Hello. I am a young man of 18 years. I want to tell you how the story of my life has gone so far. From a young age I have never been lucky in love and relationships with girls. I've always liked girls, but I've never had a relationship - sometimes I was repulsed, other times I didn't have the courage to share my feelings. This summer, because my desire for sex (as I want to clarify here, my purely physiological needs should not be confused with emotional attraction) reached critical levels and I went to a prostitute to lose my virginity. Now, after a few months, I felt in myself that women no longer attract me emotionally - I have no desire to bond and start a family, or even for short-term relationships or flirting. Don't get me wrong, I don't have any sexual preferences for men,
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And it will pass. Bad
You're too young to give such definite assessments, besides, the fact that you're unlucky in relationships with girls before ... well, you're 18, they're just getting started. Do not worry.
Brother, you're right. Women are not good for anything but one thing, and many of them are not good for anything. The sooner you reject your dependence on them, the better. They parasitize on the sexual desire of men.
Well, you know ... there's no way we can help you ... Maybe you've got gay fashion too.
There are other beauties for what are your women?
Hello. I'm 20 and I'm a virgin. I've been thinking about going to a prostitute for a long time, but something keeps stopping me. How would you define the experience? Otherwise, I am in the same situation as you, I am already losing faith in women ...
Bray number three, you were a great genius. My women aren't good for anything, where did you come from? Did the stork bring you or did they drop you from Mars? Didn't you come into this world from such a woman, who is useless, eh? And how did this incompetent, who is not good for anything (he told you so) take such a clever and ingenious thing. It is very strange what distinction you make between the two sexes, as if a woman is a completely different species with which you and the rest of the male class have nothing in common. Or maybe your fathers scrambled eggs. You mothers probably don't have it, because how will something like that connect you to these stupid females. Right? You have nothing to do with them. ;) You are great, intelligent and perfect. The stork brought you, that's clear. What can you have to do with these stupid women - nothing. They are useless, and you, ooo you are a completely different thing. The mind overflows through your ears. What an intellect, what a miracle. I reverence you. ; D One that is useless.
Number 6 what can I tell you, sex will not give you who knows what emotional pleasure, it will only not scrape you that you are a virgin. Number 4 I explicitly emphasized that I do not like men
Author, I'm a man and I understand you - these women are what number 7 is - so what can you love about them? What can you get from them at all - no pleasant pastime, no pleasant conversation, not even a good attitude. They take everything you have - your cell phone, your camera, your car, your money - everything becomes theirs. They need the material much more than you do. They use her as a personal driver, as a porter, for her and her friends, they generally use them as a servant. What are you for except for sex - you better buy an inflatable sex doll, and without it in bed is just as good as most women. Besides, you don't need women to intrigue you, gossip about you and then discuss you behind your back, they can do so much. Then one day you catch someone for a relationship, right, one positive thing - you will be able to brag to your friends that you are not a traffic jam and that you are not the other way around, but what else will you gain? To wave you all day in clothing stores and among chicken companies. Then, when you get married, she will tie you tightly and hang you by the neck, make you work like an ox and support her and your children! In the meantime, he will raise daily scandals for you and you and most of all - why don't you sit at home next to them, how dare you throw them away and go out with your friends? So, really, what's it for? At this stage, watch your life and be cool, and one day it will just come - you will meet someone more twisted, you will fall in love and she will fuck you, take you to the altar and tie you up! but what else will you gain? To wave you all day in clothing stores and among chicken companies. Then, when you get married, she will tie you tightly and hang you by the neck, make you work like an ox and support her and your children! In the meantime, he will raise daily scandals for you and you and most of all - why don't you sit at home next to them, how dare you throw them away and go out with your friends? So, really, what's it for? At this stage, watch your life and be cool, and one day it will just come - you will meet someone more twisted, you will fall in love and she will fuck you, take you to the altar and tie you up! but what else will you gain? To wave you all day in clothing stores and among chicken companies. Then, when you get married, she will tie you tightly and hang you by the neck, make you work like an ox and support her and your children! In the meantime, he will raise daily scandals for you and you and most of all - why don't you sit at home next to them, how dare you throw them away and go out with your friends? So, really, what's it for? At this stage, watch your life and be cool, and one day it will just come - you will meet someone more twisted, you will fall in love and she will fuck you, take you to the altar and tie you up! In the meantime, he will raise daily scandals for you and you and most of all - why don't you sit at home next to them, how dare you throw them away and go out with your friends? So, really, what's it for? At this stage, watch your life and be cool, and one day it will just come - you will meet someone more twisted, you will fall in love and she will fuck you, take you to the altar and tie you up! In the meantime, he will raise daily scandals for you and you and most of all - why don't you sit at home next to them, how dare you throw them away and go out with your friends? So, really, what's it for? At this stage, watch your life and be cool, and one day it will just come - you will meet someone more twisted, you will fall in love and she will fuck you, take you to the altar and tie you up!
Hey, we might be attracted to you, brother, but we live with them and we even have children with them
Personally, I agree with the conclusions of number 9, adding that there are exceptions, of course - however, not all can be placed under a common denominator. But such is the system in the end and it shapes the individual. The author.
Number 10, is that what women are for reproduction ???
That you are 18 would be abnormal if you wanted a relationship! Now is the time for parties, studying, university and sex ... And when the time comes for a relationship, you will see some wonderful emotional traits in the female sex that you can't even imagine, you still don't have the sense to you feel them and the worldview to see them. And among all these wonderful women that you still can't even appreciate, there will be a special one, whose emotionality will captivate your heart. Otherwise, I think it's normal for a virgin boy to go to a prostitute, many do. They are prostitutes for that.
In fact, most women do parasitize. Look around you and you will be convinced that I am right. Illustrative example: Turbo folk patches and not only them. I don't know a woman who has made a career without using her vagina or mouth.
Number 14, it may be true that women make a career with their birds, but this is at least partly the fault of men. The fact is that most boss positions are held by men, and quite often they take advantage of this, on the principle "you won't pass if you don't fuck with me". I'm not saying that women are not guilty and are big angels, but as with any corruption (and sex versus career is a kind of corruption), everything is a two-way process. If one did not want, the other would not give, but if the other was not willing to give, there would not be those who want. Number 9, I don't know what to tell you, except I'm sorry if you say all this from personal experience. If you let a woman spin you on her finger, yes, that's exactly what you wrote will happen. And not just your wife, everyone will turn you on their toes. If you have a little dignity and you're a man in place, you will knock on the table and say that things cannot go on like this. A man is a man when he has a firm hand and says how things will sit. Naturally, this must be done with a great deal of tact and a sense of justice, because otherwise it very quickly turns into the suppression of the other and exploitation, and no one wants to use it. And then you will very quickly lose the woman's trust and the mentioned scandals will come again. Be firm but fair, and they will believe you and listen to you. But if you are a way and a soft wrist, they will treat you exactly like that - Putken, as you describe it. Author, don't be in such a hurry to agree with number 9, because, as he said, you haven't seen anything yet. Life is not someone else's opinion, it is as you make it. Fight for your life and build it the way you want it, and let others bark. If you let yourself be made an idiot, what number 9 will happen will happen. But then it's your problem and no one is to blame. No one will defend your own interest for you, on the other hand, seeing that you do not defend it, you will infect many parasites - women, and more. Have an opinion, a direction, a goal - and stand up for them. The followers will come alone. Including female ones. Number 12, there are women who really just for breeding become that even for that not. This does not mean that everyone is like that, nor that it applies to you specifically. Don't react with number 7 like pinched hens, which seems ridiculous ... With number 13 I agree 90%, except with the beginning and the end - I don't see anything abnormal for an 18-year-old to want a relationship. There are many who do not want, because they are so smart, there are those who do not want a relationship at 40 (then it is a conscious choice), there are those who want at 15. I also don't think that it is recommended that you be with a prostitute for the first time, this is the greatest nonsense a person can create. And most of all, it won't solve the problem that led you to the fact that you need a prostitute for the first time. But what you wrote in between, I agree 100%, from personal experience. Kubrat
Number 15. I went to a prostitute because I couldn't stand the mental stress. If I hadn't gone and not done it at least once, the consequences would have been such that the news would have given them. Number 13 is normal for me, or at least it was. In the last few years, I have fallen in love several times and several times I have been seriously saddened by unrequited love. Parties and indiscriminate sex do not attract me - I prefer to sit on a bench in the City Garden and drink a beer.
Does Kubrat knock only on the table or on the woman to show who the "great" man is? : D What a praise of the power that only a man can possess, what insults to a woman - "way" that even a gay "soft wrist", although there are many who certainly have a harder wrist than you, Kubrate, you may feel it one day. A man is a man in what he is not, not in what he is. Thank God he is not a woman and I hope he is not gay, that this determines everything in his life - it is in whose ass he puts it. Thanks to such "males" as you Kubrate, we understood what you are not, but what are you, except that you knock on the table? PP The power of a person is not expressed in what gender he is and how much it is necessary. You can look at Agatha Christie's "Witness to the Prosecution" and understand what we are talking about.
Kubrate, do you now understand what I mean when I say that women use men and impose their will at all costs? At the moment, as you show firmness, they are accusing you of being a tyrant, a rapist, a bully and of killing some complexes! And if you behave gently and carefully, they immediately start using you and get on your head! That's why so many men have remained old bachelors in recent years. (Number 9 I was)
I don't think most of today's men are good for anything. Especially these p * tovtsi here, where they quarrel with women and roar about inflatable dolls in the forum: D Yes, for rubber heads - rubber women :))
What to become number 19 - what do you want from a man - to satisfy your whims while you get on his head?
18, if a man behaves carefully, I will not tell him anything. : Д
Hey, number 20, how did you reveal me! That's right - I catch someone, hormonally strong and mentally weak, and make him satisfy my whims. This is my hobby. In free time - the eighth day of the week. Because I work for seven days. Safe from asexual liglovtsi, whose grapes are sour. Poof, where's my vomiting basin!
These topics should somehow be banned, firstly, only for participants over 18 to be, and secondly, only for men in these male topics, because women only know how to add fuel to the fire ...
22 so you only confirm what people say like 18 and obviously it affected me a lot because I told the truth - a characteristic feature is when you tell the truth to people get angry and react sharply. If it weren't true, you wouldn't react like that. The author. PS I'm waiting for the usual clichés and attacks in the style of "hater / complex".
Number 17, you wrote a lot of text, but you didn't say anything. I read your comment three times, I had a good desire to understand you, but apart from nagging and stupid word games ("A man is a man in what he is not, not in what he is" -?!?) I could not saw an idea in your comment. For me, in general, this is the moment when you ignore the list as a person who insists on having an opinion, but there is no such opinion, and I just waste my time with him. But I will still try to explain to you what it is about, at least you catch something, because with this attitude where you have a lot of (verbal) fart you will eat: This is not about someone pretending to be great or demonstrating strength. It is about the fact that a relationship is a balance - a balance of interests and desires of two people, and at the moment when this balance is disturbed and one side takes over, ie. to please one more than to the other, things go well. And very fast and very noisy. What the author is talking about, as well as number 9, is precisely a severely disturbed balance of interests, in this case in the direction of women's interest. And yes, in this case, the man, if he does not want to be fucked forever, must knock on the table and show a little strength and will to regain interest. If he wants to. The other option is to beat the woman's jester and start over. Of course, the same is true when the female interest is distorted in favor of the male - then the woman, if not a rag, will also knock on the table, or rather will roam to heaven to regain interest. If he doesn't, he'll still be a rag. ONLY THAT this scenario is not a topic of discussion at the moment, there are countless other topics for it. Here we are talking about the case when the male interest is violated, and that's why my comment was like that. I hope you understand me now. If not - sorry. And what you wrote under number 21 (= number 17) is good, so there is some vague hope, only I don't know who exactly was inattentive to you in case he decided to "say" something ... Number 18, yes I know very well what you mean, but that doesn't mean letting yourself be made a monkey. When you see that things are going wrong, you go and speak directly in plain text. One time you speak, the second time you speak (as I did with number 17), possibly if you think it makes sense and the third time you speak ... and if there is no effect, then you are just wasting your time. A man who speaks to him objectively and with arguments, and he always knows his and is stubborn like a donkey on a bridge, there is no point in dealing with him, because he will make your life very brutal ... Kubrat I hope you understand me now. If not - sorry. And what you wrote under number 21 (= number 17) is good, so there is some vague hope, only I don't know who exactly was inattentive to you in case he decided to "say" something ... Number 18, yes I know very well what you mean, but that doesn't mean letting yourself be made a monkey. When you see that things are going wrong, you go and speak directly in plain text. One time you speak, the second time you speak (as I did with number 17), possibly if you think it makes sense and the third time you speak ... and if there is no effect, then you are just wasting your time. A man who speaks to him objectively and with arguments, and he always knows his and is stubborn like a donkey on a bridge, there is no point in dealing with him, because he will make your life very brutal ... Kubrat I hope you understand me now. If not - sorry. And what you wrote under number 21 (= number 17) is good, so there is some vague hope, only I don't know who exactly was inattentive to you in case he decided to "say" something ... Number 18, yes I know very well what you mean, but that doesn't mean letting yourself be made a monkey. When you see that things are going wrong, you go and speak directly in plain text. One time you speak, the second time you speak (as I did with number 17), possibly if you think it makes sense and the third time you speak ... and if there is no effect, then you are just wasting your time. A man who speaks to him objectively and with arguments, and he always knows his and is stubborn like a donkey on a bridge, there is no point in dealing with him, because he will make your life very brutal ... Kubrat And what you wrote under number 21 (= number 17) is good, so there is some vague hope, only I don't know who exactly was inattentive to you in case he decided to "say" something ... Number 18, yes I know very well what you mean, but that doesn't mean letting yourself be made a monkey. When you see that things are going wrong, you go and speak directly in plain text. One time you speak, the second time you speak (as I did with number 17), possibly if you think it makes sense and the third time you speak ... and if there is no effect, then you are just wasting your time. A man who speaks to him objectively and with arguments, and he always knows his and is stubborn like a donkey on a bridge, there is no point in dealing with him, because he will make your life very brutal ... Kubrat And what you wrote under number 21 (= number 17) is good, so there is some vague hope, only I don't know who exactly was inattentive to you in case he decided to "say" something ... Number 18, yes I know very well what you mean, but that doesn't mean letting yourself be made a monkey. When you see that things are going wrong, you go and speak directly in plain text. One time you speak, the second time you speak (as I did with number 17), possibly if you think it makes sense and the third time you speak ... and if there is no effect, then you are just wasting your time. A man who speaks to him objectively and with arguments, and he always knows his and is stubborn like a donkey on a bridge, there is no point in dealing with him, because he will make your life very brutal ... Kubrat only I don't know who exactly was inattentive to you in case he decided to "say" something ... Number 18, yes, I know very well what you mean, but that doesn't mean letting yourself be made a monkey. When you see that things are going wrong, you go and speak directly in plain text. One time you speak, the second time you speak (as I did with number 17), possibly if you think it makes sense and the third time you speak ... and if there is no effect, then you are just wasting your time. A man who speaks to him objectively and with arguments, and he always knows his and is stubborn like a donkey on a bridge, there is no point in dealing with him, because he will make your life very brutal ... Kubrat only I don't know who exactly was inattentive to you in case he decided to "say" something ... Number 18, yes, I know very well what you mean, but that doesn't mean letting yourself be made a monkey. When you see that things are going wrong, you go and speak directly in plain text. One time you speak, the second time you speak (as I did with number 17), possibly if you think it makes sense and the third time you speak ... and if there is no effect, then you are just wasting your time. A man who speaks to him objectively and with arguments, and he always knows his and is stubborn like a donkey on a bridge, there is no point in dealing with him, because he will make your life very brutal ... Kubrat When you see that things are going wrong, you go and speak directly in plain text. One time you speak, the second time you speak (as I did with number 17), possibly if you think it makes sense and the third time you speak ... and if there is no effect, then you are just wasting your time. A man who speaks to him objectively and with arguments, and he always knows his and is stubborn like a donkey on a bridge, there is no point in dealing with him, because he will make your life very brutal ... Kubrat When you see that things are going wrong, you go and speak directly in plain text. One time you speak, the second time you speak (as I did with number 17), possibly if you think it makes sense and the third time you speak ... and if there is no effect, then you are just wasting your time. A man who speaks to him objectively and argumentatively, and he always knows his own and is stubborn like a donkey on a bridge, there is no point in dealing with him, because he will make your life very brutal ... Kubrat
Number 9/18, are you sure your wife didn't type from your computer? :-) Because number 12 is the same as number 9, 18 and 23, except that the opinion of 12 does not fit in the picture of the others :-) Kubrat
No, I didn't express myself correctly or you just didn't understand me. Number 10 I think is a man. Well, I don't think women should only serve for reproduction, unlike most men as they think, but most women do it themselves, in the end it turns out for many of them that this is what they do. And it shouldn't be like that. I'm not saying there are no decent women, but most are big hens, that's what I meant. But I realized that the way it was written came out as if a woman had written it and was outraged that men thought that about all women, and that wasn't the case. I apologize for the misunderstanding. :)))
I read the comments on the topic, [which is somewhat serious] and instead of being affected by the words of the men I had fun with them ... :) ZARA 36
28, egati behavior, you admit that the topic is serious, and you had fun with the comments! To have your overconfidence without coverage and your lack of intelligence! Come on, give more adequate comments, as you are so open, and we men will decide whether to laugh at you! It is very easy to stand aside and just grin like crazy and criticize, but to express an opinion I see that it is not within your capabilities, a lot of perseverance of the brain folds is required, and you obviously do not have them :)))
29, I'm not criticizing, I'm having fun ...:) and this expression "hilish" doesn't suit me at all .... and enough with these brain folds, if I mean the comments on the topic, they don't matter to the man , so what are you looking at in their number .... by the way, I'm not wasting my time counting them, there are so many more pleasant things than that ...:) ... And I'm not a woman with overconfidence, and I'm just confident in myself and obviously this is obvious ... come on calm down 29 ... ZARA 36
Let me tell you, you are a woman with super-confidence number 30. I know such words even just by the choice of words. Anyway, I hadn't written about it in a long time. On the topic of why I'm disappointed in women, but simply because most women are muffins - looking for an uncle-coin. There were no quiet and modest girls left to appreciate qualities such as love, honesty and modesty. Number 13 I don't know my husband or wife, but my heart is already so broken that I no longer believe in love and there is nothing that would make me believe. Sometimes I even think about ending it, but I didn't do it just because of my mother. From the author.
Author, while talking about women in the plural - still will not attract you emotionally. Just think what an absurdity it is to be "emotionally attracted" to half of humanity, or at least all of those who become you! There is nothing more normal than not being attracted to anyone other than the person who is for you. You just haven't found your girlfriend ... but that will happen one day, I promise.
As long as you complained, people! Are you so unhappy, I can't believe it! Women were like that, men were like that! Do you think that such topics-summaries make sense? As if someone can give some accurate prediction about human relations that he is sure will come true? Look at things more positively, look for the good in people and you will find it. Just because you've come across a few people who aren't valuable doesn't mean there aren't any. Stop this hatred and be happy!
To the Author ... Cheerfully, there will be time for a woman or a girl to catch your attention over a prosecutor. There are many modest, tender and earthy women who no one notices because they cannot trust a man. And they are as frustrated as you and they can't and can't afford to have or even think about an emotional connection so as not to be disappointed one more time. This is somewhat of an emotional trauma from an immature and incomplete relationship. More clearly, time will pass and things will either happen or not ... but the human aspiration is the truth ... so sharpen the leagues and In attack, in attack .... between the two legs with a goal in hand .... and a basket with two balls equal to.
I will ask those who write a comment to write whether they are men or women.
At this fragile age, being so disappointed is not good. I was totally disappointed in much more .... I am a woman and I am 43. I agree that there are girls and women with a cart dictionary, without a value system - they only think about money and use, and so on. But no one says you have to deal with them! Carefully observe the girl's behavior, and judge wisely! Look around at some less noticeable girl who doesn't wear 5 kilos of make-up, silicone tits and her cleavage doesn't reach her navel. This distancing in you is caused by disappointment and is a protective mechanism so that you do not suffer a lot next time, so that you do not have high expectations. If you meet a good girl, let things go according to the situation (which doesn't mean you doze off and wait) and don't go with a basket full of dreams ... If you like it,
Well 37 Being shapes consciousness. Things around you can't be black and you can't be white. The author
Author, learn to perceive! There is something valuable in most of the comments. Just stop looking and SEE what they told you.
The topic was written 1 year ago, since then things have changed in the direction that I finally gave up love. And what to read - how men and women chew or how some women with over-confidence do the big job (and if they are not men, they are nothing). I saw what they told me - general talk - I was little and I don't know what. And those who have written to me what they are older than me: Age is not a criterion for wisdom.
And you, Author :) What do you want, for Love to fall from the sky? If you want something - DO it. If you are a master, grab the biggest, most material Muffin and make her love. Maybe you know :) But in order to learn, you have to work hard. And the easiest way is to declare all women rotten, that is, to declare yourself rotten. We can only do good from the Bad, nothing else. We can do the beautiful only from the Ugly. People make a goddess out of stone. And you can't make a Woman out of a Muffin. Don't give up on life, at 18. Never give up. YD
I'm already 19 and I've heard clichés like: Don't give up. Whatever you or anyone else says cannot convince me not to give up love. And with this edifying tone: And it is easiest to declare all women rotten, that is, to declare yourself rotten. You go and tell them to someone else. The important thing is that I don't feel rotten, and whether you or a muffin will think of me as such, you remember how much I care. There are decent girls I do not deny it, but they are so few that I do not think I bother to look for them. Do you know why - because that was the only way to keep myself a person and not go crazy with grief. Because I clearly realize that no one would look at me. And you know how to treat a tumor - you cut it out. The love in my life turned into a tumor and I removed it no matter how painful it was.
And did you remember how much someone cares about you. You don't get up, you give up, it's your job. YD
And you don't care what you write, do you? Because your life is very boring or to make yourself very great?
To make myself great, of course :) :) YD
Clear. But you're not funny, you're funny and other users of the site told you so. Don't bother answering me - I won't read your comments and I won't answer them
Yes, that's right, neither read nor answer :) When I'm funny, laugh :) :) YD
I can get some moral support (if the woman is decent) and sex. I'm only 20 and at the moment I don't think about children at all. I just don't see the point in continuing to try for a serious relationship, putting so much effort into getting a woman, and she just has to say / show if she likes you. That's why I, as the author, recently started looking at women as sexual objects, which is very unfortunate. However, I just don't care anymore and I don't put so much effort into it, especially considering that they are often completely in vain. I started looking at women as sexual objects, which is very unfortunate. However, I just don't care anymore and I don't put so much effort into it, especially considering that they are often completely in vain. I started looking at women as sexual objects, which is very unfortunate. However, I just don't care anymore and I don't put so much effort into it, especially considering that they are often completely in vain.
I understand you very well 49. In the end I got what I wanted - sex, and about love as it was said in a movie: "With age comes reconciliation and one realizes that not all dreams are destined to come true." I clearly realize that no one would love me, but honestly, I also don't want to love anyone - I've learned that I shouldn't shed a single tear for a woman. And the bachelor life will save me a lot of headaches.