad at you. Stop the porn dude ... not all women like to be fucked in the back, even the porn actresses who get paid for it. And what do you give your wife? Nothing, just selfishness. Show a little understanding and don't act like a baby.
Your wife is a nasty complex ... Instead of ordering you that you can't look at her, that she just grumbles and waits to be shaken, and she doesn't do anything ....
To number 2. I'm sorry, but obviously you didn't read well what I wrote that I have a ban on the front and we can only have sex on the back. And as for the other with what I can and as much as I can, he satisfied her with what she wanted. As for porn, I don't watch it, and first I try to have everything for my family and for me if it stays.
I'm a woman, and just thinking that someone might want to put it on my back makes me sick. I'm so disgusted to have someone shove it up my ass! Probably your wife is too.
My wife also mostly wants us to do anal. Not that she doesn't want to be in front, but she likes anal more. He even makes a mouthful of double penetration with someone else, but it won't happen. The bad thing about anal sex is that you have to put on a condom to avoid getting infected with various intestinal bacteria.
You look like a couple of teenagers, not husbands :) In my opinion, you should talk calmly about your relationship in general and only then about sex. Anal sex is a wonderful thing when a woman is aroused to the max and the man is careful and gentle. It is possible that she likes it, and then for a long time she does not want to do it, after a while she wants it again, almost only from behind. I say it from my own experience. I don't think you're both honest when you talk. What does it mean to "give" and "not give" if you are not a child? First of all, find an opportunity to tell her that you thank her for letting you back, that you are happy that she likes it, ask her what the feeling is different and what exactly she liked, just give her the opportunity to share what he feels in sex. Then tell her what you like about the back and why. Also show that you love her, that you accept it and say another kind word instead of writing here. These are your relationships and you know them best. You just have to be honest with each other about these things, and it's hard for many of us. Give yourself a chance!
After reading a bunch of vulgar comments and insults to the author and his wife, I want to say a few things. First of all, people who have not been married for many years (meaning more than 10 years) should not get involved at all and determine who is complex and who feels what in this story. I will only share my personal experience and I hope it will help a little. I had anal sex for the first time during my second marriage, in the eighth or ninth year of it. I have been happily married to the same person for 17 years now. Anal sex was mentioned when we slept in the beginning, I refused because I was almost shocked. Then I was 26-28 years old, did not give birth. After several good years together, it so happened that we were separated for almost a month and did not have sex. When he came home, the child was with his grandmother and we started. Somewhere in the middle of the love game, he quietly asked me if I wanted to try, and I, without thinking much about him (I was incredibly excited), agreed. There is no such experience! I never expected to like this and I want to say here that without prior preparation as an enema, everything was fine. We didn't talk about it right away, but in a few days. At the beginning I was confused, what am I doing, is it right. After all, we are from the older generation, and the long years of marriage .... As if I didn't know if I didn't want to do it just like that, there really is such a moment, just because it's as confusing as it is nice. I guess your wife is going through something like that, and I think you just have to be nice to her and talk to her. I don't think this is the end of sex between you, I think it's the beginning of different sex relationships, even better ones. It's just that every beginning is difficult, you need effort, conversations. Sometimes a good experience brings a lot of stress, to accept it, to realize it, to understand it. Anal sex is already on our "menu" and I'm glad I found it with a loved one. Anyone who is outraged and disgusted just doesn't have that luck and I'm sorry, he's just missing something magical.
The woman is just manipulating. You should have told her OK, I really have to catch up and drive only from behind. And after 2 months write again.
Well, author, tell me what happened, huh? Have you dealt with your wife or is your relationship still strained?
It's an old topic, but I want to tell you that my wife had a period, between the ages of 33 and 36, when she was crazy about anal sex. We've done it before, but rarely. That's why I asked her what was going on. And she told me she didn't know. Her words were: if you want to believe me, my ass itches for sex. I don't know why, don't ask me. And after that period we continued to do it, but not so often. It seems true that women fall into such a period.
I've never wanted to put it in my wife's anus, in the presence of such a nice pussy, I just don't need to push it where I shouldn't.