Hello! I am a very emotional bride! We started organizing everything and I was worried. Such an emotion overtook me. I can't sleep, I dream of weddings ... I cry with happiness at the very least ... How can I deal with this How do I blunt those emotions?
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Our wedding was in September. I organized everything myself because I wanted everything to be under control. It went very well, the guests were also fascinated, they liked the food, we had invited a children's folk ensemble and everything went great. I understand you about emotions, but my advice to you is to try to be calm on the day itself, so that your day does not pass like a moment from which you have no memories. I do not know you, to give specific advice on exactly how to control your emotions, I can rather advise you purely organizationally: -choose a few girlfriends to help you, let each of them be "charged" with a task to you are calm on the day itself - do not let anyone interfere with your choice of menu, decoration, dress or anything else - mothers, grandmothers, aunts, uncles, etc. -liminate any advice to a minimum -be careful how you behave with your future husband- do not argue about it or not (a friend was about to divorce before marriage :)))) -this is your day and you are the most important I hope at least to be a little useful to you, I will follow the topic. I wish you to be the happiest and PEACEFUL bride :))
You have a big and nice event coming up, which is important for you :) And it is completely normal to worry. Everyone worries when one of their dreams is about to come true. Don't dull anything, emotions are, to be experienced, just don't think about it. You know what's coming, it's going to happen anyway :) I'm sure you're worried that the tension you're feeling now won't show up when the happy moment comes. But rest assured, it is unlikely to happen. When we worry early, and the cherished moment comes, the worries disappear, only you and what you expected remain :) You will see, you will cope. In order not to think too much, do not stagnate alone with your thoughts. Find a story with someone. Do something separate outside the outline of what will happen. And keep being happy. ~ winterfire ~
Calm down, in a few months you will write here again, but quite different things. You have no idea what awaits you.
Number 3, people like you, being unhappy, why do they want to make others unhappy? Moreover, the topic is not about what awaits you after marriage. Why, if something didn't work out for you, does that mean it won't work for others?