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Will It Hurt Again?

By antoinelelarbin October 07, 2020 50 answers Last updated October 07, 2020

Hello, everyone! I am 13 years old (girl). It was my first time a few days ago. I was at a disco and there I met a boy of 19. He offered me to go to them. I agreed, as I had the impression (from the evening) that he was very decent. We went to them. We talked, drank a little and he offered me to have sex ... I told him that I was a virgin, that I was very scared and that I would have sex with him only if he promised me that he would be really very careful .. We had sex, but I was in terrible pain and there was a lot of blood, and he was not very careful: (... And now I am very afraid to try again ... I am afraid that it will hurt again and that there will be a lot of blood again ... Please tell me what to do ... Will it hurt again Will there be blood again? Should I wait before trying again? Or will everything just pass ...?

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Acouple4u answered · October 07, 2020

   You are still young, why did you play with fire as a child! Do you know what early sex at your age leads to ???? And do you know that you are not yet developed for such things ... Are you educated on how to protect yourself from pregnancy ??? It will hurt you and how else !!! What kind of person are you with the first person you meet to go to bed? At the age of 13 and you want to be given the name of a "little girl" ... Lie down over the lessons, develop as a full-fledged person, not as a kind of rift ..

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excelsocoffee answered · October 07, 2020

   And waiting again will hurt a few more times during sex, but many. less. As for the blood, there should be no more. There is always the first time, and the pain the first few times. Still, wait a minute. small for sex and even if it doesn't hurt you won't feel the real thrill, you have to grow at least a few more years. Live your childhood, it will never return, there will always be time for sex.

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longjohn69naked answered · October 07, 2020

   Calm down darling, everything will be fine, have sex at will, just use a condom or mascara and don't worry about the blood, it will always stop !!!!!!

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amanda69andcompany answered · October 07, 2020

   It is not possible that this was written by a 13-year-old child. It is made up.

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nickeh30 answered · October 07, 2020

   Today, children are entering puberty faster and the lower limit has fallen. I'm not for very early sex but a person decides for himself I'm 19 and I slept with a boy for the first time in May it didn't matter and whether now or at 20 it would still hurt and it depends on the body itself that ..

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sweet_nini07 answered · October 07, 2020

   You were barely 13. If you lived through it years ago, it's good to share it as a souvenir. Don't use it to deceive men. If you think about erotica, there are erotic sites.

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pot_ed420 answered · October 07, 2020

   My daughter is 13, a big woman, with tits and ass twice as big as mine, but the way of expression and everything else - a child. Don't talk nonsense to me, all of you.

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nataliloveanal answered · October 07, 2020

   Abe, what is this nonsense, our 13-year-old met someone at the disco and oh, don't be one of the easy ones, never do something just because the others do it, find the right person and then! ... it's too late, but ... I think this is a precious moment in your life, it won't come back anymore, if it's true you made a mistake!

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Evelyne42DD answered · October 07, 2020

   Oh, big mistake :( Whether it was like that or not, that's how it happens, the discos are full of 13-14 year olds ...

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zukobabi answered · October 07, 2020

   Are you normal, are you normal?

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beautyqueen2020 answered · October 07, 2020

   I am 14 years old and I want to say that as far as I have read and I know the first 2 3 times it will hurt you but then it will pass! I'm not 100% sure because I'm still a child but I have a serious friend with whom we are waiting for a convenient moment and place to do it :) The stupid thing is that you did it for the FIRST TIME with someone you barely know: |

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ezutos answered · October 07, 2020

   Hello dear. I'm 29 and I'll just tell you something that you made a mistake - you made. True, most teenagers start having sex at the age of 13-14, but why should it be with the first person you meet? The first time is something "sacred :)" that you will remember for a long time ... But anyway. I can only tell you that do not rush for the second time (if you have not already done so) find the REALLY suitable one and then. This is just advice! :)

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LorraMoore answered · October 07, 2020

   FROM A BIOLOGICAL POINT OF VIEW, YOUR VIRGIN ZIME [HYMEN] IS ALREADY TORN, THEREFORE, FOR THE SECOND TIME, YOU WILL NOT HURT.

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dominicponce answered · October 07, 2020

   Let me tell you, at the age of 13 and only 17, 18, 19 and 20-year-old Batkovs run after me, and that's the way it is with me, but I don't go to discos and I don't believe that you were at a disco either, because they won't let you in under any circumstances. I can tell you that I will never go to bed with the first one I meet, even if they force me to. Everything you say is so rude that I have nothing to tell you. I am also developed and whenever they ask me how old I am, they take me 9th, 10th grade and I am only 13. I know there are good Batkovs, but in the end we are still small. When my poop was for 1 time she shared with me and then consulted with a friend and she told her that 1 time is always so but then everything is ok so it's not scary and yet (success)

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emmaxo answered · October 08, 2020

   abe people, what's going on in this country ????????????? Do you realize that you give sexual sows to a 13-year-old paw?!?!?!?!?!?!?! It's been 13 years, damn it, and on top of that, we went and fucked the first person we met !!!!!! Don't you have any parents, who will let their 13-year-old daughter go to a disco without going home all night, I'm not amazed, but how can I describe it. On top of that, I'm not some conservative aunt with outdated views - I'm an 18-year-old girl, I'm relaxed, I have sex, because this is something completely normal, but, damn, she's not 13 !!!!!!!! At least at the age of 13 we still played with barbita and at most. to hang out like a child. It is true that now the children are developing faster, but they still remain children, with the typical childish thinking - look at her and this bitch, heard, not heard about sex and went with the old man from the disco, which you notice, managed to judge as "decent". When did you stop going to kindergarten, when did you try to identify people and have sex ??? My thinking is that 13-year-olds should have 9:00 pm (although I've never had one, but the 89th set may be the last set of people with principles, morals, and most of all, conscience).

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atakanozyurt answered · October 08, 2020

   Well, I'm not going to judge you, because I know what it is, it's really a big mistake and you'll remember it forever, but now you know how you exposed yourself and up your head. Until a person finds it, nothing will get into his head ... be smart for the future, and no one can help him, whatever he does to himself!

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red_sweet answered · October 08, 2020

   I'm also 13 but to tell you honestly that you made a huge mistake your first time will be for life and you did it with a boy you don't even know well you had to do it with a person you love and you know you will is careful with you and you did it with the first one you meet but I don't blame you I just tell you like a friend;) and it won't hurt you anymore when you have sex;) but if you haven't done it twice 2 times you think and go there and do it with a person who holds on to you and you hold on to him;) + do it after you turn at least 15

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bentley_couple answered · October 08, 2020

   I'm 15 years old and I'm already thinking about this issue (sex), I have a serious boyfriend talking to him about it but after reading a few articles I was shocked; shocked; I was disgusted !! Childhood is only 1! You will never be able to experience these years again! I can't judge you, and I don't have that right, but for me it's horrible ... what kind of country we live in and what is all this disgust and pornography ... on top of everything and with a person you don't know ... not to mention parents ... everything is so distorted and shocking that I have nothing to say but that I feel sorry for you and for the way these things have developed.

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GLAMBARBIE answered · October 08, 2020

   Well, what can I tell you ... I'm 15 and from my point of view, it's pretty stupid ... You're 13 again ... I was still living my childhood then ... I guess you were at a children's disco. .. there are walking such 19-20 year old "guys" who are "thirsty" for sex with 12-13 year olds .... Look after you can go a lot of guys who you think you like ... but at least keep dignity and do not go far from flirting ... fantasize, do what you want .... but at least save the second time for someone really important ... I will not criticize you ... what has been done is a done deal .... Too bad for you ... with a stranger and at 13 .... I wish you success.

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leslietexas answered · October 08, 2020

   Wow 13 years old and you had sex ?! you're not really good ... I'm 16 I'm not who knows how much older than you but 13 years old..really a child's act ... I was 13 still playing with dolls ...: D you talk to me about sex .and with an ADULT ... you were really wrong

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ellelui08 answered · October 09, 2020

   I am 13 years old and I do not intend to have sex at least until I am a minor. I do not blame you in any way, this is a done deal, but if you were with a person you hold, believe and love you would not hurt at all. for sex for personal culture, of course for myself, I have an older sister who can say the same thing, that if you are in the mood not to hurt, if you betray and love the person you do it with, you will not feel anything more than the most The biggest trap in her life as it happened to her. She lost her childhood at the age of 16 and this was a wonderful and unforgettable moment for her, because she shared it with her 2-year-old friend, whom she loved, relied on and believed HE will make this moment unforgettable, because it is shared with him. Therefore, it depends on the attitude and the right person. If you say that it will hurt you and you do not relax in the hands of the person you love it will hurt you!If you wait and trust your loved ones you will be in seventh heaven !!

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tsservicedoll answered · October 09, 2020

   Are you 13? Something I do not understand with a 19-year-old! I didn't know what that was at your age!

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marekiwcia answered · October 09, 2020

   Maleee you really are not well and I am 13 but we have not considered with my friend but there is nothing more there is nothing to do

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scarletthunter answered · October 09, 2020

   Oh, what can I say about that, I just have no words ... where are your parents ?! Not that I'm judging you, but aren't you ashamed to write this, I don't know, I'm 17 and I haven't found the right person yet, let alone you ... and with a person you know, even though for several hours I don't know how long you were at the disco ... but you definitely can't judge a person for so long he has a friend and sat alone with him for 3 months and then he showed his horns you understand me in what sense I'm telling you. In my opinion, my advice is not to do it ... to stop for a while at least make 16 and think carefully about who she is with! Now I don't know how you take the advice of others, as a murder or as advice, but you better listen to their words and get an introduction ... this is from me

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victoriaananaseva answered · October 09, 2020

   You are very bad ... = (

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raissandraul answered · October 09, 2020

   I'm 15 .. I was not in pain, there was no blood. Much depends on the boy. It hurt because he wasn't careful. Don't let anyone, it's not nice. Find a decent boy to be careful with you. Then I guarantee 100% that it will not hurt you. The more excited you are, the better;)

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emy12 answered · October 10, 2020

   You're wrong and I'm 13 years old, but I haven't thought about sex. Where your mother or father is, they let you gossip like a deaf bitch in the streets. Not that I'm stuck and I don't get stuck, but I haven't gotten that far!

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mistressbrigittee answered · October 10, 2020

   You are wrong, but do you know that 10-year-olds still behave like 8-year-olds and you are three years older than a 10-year-old child and you had sex because you heard what it is and obviously you have puberty. had caught this thing before, he should forget it and not tell it to anyone because it is very bad, but if one of your friends tells your mother and father what you will do, think about your dreams, think about things that will happen for example, that you will go somewhere on the mountain to the sea be a child what you should think about good things and not about such bad ones do not be proud of what you have done there is time for that but now you are still small

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siriuscb2 answered · October 10, 2020

   darling you are too small for sex. and didn't have to with a 19-year-old. it's also silly that you went into them - and more serious things could happen. I am 14 years old, I am 1 year old. relationship with a boy of 17 and I feel good with him - he never told us - let's have sex with us [so he would prove to me how much he loves me]: D nevertheless we had sex 3 times .. only the 1st time I was in pain .. but it depends on your body I hope I was useful to you :)

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esteelaudersa answered · October 10, 2020

   wow mother I'm a boy of 13 I like one that I still don't know if I like but to have sex WITHOUT COMMENT kissing I understand with language I understand but sex this is not who you want where you want.

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paramika answered · October 11, 2020

   I'm 15 ... and I did it with my boyfriend ... I was really scared .. but I don't know if it was right we've been going for 6 months .. he's 20 years old ... it's that I'm afraid he won't leave ..; xx .. ak0 you really did it ... every time you will bleed but less .. I was not very much only 1-2 days ... the first time it always hurts I hurt a lot. .; x but it depends on the partner ... ak0 is careful ..

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nyphodicked answered · October 11, 2020

   to 33. how will your blood flow every time? You have a zipper to tear. It can run a second time, if there is something left of the zipper, but every time ..... It is right at 15 to make love to your friend, but not if you do not want it, if you do not need, you do not have "attraction" and only out of fear of leaving you. Yes, he can do it, but if you don't want to, so what? On the other hand, just not having sex out of fear is also not right. There is hardly anything more natural than eating and sex. However, we are responsible for both - both can be a source of health and happiness, but also of disease and death. Having sex is a responsibility !!! The first time I had NO blood, but it hurt. My friend did not believe me that I was a virgin and I went to a gynecologist - he told me that my skin was elastic and not even torn properly! It was the same with my sister. And they were not gentle with me, and there was no blood. Everything is physiological - if you have a thick and dense membrane, it will hurt and there is a lot of blood, but only the first time. ... PS - for me it is pedophilia to go to a disco and lure a 13-year-old child !!! It is worthy of imprisonment! When I was 16, I lied at the disco that I was 14 and got rid of all the "candidates" - didn't you tell me about your age?

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Sin_Sation answered · October 11, 2020

   I just want to say that I am also 13 and my first time was also with a person I met at a disco, but after a few days we did it .. I understand you best of all :) now I'm sorry about that, but we will have the next ones .. you just have to be careful not to get pregnant or catch a disease + whether the person will not stick your name on the blood;)

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clarastone answered · October 11, 2020

   35, you are no k, but a child they have benefited from.

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lauren_demarcus answered · October 11, 2020

   I'm 13 too, but I haven't even thought of such a thing ... I haven't been to a disco, and what's left is such nonsense ...

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exoticbodyx answered · October 11, 2020

   At 13 at a disco. how not

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Samanta4Kiss answered · October 11, 2020

   As long as you have judged the child. this is happening everywhere not only in Bulgaria everywhere! This is life today, I am 25 years old and I have seen many such cases, there is nothing to do and it is not the child or the 20-year-old pedophile who is to blame, the system we live in is guilty. qi, etc. porn is like soaps on BNT what do you want they kids watch watch and finally they want to try ... ... ...

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bustynataschax answered · October 11, 2020

   Listen to me now, very carefully! !! !! A 13-year-old whore who went fucking at discos, are you normal? Don't be a gypsy, because they usually give birth to so many. I am not liberated or congested and I am also 13, but still I am very, very, very attached to MORALS (of course in normal amounts). What you did is NOT TERRIBLE, IT IS TERRIBLE! At your age, you should think about which high school to go to and study. In time, when you turn 20, you will be very sorry! In principle, watching porn is forbidden until the age of 18 (but we all watch each other, don't we?), Which means that after 18 you decide. TO HAVE SEX NOW. Let the system suck, but I'm sorry if it fixes our privacy. I watch Juri, for example, there are also two ADULT girls having sex for love, but I still don't think that when you look at such things, you must do the same. You know, you can see what kind of person you will become and you won't be one of the successful ones. Again from others. side you can break into porn or whore =) I AM A CHILD'S DREAM AND I AM PROUD OF IT! !! !! =)

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laurahazet answered · October 12, 2020

   number 41 you are very right I would squeeze your hand we met we are 18 years old and I have a boyfriend but I don't have sex with him although he really wants there is a suitable lot there but they only want sex to mint for broiki to say hey with this sleep 41 you are very right

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DinnaLovee answered · October 12, 2020

   o0lele I have no words .. I am also 13 years old and I am terribly angry I am weak is a weak word TERRORED even ... I also agree with number 41

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_uma answered · October 12, 2020

   and I was suing how 5 years ago my sisters were children and they had sex with their sons-in-law for the first time and she and he were in a lot of pain but I don't know what it is

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urnyfax answered · October 12, 2020

   Now listen to what I'm going to tell you ... you're only 13 years old, and he's 19, it's very clear that it will hurt you if you go to do it again with someone much older than you ... at this age, girls should have dignity turn your gas and your head up .. even if you guys run behind you you shouldn't care. Fanny your boyfriend kisses and hugs yes but going to do it is very dumb and funny these years! Remember at this age you should have dignity and not be some kind of "girl on call" !! There is time for everything :))! Good luck and listen to the words of others, they are very right about everything :)

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abergman answered · October 12, 2020

   Were you a good child ??? How can I, I'm 14 years old now and I don't do such things, and you are even younger than me? Do you know what terrible things happen on the streets ??? And especially if he invited you in and you agreed, and you had sex ?! You are so small, and from now on you have sex. When you grow up like this, they will all beat you with an apology, you will be like a girl to them for everything, is that what you want? I took her hands!

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disneyvillains answered · October 12, 2020

   children's fantasies are this, a 19-year-old man will not sit down to deal with you except in your fantasies. You may have really fucked but not with a 19 year old

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COCO0627 answered · October 13, 2020

   I just can not believe it! At your age we used to gather on the street and play lifeguards and jokes and she went to us at the age of 13 to have sex .. just the current generation .. and I don't want to imagine her parents and, at the age of 13 she went to a disco ..

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lily_knows_you_best answered · October 13, 2020

   I can't express myself in words - SHAME. I'm 19, my first time was 16 and it wasn't a pleasant experience, but I remember it. If you are afraid of pain, then you are not mature enough. You are too small, really very small. One day you will come to your senses and you will regret it. As for your question, the first few times there is pain, but over time it gets lighter. My advice is - wait!

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rne answered · October 13, 2020

   52, the story is from 3 years ago! The girl who was 13 is now 16!

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indigo.6e answered · October 13, 2020

   People here, you are just blaming her, dear, don't you care, I'm also 13 now, almost 14 and from our school I'm the only one from 7th and 8th grade who didn't do it, and the one from 8th grade even has one who had no money for juice and a boy and said that he would pay and then with sex made her pay for the juice and that was last year when she was 12 so, I think that attempts do not die try again they say that the 1st and 2nd are nasty but then you were happy I don't know yet! I hope I helped you.

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Alexa_Styles answered · October 13, 2020

   I don't find it normal for a 13-year-old child to have sex with a 19-year-old who has just met somewhere in a disco. This is so stupid! You don't know him, but you give him your most valuable gift ... You are not normal people, what will happen to this country, that's why we are in this situation. Children drink and fuck, politicians steal and lie to us, retirees just complain and complain, gypsies have taken us over, workers just wonder how not to work and take more money ... with such people, including this 13-year-old pickle, what do we want? Apart from the fact that today's young people are so sloppy and illiterate, most of the comments contain spelling mistakes.

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xposededger83 answered · October 13, 2020

   You are a small child, and you will fuck me and ask if it will hurt you again? Hey girl, get up, become a man .. SIT DOWN TO STUDY ... I wonder how they let you go to a disco in general, are your parents crazy?