Hello! I have been entering the site for a long time, reading all kinds of stories, all kinds of people and now I am thinking about some questions that popped into my mind quite spontaneously. To storytellers: Would you be so liberated in telling your stories if you saw who you were? Would you tell your stories on a site that is not anonymous? Would you share on a site that is basically a Facebook group? Or even in a Facebook group? To the commenters under the topics: How many of you have talked and given advice to a stranger / little-known person from your everyday environment? If so, what differences do you find in advising and helping strangers here and outside the site? If not - why? Why do you comment here, and in your everyday life you don't talk like that with strangers / not many acquaintances. I hope the topic is well received, I'm not criticizing anyone,
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Of course not! Conditional anonymity gives you the freedom to say things you are ashamed of, but still want to share. Would you share something you are ashamed of, be it love, sexual, health, social or any other nature in front of all your colleagues, relatives and acquaintances on Facebook? I would not.
To the commenters under the topics: 1. How many of you have talked and given advice to a stranger / little-known person from your everyday environment? I give advice when they ask me for one and want to let me into their personal experiences. Also, whenever I think that a person needs support, hearing, opinion or advice. If someone isn't talked to, I don't tease them. If he does not want to hear another point of view or get advice, I also keep quiet. 2. If so, what differences do you find in advising and helping strangers here and outside the site? It's easier with friends / acquaintances because I know them much better and I understand their way of thinking. If my friend exaggerates or is influenced by a momentary feeling, I immediately understand that he does not choose his words completely sincerely. So my opinion is more adequate. In general, I think that it is many times more correct to discuss the problems face to face, body language also speaks loudly, and this site does not have it. 3. If not - why? Why do you comment here, and in your everyday life you don't talk like that with strangers / not many acquaintances. Surprisingly, strangers also shared personal stories with me and expected me to give them an opinion or advice. I do, but I never would if the person against me (stranger, little known) did not ask me. I don't think everyone is able to share in front of someone they don't know well and don't trust. Many people on this site may not have been in a situation where they have the opportunity to help with the advice of a stranger. and in your daily life you don't talk like that to strangers / not very familiar. Surprisingly, strangers also shared personal stories with me and expected me to give them an opinion or advice. I do, but I never would if the person against me (stranger, little known) did not ask me. I don't think everyone is able to share in front of someone they don't know well and don't trust. Many people on this site may not have been in a situation where they have the opportunity to help with the advice of a stranger. and in your daily life you don't talk like that to strangers / not very familiar. Surprisingly, strangers also shared personal stories with me and expected me to give them an opinion or advice. I do, but I never would if the person against me (stranger, little known) did not ask me. I don't think everyone is able to share in front of someone they don't know well and don't trust. Many people on this site may not have been in a situation where they have the opportunity to help with the advice of a stranger.
The site is not accidentally anonymous. In it, people share things that they would not normally share with a loved one and would definitely not write their name above the story. Your questions are not well thought out. The answers are obvious. about
Thank you, number 2 for the answer :) Go to 1 and 3 Look now, the topic is not meaningless, but if you do not see the point is another question. I communicate with a lot of people in my daily life, and online, and because online communication with strangers (at least for me) is always on the principle of a counselor - "listener", but in my daily life it is so, simply because people like to share, to gain understanding, I thought about the differences in the two types of sharing, and accordingly in the differences of my reactions. Yes, there are people who share personal things by standing with their name and face open. I am one of them, another issue is that there are many immature people who have no other occupation and are waiting to hurt a person with what he has shared. It's easier for them anonymously, I see that. However, it takes courage not only to share, really, but also to talk to someone, really. Something I feel for myself,
Give a person a mask and you will see his true nature.