A 22-year-old boy who has no social life, because of the silent and irreparable introversion in himself, physically weak and due to some other factors, this makes me complex. So lately I'm experiencing a hell of a lot of pain, and I'm asking myself thousands of questions about girls (women) and what they really want, I've always been wonderful with them, I didn't accept them as toys but I respected their wishes, I understood them, I can say that I really am a boy who adores ladies, and this will continue to be so as long as I live. Well, but the women themselves are very unfair to me, and I am increasingly convinced that women are such complex and confused creatures that hardly anyone could understand them, maybe they themselves do not know what they want and could not understand each other. As I mentioned at the beginning, I'm an anti-social type and very shy and closed in on myself, and I haven't had many boyfriends, I've had exactly 2 real relationships so far, which have failed completely because of the frivolity of these two girls. I really suffered a lot because of both girls, and for a long time I was in something like depression and I was literally destroying myself.
For two years now, maybe more (because all living things have betrayed and turned my back on me) and I lived like a complete hermit, I rarely go out just because I got used to it, and I got bored of the environment around me and everything in general. the computer, and lately I've been writing mostly with girls, and in some of them I don't know how I fell in love, I felt very attracted and the thought of them started to support me and give me some hope to move forward. Okay, but the girl I love right now, tells me that I'm a real boy, that I'm very nice, etc., but at the same time tells me that she has a boyfriend, and even two days ago told me that she slept with him, and with her confession, I naturally collapsed because I'm like a glass sculpture, you push me lightly and I'm already broken, and when she told me that I tried not to show my pain in front of her, but inside my soul cried at that moment, and for the second day I'm not to myself, and I wonder why these women are like that?
I have heard from many people that a man's heart has room for only one woman, but in a woman's heart there is always room for more than one man ... is that really so? !! Recently, an acquaintance broke up with her boyfriend because she cut him off, but he still claims that he loves her more than his life, and she herself told him that she loves him but should not be with him. In your opinion, isn't this a complete paradox, to love someone but to say that you shouldn't be with him. The other moment she tells him that she doesn't care about him at all, but her face shows that this is not the case, and that she suffers internally ... Why are these women doing this? why don't they just be themselves and give free rein to their feelings, but deceive themselves and play us so mercilessly? .. and why, when a girl has a boyfriend, should she give hope to another boy and at the same time sleep with the boyfriend in question? .. don't they realize how much it hurts what they cause us? !! The other thing that impressed me is that I notice en masse how the girls go with some idiots who just use them and hurt them, use violence against them, and yet they still stand by these bullies and even claim to love them. isn't that a complete absurdity? to claim to love your abuser, and to repel nice guys who would treat you well and do anything to make you happy. I have the feeling that it is as if the girls themselves love pain, and somehow do not look for the good in men is cruelty and violence ..
in general I do not know what to say, these are women I just have no words .. give you hope and at some point no longer you have to, they tell you things in your face that make your heart burn and they don't even care what's wrong with you, they don't even think that you can do some trouble for them, and many young boys have taken their own lives because of girls, and in the end we are the losers, and these frivolous and depraved girls continue to live their lives while young boys rot in the ground because of this terrible pain of love they could not bear. I really want a girl who I know is only mine to do so that I have full confidence in her and justify that trust, to be serious above all, and I'm starting to wonder if there are such girls at all, or all women are such confused beings who could not make a man happy?
Every woman says "I'm not like that, I'm different" but how can a man believe her? After only a moment you understand that she is the sweet one who managed to blur your eyes and you understand that you are again deceived and broken .. I no longer know whether to believe in the name of a woman .. I do not know if there is such a different and safe which will give me what I need and make my life more beautiful. I think it's more likely to be alone for the rest of my life, or to find a woman who I will share with 5 more men ... which I would definitely not tolerate .. Why are you doing it, dear ladies? I ask again, what do you really want? and what does a man have to be for you to take him seriously and really be faithful to him? !! ..
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Boy, the whole problem is in you, get a little tight. You are a kind of self-pitying ruin, a complex mollusk, an anti-social and self-absorbed type ... you have caught yourself like a straw drowning man for these girls, you expect someone to give you what you don't have - self-esteem. Well, it can't happen. You have to change, fuck the girls for a while and work on yourself. Psyche, physics too .... it will just happen, there is no other way.
at 22, and with such a great experience ... how did you manage to get to know all the women in the world in such a short time (or at least a large enough sample of any nationality) that to reach such conclusions, I don't know ... I'm 27 , I have met men of different nationalities and I still do not allow myself to draw such conclusions ... Lola
Thanks to such women, I found the right man for myself. They failed to appreciate him, so they are now in his past. I wish you to find the one that will deserve you! She is waiting for you somewhere there ...
and here you post your miserable topic, author. as long as you spam the net. tighten up. go out a little
in my opinion, this story can be written by a person - to change the word "woman, girl" with "man-boy" and to write and repeat, and he will still be alone, an anti-social person, regardless of whether he is a girl or a boy. .. The problem, unfortunately, is in the author, not in the girls. A few useful tips for the author - 1. From the very beginning of your online acquaintances, make sure that you are looking for a serious friend, a relationship, not a person to chat with. 2. Become PROsocial and go out 3. START TRAINING for your body, once it is complex, what do you expect success
I agree with you that women are confused beings :) In general, I can not give you advice other than others. In reality, if you don't socialize, you can't theoretically catch up with a woman. You don't expect a chick to just ring your doorbell and jump on your neck, do you? :) From experience I will tell you that even if you are not the most beautiful man in the world, it only happens with communication. Conversations, jokes, jokes. Women LOVE to laugh. It is no coincidence that there is a joke that you make your wife laugh with an idea closer to your heart ?. You say, "I notice a lot of girls going around with some idiots who just use them and hurt them" - that's modern times. You're not the only one who takes this into account. Not coincidentally, every second person you ask will tell you that she has had a "broken heart" at least once :) * Syndrome
He's just lucky to have had two, and I'm 24 (I'll turn 25 on January) and I haven't had one, because of a lot of moral principles in the past, many of which I rejected?
Well 7. - well, what does the "possession" of girls with morals have in common now? with moral principles? To shine on you - you get in and out and that's it - it's called sex and it's one of the two human needs that have made us the most successful kind. One - eating, obviously you do, it remains now to take the other step and you are a normal person. At 25, it's a bit soft to say "weird" as a boy to be a virgin. I recommend you a girl on call. Save money all night so you don't rush and get the job done - believe me, then "having" girls won't be such a big moral dime - come on, act, you miss a lot - not only physically, but also as an emotion, like interpersonal contact and way of communication
by the Author: number 7 I would like to communicate with you, there is definitely something to talk about, as well as everyone who is in my position. Write me an e-mail: [email protected] Thank you in advance :)))
by the Author: Congratulations * Syndrome for the exact comment he made! You have a lot of fun, dude, because as far as I've noticed, you make very precise statements and everything you say is absolutely true! I am glad that you are the person who understood me best and shared my opinion :))) Thank you!
Man, you're right, a woman is a complex matter ... not necessarily so "bad", but complex. I loved two men (at different times!). I fell in love with both of them "on my own initiative", they didn't do anything to get my attention. I just saw in each of them something different that distinguished them from the table, raised them in my eyes and made each of them the "best". To fall in love with a man, I have to admire him. To be something that is difficult to achieve for others. In the first I was attracted by idealism and mental strength, in the second - the great intellect. For reference - both are markedly weak. The second of them, my friend is 1.90 tall and weighs 69 kg. It's great! Not muscular like a bachelor and not fat! (I'm not happy about fat men). There were also men I hurt. But it was their fault. They persecuted me hard, and I didn't want them and I tried to show it to them culturally, without getting to the scenes. They did not understand a word. They thought that just because I greet them and exchange polite phrases (after all, we are cultured people) with them, then I like them too. I did not give hope. They were just winding themselves up. At one point they became too annoying and I cut them off in a rude way when they didn't understand that politeness and love are sooooooooo different things. I don't like the so-called oligophrenics either. If I had to choose between an oligophrenic, a jerk, and a self-contained, desperate type ... Well, I'll be alone. You want women to love you - be special! * But, without pretense, be yourself. If you pretend to be something you're not, you'll just become a laughing stock, pathetic guy. So - be yourself and at the same time - original. Boronia and I didn't want them and I tried to show it to them culturally, without getting to the scenes. They did not understand a word. They thought that just because I greet them and exchange polite phrases (after all, we are cultured people) with them, then I like them too. I did not give hope. They were just winding themselves up. At one point they became too annoying and I cut them off in a rude way when they didn't understand that politeness and love are sooooooooo different things. I don't like the so-called oligophrenics either. If I had to choose between an oligophrenic, a jerk, and a self-contained, desperate type ... Well, I'll be alone. You want women to love you - be special! * But, without pretense, be yourself. If you pretend to be something you're not, you'll just become a laughing stock, pathetic guy. So - be yourself and at the same time - original. Boronia and I didn't want them and I tried to show it to them culturally, without getting to the scenes. They did not understand a word. They thought that just because I greet them and exchange polite phrases (after all, we are cultured people) with them, then I like them too. I did not give hope. They were just winding themselves up. At one point, they became too annoying and I cut them off in a rude way when they didn't understand that politeness and love were sooooooooo different things. I don't like the so-called oligophrenics either. If I had to choose between an oligophrenic, a jerk, and a self-contained, desperate type ... Well, I'll be alone. You want women to love you - be special! * But, without pretense, be yourself. If you pretend to be something you're not, you'll just become a laughing stock, pathetic guy. So - be yourself and at the same time - original. Boronia that just because I greet them and exchange polite phrases (after all, we are cultured people) with them, then I like them too. I did not give hope. They were just winding themselves up. At one point they became too annoying and I cut them off in a rude way when they didn't understand that politeness and love are sooooooooo different things. I don't like the so-called oligophrenics either. If I had to choose between an oligophrenic, a jerk, and a self-contained, desperate type ... Well, I'll be alone. You want women to love you - be special! * But, without pretense, be yourself. If you pretend to be something you're not, you'll just become a laughing stock, pathetic guy. So - be yourself and at the same time - original. Boronia that just because I greet them and exchange polite phrases (after all, we are cultured people) with them, then I like them too. I did not give hope. They were just winding themselves up. At one point, they became too annoying and I cut them off in a rude way when they didn't understand that politeness and love were sooooooooo different things. I don't like the so-called oligophrenics either. If I had to choose between an oligophrenic, a jerk, and a self-contained, desperate type ... Well, I'll be alone. You want women to love you - be special! * But, without pretense, be yourself. If you pretend to be something you're not, you'll just become a laughing stock, pathetic guy. So - be yourself and at the same time - original. Boronia At one point they became too annoying and I cut them off in a rude way when they didn't understand that politeness and love are sooooooooo different things. I don't like the so-called oligophrenics either. If I had to choose between an oligophrenic, a jerk, and a self-contained, desperate type ... Well, I'll be alone. You want women to love you - be special! * But, without pretense, be yourself. If you pretend to be something you're not, you'll just become a laughing stock, pathetic guy. So - be yourself and at the same time - original. Boronia At one point they became too annoying and I cut them off in a rude way when they didn't understand that politeness and love are sooooooooo different things. I don't like the so-called oligophrenics either. If I had to choose between an oligophrenic, a jerk, and a self-contained, desperate type ... Well, I'll be alone. You want women to love you - be special! * But, without pretense, be yourself. If you pretend to be something you're not, you'll just become a laughing stock, pathetic guy. So - be yourself and at the same time - original. Boronia pathetic type. So - be yourself and at the same time - original. Boronia pathetic type. So - be yourself and at the same time - original. Boronia
Author, don't attach yourself to the minds of these jackals. Just keep in mind that most commentators are just like the people you describe in your topic and resent their nonsense. I wish you success. Only you can find what will make you happy. Look inside yourself. There is no one to help you from outside. Most of them need one themselves ... It's just a pity that there are no values in the time we live in. But how can there be, when no one reads books, and everyone watches Big Brother and the spy's purses on Facebook. Give heavy, heavy wine ...
2 years have passed, author, did you find the woman?