Hello! I have been following the site for a long time, but I have not commented or posted anything. Here I have gathered the courage to share my story and I hope it will be easier for me. I am ready for negative comments, I will not apologize and make a sacrifice. Two years ago I broke up with my husband, he decided to go abroad immediately. My former admirer first looked for me as a friend, then asked us to be intimate, I was stupid and attached to him, which I regret. The problem is that it took him a year and a half to convince me to meet and sleep. He passed with the usual number "his wife wouldn't let him, he slept separately, she was like that and like that". We agreed that it was just sex and that was the end of it. "BUT" has one big "but". He went to another city, quite far from our settlement. Six months have passed since then, and he's been looking for me again for a while, I told him clearly that this time his number would not pass, but he did not stop. I told him to look for entertainment elsewhere, but to no avail. Yes, I am guilty, I know I was wrong, but I think everyone should look at their lives, our paths are different and they should remain so. They wonder what to do, I just want him to leave me alone.
She explains to me that she is facing divorce and a bunch of other nonsense, but I'm not a woman who believes in words, I believe in actions. Give opinions, no matter how harsh comments you leave I will take them into account! that she is facing divorce and a bunch of other nonsense, but I'm not one of those women who believe in words, I believe in actions.
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Step back and see if what he's telling you is going to divorce, etc., is it true or is it misleading you
Where it once flowed, it will flow again. You are a reserve for him. You just block him, don't explain yourself to him. Why haven't you blocked it yet?
If you don't want it, block it everywhere, what's wrong with it? Tell everything to his wife, let them fix you at home. He is probably lying about the divorce. If he comes to bother you personally, threaten him with the police and a restraining order, but I don't believe it will get there. Tell him you have a serious friend, even if you don't.
The author To 1, even if she divorces, I do not want to develop a serious relationship with him. He has cheated on his wife many times, he will hardly be different with me, maybe in the beginning "yes", but in time he will probably find himself in her place. Until 2 I know that I am his reserve, he always explained to me how he fishes this one and that one sleeps with them once and he doesn't look for them anymore. I can't explain why he's still looking for me. Until 3 I thought to tell his wife, but she is the type of woman who always protects her husband, it is not his first time to break. I talked to his ex, they just wrote to each other, his wife saw the chats, she was angry with him for two days and nothing, on the other hand she called the girl in question and her mother and told her all sorts of nonsense. She was guilty, he was innocent. I realize that if I tell her, I will be found guilty and attacked.
If I have been a cat for a year, as she pretended to be during that year, but in the end she clung to it ... how will I know that when it starts to be done to me again, it will not end in the same way - with a mouthful? You crushed it yourself. What does "it doesn't stop" mean? Where does it bother you? There is a blockage on social networks, you have a blockage on the phone. Cook me, no one will bother to create 105 profiles to write to you from them. When he writes - a block and that's it. .
Until Bratan may not be believable, but there are at least three profiles on Facebook and two on Instagram. I block one after two days it writes to me under a new name. For a year I have been a great player and understander. He tells me how he goes through women, like a bus stop, doesn't sleep with one more than twice. He got tired of it, put an end to it and blocked them from everywhere. This has been going on since the beginning of his marriage for almost 13 years. I know from credible sources that at least half of his affair he told me about is true. I naturally expect to be one of many, I don't believe I'm anything more and he's in love. And you, dear Mr. Bratan, speak very competently on all topics, I wonder where you got this experience from. I will be happy to tell if it is not a secret. In the condition of, that you are not familiar with the whole picture you can not rush to conclusions and put a label on me. I'm not so stupid and uninformed not to know what a "block" is. After all, we live in an era of technology, I can't isolate myself without internet and phone, I forgot to add calls from different phones and I don't have the opportunity to change my number every week. How are you so sure that during this one year I pretended to be something, maybe I just didn't want to jump into the bed of a stranger. Maybe if I had opened my legs after the first conversation, I would have deserved a more meaningful comment from you. The author I forgot to add my phone calls from different phones and I don't have the opportunity to change my number every week. How are you so sure that during this one year I pretended to be something, maybe I just didn't want to jump in the bed of a stranger. Maybe if I had opened my legs after the first conversation, I would have deserved a more meaningful comment from you. The author I forgot to add my phone calls from different phones and I don't have the opportunity to change my number every week. How are you so sure that during this one year I pretended to be something, maybe I just didn't want to jump into the bed of a stranger. Maybe if I had opened my legs after the first conversation, I would have deserved a more meaningful comment from you. The author
You block it on the phone, social networks. If he is still looking for you, then he is a psychopath and his disease is already his.
Maybe some of the people on the site will attack me, but why the next time he looks for you, don't you shout at him and don't scold the cart driver? Aggression repulses people. Yes, it's not beautiful, but sometimes we have to be cruel. At least that's what I would do if I tried well and someone kept bothering me. Unless he has a chance to hurt you, but you know him. And there really are guys who make new and new profiles to harass and follow someone. They are a great scourge. Two acquaintances suffered from one of them and I took it with me to some extent, because the three of us are in contact. Therefore, the moment he tries to contact you from a new account, report it and block it. Report and block any suspicious profile and block each of its numbers and everything related to it. Check your friends for questionable accounts. Change your number. If your Facebook is not very developed, you can warn all the people close to you that you will make a new one with different names and close the old one. I can't help Instagram because I've never had one. It is difficult with such freaks. Black Sabbath
Author, this is a psychopath already. It's not for blocking, it's for treatment.
Author, why do you justify yourself with nonsense if you don't want to have anything to do with someone. You tell him directly AND END!
By 8 it seems I'm really dealing with a psychopath and needs treatment. Thanks to Black Sabbath for the adequate comment. I talked to him yesterday and threatened him that if he did not leave me alone I would send the messages and recorded his calls to his wife. I don't know if it will work, if it doesn't work out, I will probably become aggressive, it's nowhere to be found, as far as I think it won't reach me. My profile is not very developed, I do not accept the appearance of even people I know for the reason that I do not have much contact with them, but the fact that you have not accepted a friend's friendship does not stop him from writing to you. We will see now how he will react to my threats, I hope they help. By 10 and I'll try to make fun of him, but I'm not sure if I won't make him angry anymore. Increasingly, I am convinced that there is a need for treatment. By 11 I don't excuse myself, you just haven't come across such stubborn stubbornness, and it seems easy to you from the sides. The author
Author, tell him that his life does not excite you, that you have your own life. That you have nothing to share and look for. He has a wife for this purpose. And he did send something to his wife, because he wasn't normal. Once you block someone, they need to grasp the hint and leave you alone. But obviously this individual is really not good with his head. The more you pay attention to him and do nothing, the more he is impudent and angry. You give him the dose, kind of. Just be sharp, rude. This person has some problems and finds a vent in you. It is dangerous not to do anything to stop it.
12, and still be careful not to be attacked if he is an aggressive type. Arm yourself with something (electric shock, hot spray) in case it hits you. If necessary, contact the police, if that did not help this acquaintance much, but they may pay attention to you, especially if you have acquaintances in these circles. He's obviously used to having every woman he wants, and now he's angry that you're not reflecting. Black Sabbath
There is a setting on Facebook that people who are not your friends do not write to you. They just get a gray message button. View your privacy settings.
I have already consulted a lawyer, he told me that there is a law for telephone harassment, with which the offender can receive up to three years in prison. Calls and messages can be proven very easily. Not that I will go to try him in prison, but at least I will file a complaint with the prosecutor's office, hopefully he will be scared and come to his senses. In addition, I am thinking of moving to another city or another country if necessary, the change will be good for me. She has to realize that she won't have anything to do with me if she wants to get a divorce, not to justify herself to me, to find someone else to experience her love thrills with her, I'm just not the person. The author
Up to 16 Put og in jail if this is an option. This is how they learn best.