Hello. I will try not to move away and not to talk at length. I will also ask the editors to publish my story, as this is important to me. Thanks! I will say briefly and clearly that I do not have orgasms when I have sex with another person. This year I will be 21. I have had 4 sexual partners and I liked sex with all four and nothing repulsed me. I have no childhood injuries. When I'm alone I get wonderful orgasms, but clitoral. I'm not some terribly annoying girl. I like the sex I have but I can't have an orgasm from other people I have sex with. I like sexual intercourse, etc., but I can't experience the climax and it turns out that I'm lying to them that they give me orgasms. I'm broad-minded - I like oral love and anal sex, as well as all kinds of roleplay stories and people with a more open imagination. I like to experiment, but like I said, I don't have orgasms with my partners. I read all sorts of things, I tried to get vaginal orgasms on my own, but to no avail. I sincerely ask for your opinion, advice and your personal experiences. Thanks and all the best :)
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in incompetent lovers is the problem, they can't fuck and that's it
Hello! I am 10 years and older than you. This problem bothered me and me for a long time. It's like you describe me only without liking anal sex. When I gave birth at 25, I thought things could get better, but no. I also really like vaginal sex itself, but I don't get to that climax. See always from the clitoris. I can even squirt with a vibrator. A few years ago, with a very talented man with whom we had a great attraction, he discovered the following - as we are in a spoon position, ie; squirt. But it doesn't always happen. I even read a study that the nerve endings of the clitoris cover the vagina like a ring and from there comes the vaginal orgasm. In some women, these endings to the vagina are less developed and hence the impossibility of vaginal orgasm. Now I don't know how true this article is and whether it is not written. I feel ok while having vaginal sex or me or my partner to stimulate my clitoris. I have nothing to explain to men whether I get it or not. I say that I get from both types, but my clitoris is stronger and shaking. In addition to my penis, my partners try to give me pleasure with their fingers or tongue. I have a girlfriend of 40, with two children, I also talked to her on this topic. She describes the same as you. This so palpable orgasm, but only through clitoral stimulation. And in the end, for me personally, it is not an end in itself to do two, five, seven and H times. The important thing is to have an attraction with the person, to have passion. And my greatest pleasure is to lead, I feel and hear how nice the person next to me is and I drive him crazy with pleasure. So head up. And you are quite young, it can happen to you, does anyone know such an orgasm.
Oooh, many women are like that and unfortunately, some for quite a long period of their lives. Everything depends on something specific - for some it is a size, for others a technique, for others a posture. You just have to find your man and your thing. the men you've been with so far, was there a real passion and desire for them on your part or let's give it a try? Because that may be the reason! In any case, you need to understand what you are missing. And the sooner, the less time wasted sexually. Success!
It's your fault for imitating orgasms with men. If you do not lie, the man will try harder and longer and will lead you to him.
Hi, my friend had the same problem as you. She slept with 10 boys. I am the last. I am the only one who can satisfy her. We talked openly and she told me that I was not with the biggest member, but obviously it doesn't matter. You just haven't met the man.
Newlyweds educate yourself, sex is not just fucking! The person has a mind, but does not use it, he thinks that it is enough just to melt the pepper and everything is OK !? Yes, but no, there are things you don't know, such as - "Recently, only in 2009, thanks to modern technology, in particular MRI and 3D printer, we first saw a real three-dimensional image of the clitoris. And as It turned out that this female organ is far from a centimeter bean, but an impressive organ, most of which is inside and is equal in length to the average size of the penis.The clitoris has not only a head (which we can see and feel), but and cavernous body and legs.The average length of these legs is 9 cm.And according to modern sexologists, it is with the stimulation of these legs from the penis a woman reaches orgasm when penetrating. What turns out? What kind of orgasm is the clitoris after all? Yes, that's exactly what we're hinting at! "The translation is electronic and the ending is a bit inaccurate. Proof is lesbianism, women use it for a stronger orgasm, the vagina is more of a reproductive organ than a pleasure, there are not many nerves inside, otherwise the woman will howl like a wolf at birth, now you know where to emphasize, entrance, not the bottom, so women prefer a thicker than a longer penis! that when they rub their clitoris and the entrance to the vagina, they experience a strong orgasm. Proof is lesbianism, women use it en masse for a stronger orgasm. The vagina is more of a reproductive organ than a pleasure, there are not many nerves inside, otherwise the woman will howl like a wolf at birth. Now you know where to focus, at the entrance, not at the bottom, so women prefer a thicker to a longer penis! that when they rub their clitoris and the entrance to the vagina, they experience a strong orgasm. Proof is lesbianism, women use it en masse for a stronger orgasm. The vagina is more of a reproductive organ than a pleasure, there are not many nerves inside, otherwise the woman will howl like a wolf at birth. Now you know where to focus, at the entrance, not at the bottom, so women prefer a thicker to a longer penis!
I've been just like you for as long as I can remember. And now I'm 45. My husband and I have never had orgasms. He even described me as frigid. And he made no effort at all. Before my husband I had boyfriends with whom I had orgasms only in French, ie clitoral. I have had a lover for a year with whom I have constant orgasms. Any kind, any way. I finished 4 times in a row. And even his penis is relatively smaller. The bottom line is that it depends on the partner. And talk about it. Honestly, everyone should share how they feel at any given moment. Do not hesitate to use aids of any kind. It is also important how long the act lasts. Not too short. For me, for example, the nipples are an extremely arousing area. So successful You have time.
My ex-boyfriend had a really big penis. He was about 20, 21 cm, but the sex was ... He was my first and he had slept with many others before me, it is supposed that he should have experience, but alas. However, the size of his penis - yes, it was not how bad sex itself, but it was not what I wanted, and I, like you, could not finish. The next boy I slept with (my current boyfriend) is about 15, 16 cm, but the sex is brutal. And by the way, I was his first. It has happened many times that we cum at the same time or sometimes I cum before him: DD Ever since we have sex with him he has always brought me to orgasm. I don't think it's your fault, it's the people you slept with. They just can't knock. By the way, try rubbing your clit until it penetrates you, so you can finish.
Most women do not experience a vaginal orgasm, only a clitoral one, it is not a problem especially in you. I also did not experience a vaginal orgasm during sex, I only experienced masturbation once, but it was neither very strong nor as pleasurable as the clitoral one. We are all different and enjoy different things. Unfortunately, your partner does not satisfy you, he should caress you with his hand, make you French, things like that to stimulate you to cum. He can't expect only vaginal sex without doing anything else. To me he is an incompetent lover, you have no problem.