Women, Don't Stop Having Sex So As Not To Ruin The Family

   Men, don't stop having sex so as not to ruin the family.

   To go to lose weight this lazy person, as long as you drool over her! Tighten it up a bit, you sound like you're afraid to tell her two stories and she's rushing you and doing whatever she wants.

   Alas, if you do not start with normal sex, your family is over - if you wipe something, it will show, she will smell and watch what happens. Explain it to her, I hope she does. One to one. I speak from experience. If sex stops, the relationship and the family go to the movies.

   Alas, if you do not start with normal sex, your family is over - if you wipe something, it will show, she will smell and watch what happens. Explain it to her, I hope she does. One to one. I speak from experience. If sex stops, the relationship and the family go to the movies.

   In my opinion, you don't want to cheat on your wife, and what's left for a mistress, maybe she controls you in some way, but do you think that you can catch another and not become attached to her sexually and emotionally, not to be jealous and floor, you are still a person with experience in such relationships. (f.27)

   You are very right, it all comes down to sex for nothing, do not ignore it, live while you time, do not miss the good moments, enjoy the desire. ж48

   In fact, to correct oneself may not be out of control, but out of love, it can happen to anyone to fall in love and love.

   Try courting her, give her something. Fullness shouldn't be a problem once you like it. Talk to her carefully. Tell her about your acquaintances, who were in this situation and the family broke up ... And I hope she understands.

   And why don't you buy an artificial vagina from a sex shop instead of wiping another woman who is a human being and is not to blame for the marital cripple? !? There are pulsating, vibrating, narrow, virgin with several speeds, only one lubricant and you have to. So you will not joke with your wife, your child, another woman, or finally with yourself !!! M 40

   Talk to her and tell her how it affects you ... It could just be a phase.

   Sir, remember that you have sworn before God that you will be with your wife for better and for worse! Do not listen to the temptations of the Evil One, because you will get into far more serious problems! You love your wife and family and that is the most important thing. Try to find out where you are wrong. Be more romantic and tolerant of your wife and avoid quarrels and scandals. Talk to her and discuss the problem. Don't let everyday life suffocate you. Be a man and do not give up, but awaken the woman in her!

   You underestimate how much nerves and troubles you can get with a mistress. Obviously, you are not a good person who can wrap himself and communicate adequately, and communication problems are the main reason for the relationship to be confused. Now imagine that you have a confused relationship not with 1, but with 2 women, because it will be a matter of time with the mistress to confuse things. Moreover, the mistress is also a person, she also has her problems and do not be naive, the reason a woman deals with a desperate married man is not because she is normal, happy, without problems in communication. There is a very unpleasant paradox in the universe and that is that desperate people smell each other. If they are really people with potential, for whom it is just a temporary bad period, they pull each other very quickly and breathe strength. But, if they are crazy in principle and do not have the capacity to grow, then it becomes bad, or they remain in a painful stagnation or even pull each other down ... You are good at strength. I agree with everyone who advised you to talk to your wife more directly, as well as the idea of ​​number 12 for the artificial vagina. It would be adequate to go to a marriage counselor. While orienting yourself, certainly do not deprive yourself at least of masturbation, because sexual tension blocks and obscures judgments, sharpens sensitivity, all the signs that he himself described as ruining your life. You had said that your family life was failing, but my friend, being a person with a failed family life means that life itself has failed. There is always the option of divorce if your wife is a cursed, fat, stubborn, manipulative creature. It is saddest for children to live with sad dissatisfied parents. The intelligence is better for them, if there is no harmony, ask any psychologist and he will confirm it. Don't worry, it happens in many families, it's just rarely admitted out loud. The problem is that most people are limited and irresponsible to themselves, their partner and their children and choose not to change anything. When you feel bad, you need to change, to CHANGE, to move things in another direction. As long as you act the same and the end result is the same. Success! you need to change, to CHANGE, to move things in another direction. As long as you act the same and the end result is the same. Success! you need to change, to CHANGE, to move things in another direction. As long as you act the same and the end result is the same. Success!

   And one more thing, you say "it's not easy". It's easy, it's easy to say take responsibility, make an effort, be afraid to change. It's not easy, but the hardest thing is to do nothing and hope that a solution will come out of nowhere, it's hardest to decide to make a bigger mess than to understand WHY it is. you fix your life. Even just reading my two comments may make you want a mistress, sex, and anything that is an indicator that you are really afraid of failure, but the life of a voiceless, dissatisfied person is the saddest thing to do. the world. Because many people live in difficult conditions, sick, crippled, you are asked to move your ass a little and grow. It's cool to be an adult, children are addicted manipulators because they have no other choice. You have.

   Agree with number 3, the fat to take to fix. :)

   Number 1 turned on very well. There are so many married men who, at the age of 30-40, still become so non-sexual - still a little tired from work ... I don't know what. Like sons, they become their wives - they just wait for them to be washed and cooked: they splash, watch TV and fall asleep.

   Home 15 THE MAN solves his problems, he does not bend like a snail to hope that the bad will pass by itself.

   Exactly how simple and irresponsible a man must be in order not to admit: 1- that the woman no longer wants him and 2- that he is to blame for that? !! When you accept the first and acknowledge the second, you will find the right path. Until then, hit some villain and accept that your wife is not a given to you, she is not a doll on which you can just turn on batteries. And no, don't explain how much you help with the housework. This is an OBLIGATION of both, and sexual desire is a feeling, a sentiment. It was left not to help with the household chores, you found something to brag about and toss as a bargaining chip for sex. If he doesn't want you, there is no way to have good sex. The other option is to force her somehow (blackmail) and get a live woman with a hot hole and in disgust waiting to finish and leave at last.

   And, the "fat one" will easily get better after she got fat to give birth to the obviously wrong one. Garbage. How can you say that about your wife, hopefully at least the child isn't one of you, that she has naughty genes. Some women have a harder time recovering from childbirth due to "whirlwinds" in hormones. That's why I wonder what kind of men you are (some), what kind of people do you need? !! Such a "man" only another "man" would want. Come on, healthy "men"! P. p. I apologize to normal men, my anger is towards those who are trying to pass for you, and even as the monkeys can't even copy!

   Lie, what poetry, calmness, tolerance and benevolence from poop 21 and 22, waiting in disgust for something. And of course the mind gives - what is sexual desire. And to give away something you don't have ...

   so many women recover after giving birth, and there are even some who do not gain weight at all. The fat woman can go to the gym, a person can always lose weight, as long as he is not bored. She did a great job giving birth, no one forced her to.

   N 23, grandpa, you can certainly be my grandfather and you've probably even forgotten what sex is. He left. to explain to me ... off

   The author. Ladies and gentlemen, I wrote this to make it easier for me and I was hoping for opinions from people in a similar situation. Well, I also received a moral assessment, an ethical reminder from a Christian preacher on the net (we fight for every soul, ah), and a dose of vicious attacks. I've taken psychology courses at university, I've helped a lot of women figure out their halves, but when things are different for you, you can't look around and do a readable analysis. I was weak, I didn't feel well. Well, of course, I don't feel like picking up a parallel connection if I feel like I've already done so. I am aware that I can mix a big big mess and start falling apart. But I'm not weak, I'm just sensible. Well, that's what I think about from time to time - if I have a discrete relationship that is clearly regulated as such - a flirtation sequel, whether the change for me will act as a stimulus for family life and soon the parallel relations will become unnecessary, and may lead to aggravation of the situation. I'm sure some of the readers are married, maybe long. Ladies and gentlemen, are your family relationships so perfect that you look for in such confessionals? It's like "just browsing" on a dating site. There are no innocent observers, everyone has some drama and is looking for the solution, etc. n. My wife is not fat, but she mourns her figure from her youth and before pregnancy. And it's not dawn for me to have an orgasm on my own. I'm thinking about whether I can give impetus to my marriage, because women are sensitive and if they feel competition we can start to find more time for ourselves.

   Author, you can first talk to her and ask her why she doesn't want to. Something may have felt offended or hurt. There may be a health problem. You can also try new things, such as oral sex for her, take her to a spa weekend, for example, in a resort, etc. No woman is the same after giving birth as a figure and health, these are normal things. And she knows it. In general, try to talk to her and see what the problem is. She may be in postpartum depression, too. It's an honor to grit your teeth and not run right after other women. You are conscious and stick to marriage. The important thing is to somehow predispose her.

   To the Author, number 30 - you are very right that women are sensory and that they will feel if there is competition. If she is generally more predatory and likes to compete, she will probably start trying to prove herself, which would be SUPER, but if she is more modest and timid in general, she will shut up and get depressed, and only you traumatize her. You know her best, how she reacted before such provocations, think carefully whether it will not get worse. PP: Although if she is sincerely upset and shut up, you will then be able to take on the role of a hero to save her and raise her self-esteem, etc. However, if she is both insecure and suspicious at the same time she will not allow you to you save and he will only want to make your life black, he will start ruining you on a domestic level, instilling guilt in you, complaining to people and discrediting you ... and really crush you with malice and thirst for revenge. And then you really have to end the war and divorce. Manipulations are not the best solution at all, and if they are not very well thought out, being flexible and more analytical will be very bad and you will burn yourself. Success! number 16

   Yeah, so you want to flirt with other women in order to make your wife jealous, obviously out of love. But I think if you love her, you can just try other ways to bring her desire back to you, use all your sexual energy to her, she can get complex but I believe you will find ways to fix your relationship, say you are you like her and you are not attracted to others.

   Dude, don't be mad at the Christian preacher, as you call him. God's laws are not made up just to make it difficult for people, quite the opposite. One, two or more lovers will not solve your problem, on the contrary you will get into an even bigger mess. I think it's best to talk to your wife. If you love each other, it should not be very difficult for you to solve this problem.

   Author, apparently your wife is not very sexual, since you have done it relatively rarely since before she became pregnant. After birth, the reasons for low libido can be very different - hormonal problems, depression, low self-esteem due to weight gain, fatigue and lack of time for themselves in addition to caring for the child. This is common in many women after giving birth. Here the important thing is to talk to her and she realizes that there is a problem with all this. I am a man a little over 30, we have 2 small children and my wife also has such moments, but if we do not have sex for 1 week I go crazy, and for 1 month I do not know - probably the version of the colleague above with the artificial vagina will seem attractive. .. honestly, even a plank with a hole at the bottom would seem attractive to me ...) Joke aside, but the lack of sex is quite a serious problem and for this reason people who would not cheat start looking at others. Otherwise, about the malicious comments - and I have written in other topics about them - in addition to the malicious lady from comments 21 and 22 on the site there are several large capacities, which from several written lines already understand everything about their author and give moral assessments and final conclusions. I don't know why the moderators publish such comments, especially as 22 - the person asks about a very real problem and instead of going to the fuck as many others would do, he tries to solve his problem in some acceptable way and here a vicious, obviously suffering from serious sexual and not only, dissatisfaction aunt or poop, allows himself to insult him directly and make him the biggest garbage. Then there are more comments like mine and the topic is totally bullshit, and the author has received only unpleasant emotions instead of some solution and sympathy for his problem. This makes much of the whole idea of ​​the forum meaningless. I hope the moderators take action and limit such comments.

   Up to 35 no measures will be taken. Comments 21 and 22 remain and will remain. It is not the first time, it will not be the last.

   Number 35, I completely agree with the first sentence of your comment: "Obviously your wife is not very sexual." I will go even further and say that his wife is not sexual at all. If even before pregnancy they did it 2-3 times a month, this tells me that she does not feel any sexual pleasure, and she did it only for his sake, as if it were nothing. A woman who has an orgasm from sex cannot not want to do it. If she refused only after the birth, I understand that there were other reasons, but if she refused even before pregnancy, she is obviously asexual. I wonder how the author, intelligent and educated, did not understand these things. Author, even when you were boyfriends you should have understood these things. I found out very early when a woman simulates an orgasm and when she experiences a real orgasm. In this respect, a woman cannot deceive me. In a real orgasm, the female body reacts in an unmistakable way, and an experienced man understands this very well, and when he simulates an orgasm, she may whimper or moan (supposedly for pleasure), but that doesn't mean anything. I have been with many women and many of them have simulated, but I have accepted their simulations so as not to spoil the atmosphere at the moment. I have also been with women who have experienced such violent orgasms that their reactions are completely abnormal, not because of what moans they emit and how they whine, but how their body reacts. I would never marry a woman who is asexual, who does not want sex and refuses sex to her husband. Why should I suffer being deprived of sex, better without such a woman. I know what I would do in your situation, but you are a different person and you need to find a way to solve the problem.

   Number 32, this is not true at all, because the woman is insecure or a predator .... :) in the end she is a person, how do you know which woman how to register, each will react individually no matter what she is. For example, I am yielding, otherwise when I live with someone or if we are constantly together I guess it is obvious, if I feel that I can trust someone I can behave with a lot of love and devotion. I was hurt and after it happened to me for the first time somehow I closed myself to men, I tried to look for ways but men also didn't understand me. Things got better from this side despite the unfavorable circumstances, but there is no love. I can't be angry for a long time, I'm sick when I quarrel with someone close to me, but the bad thing is that it ignites quickly, which I try to control, etc. That's how I see things,keeps her husband dry just to make her want, pretends to be a virgin and otherwise who knows, this will change. The other thing he does not attract her physically if so she can still have sex with him but it is never like he wants which of the two will become apparent someday. This is a kind of manipulation, but men like such women and so on. , I will just accept it and I do not argue.they even defend them and it will be difficult for me to dissuade myself in my opinion someday, I will just accept it and not argue.they even defend them and it will be difficult for me to dissuade myself in my opinion someday, I will just accept it and not argue.

   What do you think so much. Find a mistress who is looking for the same as you and drive your life. Just be careful not to be understood at home. Good luck.

   If my husband offers me competition, if he is stupid enough to put me in such a position, I will give it to the competitor on a silver tray with a pepper in his ass and a lemon in his mouth. And then he will see quite by chance what competition is. Be careful with such manipulations, it can always turn out that you are quickly and easily replaced in such insulting situations.

   To the author - what did he decide if it was not a secret? I see that you have received a lot of interesting advice.