My question is for both sexes. You get along very well with a person of the opposite sex, you have common views, interests, topics of conversation, but you just don't attract him and therefore he has cut you off. If he agrees to stay friends, would you accept?
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If we had a relationship - we went out, we had sex, then things are more complicated. I would stay on good terms with him only if he showed respect for me and was sincere in the situation. If he breaks with me with the sentence "It won't work, it's not written for us, let's stay friends", while at the same time he puts it on another, I will never want to look at it again in my life, no matter how.
No. My ego does not allow me.
No, these relationships are explosive. There was a saying - to give friendship to one who wants love is to give bread to the thirsty. You better run away so you don't regret it later. Scales19
"Friendship" after an unsuccessful attempt at something more than friendship is in most cases just a hope that in addition to communicating with the person in question, you still have a chance to become more than friends at some point. But if you have been openly rejected by the other party, there is no point in harboring such hope. In general - rather not. However, friendship and interest as an intimate partner are two different things and should not be confused. Honestly, I do not believe that you can find a full-fledged friend in the face of a person to whom you had completely different intentions, even if you have enough common interests.
You decide in general. There is no way people here can know everything about you. For example, if you work in one field, you can be useful when the other wants to change jobs.