Hi, I guess a lot of men are asking the same question. As far as I know the female logic, I am sure of one thing. A woman wants sex, maybe more than a man. Maybe she just doesn't want to be pressured, I don't know. Sex is one of the most useful things in this world, perhaps the best thing. Why then is it so difficult for so many people? Why do so many people put up walls around themselves and block the good things that can happen to them. What turns you on, dear ladies, and how would you get involved in sex? Would you respond positively to a direct invitation to have sex?
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Bulgarian women are afraid to show that they want sex from a man, so as not to think of them as light women, whores or that they are like the Russians - easier and faster !!!
"Would you respond positively to a direct invitation to sex?" - No, I would not.
Some time ago, a girl here attacked me, that I obviously didn't know what good sex was, after I said that I prefer pizza ... in connection with the fact that women wanted more sex than men. I continue to hold my opinion. Otherwise, there are many answers to your question. If you follow the thinking of a large percentage of men, they will tell you that the woman only looks at how shiny your car is and how thick your wallet is. There are quite a few, of course, it is clear. I belong to normal women and for me the most important thing is that the man attracts me on all levels - both physically and mentally. I will not accept a direct invitation for sex from a man I like right away, but it will make a bad impression on me if I hurry with my aspirations. For me, the good sense of humor and wit is very exciting, so if they are garnished and with good vision, I will hardly resist after our third meeting. Matchmaking behavior, high social status, strong muscles, etc. have never worked for me. I prefer earthy and fresh people who do not take themselves very seriously and do something interesting. I like this and contribute to wanting intimacy with them.
What this means? How to "wind up" like that? A man is either attracted to us or not. When I was younger, I had sex with whoever I wanted - yes, even non-committal. Whether on my own initiative or on the part of a man. Later, in a serious relationship and as a family, I have already chosen my life partner and not that I do not notice other men, and not that in other circumstances I would not have sex with them, but I made my conscious choice and out of order reasons I stick to it. There is no such thing (at least for me) as "winding". Either you want something strong enough or you don't!
Technology has largely replaced human communication .... Also, most women are more emotional and we can very easily evaporate the desire for sex from something small like tone, facial expressions ... And if you are married and do nothing at home is normally your wife has no desire because she has taken on the role of a maid ....
Sex is not such a good experience for a woman unless she is aroused. There are a number of factors for arousal - to like a man's physique, to have very good personal hygiene, to be in the mood, ie to feel good emotionally and physically (a problem in many women, due to hormones, overweight weight, stress in everyday life, housework and work, etc.). Also, to arouse a woman you need at least 20 minutes of foreplay. It's not like men with you - you see the woman, even dressed and you're ready. Besides, women don't like direct questions. They like to have romance, to be taken out to dinner, to the movies, to the theater. You have to show respect, attention and love to get further. There is no woman who does not love these things. With younger girls (20-25) you can be more direct and tie you from the 3rd time, but this is only because she has not realized and is not respected enough. Separately, there are women who are constantly aroused, with them maybe easier, try them
Not like you, for sure!
It depends on the person and yes, I answered. It wasn't exactly "Let's have sex," but "Let's go home." It's the same. But first I have to like it, otherwise no matter how much he takes me down and invites me, there is no chance. After all, I'm over 30 and I know what I want from men now.
I like smart guys or a lot of fun. Confident. The intellect attracts me purely physically. It is very important to maintain good personal hygiene. For example, it is very difficult for me, in fact, it did not happen to me to sleep with someone on the first date, but some things can happen if he has the right approach to me - to talk to me, to have a good conversation, he can compliment me, but not constantly because I get annoyed. It is very important how he touches - to be gentle, I mean to have supposedly involuntary touches, very light, but that's enough to transfer sparks. It is very important when he kisses me - at least for me, when he kisses me for a long time and passionately, even if I only remember one such incident now ... Something that repulses me personally are boys like simpletons, mobsters, complete jesters, dirty etc.
When I like someone, there is no need to wind me up. Otherwise, whatever he does, there is no chance. And the liking itself depends on the character and the chemistry between us.
Personally, I am worried about the fact that if I "relax" and respond to your well-meaning invitations for useful sex, you will end up sticking the epithet whore to me. This is something that bothers 90% of women ... that if they agree more often, they will eventually come out light. Otherwise, if I were a man, I would count healthily
I may like the man very much, but they sent me a direct invitation for sex ... I will lose him. Such annoyances irritate and repel me. And having a boyfriend doesn't have to "wind me up" sex is part of the relationship ... two lovers. But if you have sex without feelings, all sex is meaningless. :))))
For sex with the one I like and I am attracted to, I am curled up 24/7. I am not interested in other invitations. Alpha, w. 29
Why do you ask a question that has no answer. Things just happen. One will want you passionately and the other would not look at you. Isn't it good that everyone "sticks" to different things? Otherwise, few would shine on them.
The problem is that many men talk and make fun of the women they have had sex with. And the thing is, we live in a society where if someone's had sex with someone, there's always a note that one fucked the other ... That the woman "lied", which means she's dumb, light, corrupt and so on. It is much less likely than in other countries. Sex for one night, especially after the "student" years, stops abruptly. You see, in other countries it's far less dramatic that a woman sleeps with a man because she wants sex, and then she doesn't care if she meets him again. In Bulgaria, such behavior is unacceptable.
Author: Although I'm a man, I'm personally very annoyed that women who have a lot of sex call them whores. For me, if a woman is determined that she wants passionate sex, not relationships, then she is not a whore, she just knows what she wants. For me, a whore is this woman who both wants a relationship and love, and wants with different men. So he starts hanging on two and three to lie to them that he likes to change them, etc. This is a whore to me. I really liked the comment on number 4, this is a typical example of a woman who knows what she wants. I want to ask one more thing, if he offers you an attractive man who is a professional masseur, if he offers to give you a free massage directly, would you agree? And if the massage starts to relax you, it becomes very pleasant for you and the man gradually starts massaging points that he knows are arousing for the woman, would you pull away if he gradually began to introduce tantra techniques, would you repel him. We are talking about a man who knows exactly how to send a woman directly to heaven.
How do I wind up? -Well, I sleep with my longtime boyfriend regularly and I don't deal with daydreams!
Well, it depends on who the invitation for sex is. For a certain man - yes. For others - no.
It's a bitch to benefit from people, not to have sex with whoever you want and when you want to. Whores are of both sexes.
If I didn't have sexual chemistry with the man against me, I wouldn't be having sex. The presence of chemistry is the basis for passionate and fulfilling sex. Without it, what is it for me to just go in and out? I believe that it is the same with men - she must have chemistry with her partner.
Author (17), You are somewhat dissatisfied in some way, it seems to me. Number 5
It depends. If I like him as a person and I think we can have a relationship - yes. If I don't like it - no. For me, sex is a normal need - mental and physical. I wouldn't have sex with everyone, but if the person is gentle and kind and understands me and treats me as I deserve - I would. The problem for me is that I don't like my body and I have a complex of that. But did the barrier pass with shame - nanny prohibitions and obstacles in love. This happens with a person who is with you and you communicate a lot and you see that he cares about you ;-). Emanuela 29 years old