Hello! I am a 16 year old boy. A few days ago, my mother found out from my grandmother that I had "offered" a boy to have sex. My mother barely heard her work day when she heard. My grandmother started filming that I had to be taken to a doctor, that this was treated with male hormones and I don't know what else. In the evening after work, my mother urged me if it was true. I told her that it was not true and that it was stubborn. Here's how to take the tape back a little bit where the problem comes from. One day I was chatting with the boy I supposedly offered to have sex with, we wrote to each other on this topic, but it was out of boredom. I didn't get serious about doing it, I was just bored and I was "hit" by hormones. For that! And as far as I knew personally from my grandmother that the boy in question was spreading me around school, that I wanted to have sex with him. And the other boy, which is his friend, he was distributing me in one of the cafes in town. Tell me what to do and how to proceed? And what else can I share with my parents, apart from my persistent "NOT true"? I am very nervous and worried about what I heard and what happened! Thank you very much in advance! Please let the moderators publish my story as soon as possible!
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So, then, such vile and vile people from road to road. Let them talk to each other, whatever they want, you know what the truth is and that's it. And if your parents ask you again, you tell them for the last time that it's not true and that you don't care about nonsense anymore (you say it with a very serious tone so that they can understand that you are completely serious and you do not intend to deal with it anymore) and you have to talk seriously with your grandmother, because someone can't say something like that and she should be included in the film immediately and then and bother your parents with fictitious information. Drink a mint, hawthorn and valerian and know that every miracle for two days. Soon everyone will forget about this situation and everything will be fine
Have you ever wondered if you are gay? There is nothing shameful, at least admit it to yourself. It will certainly take you more time to share with your parents, but that's why you need to know.
Well, your parents, whether it's true or not, can't do anything about it. Ie not that they won't try, they just won't achieve anything. At most to alienate you. Either way, you can ask them to trust you, time will tell what you are.
Thank you very much! I will use the example of nom. 1 and nom. 3 by asking me again. Nom. 2, time will tell what I am exactly.
Number 4, I guess the author. You will excuse me, but the very fact that you do not deny is very indicative of the statement of number 2.
When a rumor spreads, there is nothing more you can do. And trying to persuade this or that will only prolong the gossip. Wave and move forward. In a week or two there will be something new to comment on. You can explain to your parents that you wrote to the boy in question about sex, but it was not at all a question of you really having sex with each other, you just commented. Such explanations to parents cause more than inconvenience, but I think you will be more worried if you do not say anything. In front of friends you can react with self-irony and jokes. A sense of humor always helps in such situations. As for your sexual orientation, wait a minute. You are 16 years old and they shake the hormones, everything can attract and confuse you.