Hello! I was recently in a restaurant with a large company and it was about the issue of the title. I was surprised by the answers of the male part. Most said they would not be with a woman who weighed 90-100-110 kilograms and lost most of them. The argument was that once she got there, the same thing would happen someday. That she obviously has to be very prone to gaining weight and will still relax again someday. Or she will be hungry, vicious, and refuse to cook her husband's delicacies for the rest of her life. Separately, she would be relaxed, with a lot of excess skin, cellulite, stretch marks and everything that men think depends only on weight. I am also interested in other men's opinions. Suppose the optimal option - the woman has lost weight healthily. Changing your diet, sports and so on. It is clear that all other options would cause a relaxation and are not permanent, so men have some right. For the record - I'm a woman of 25, I weigh a little more than I would like, but I'm still far from the mentioned three-digit results. It's not about me, but I'm still a little distracted by these answers, I admit. A woman will struggle for 2-3-4 years to become attractive and finally someone will say that she used to be fat and sorry, but it will not happen. Honestly?
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Nonsense has been said, purely hypothetical assumptions. It would not be a problem for me, many women in the field of sports have been fuller before and precisely because they know that it is not pleasant, they will never allow themselves to get up again. But mine is also a hypothesis supported by examples from life, as they would have for their hypotheses, a conclusion: "it depends on you in which column you will enter".
The arguments that she will be eternally vicious and hungry are terribly stupid. The only thing that seems like a reasonable concern to me is that after a lot of weight loss, the skin really relaxes a lot, the breasts sag, and so on. Who wants to explain anything, but it's not attractive.
"To fight to become beautiful" - here I have already lost. These pounds are not healthy, it's not about beauty and men. I don't like fat women, I don't like women who lose weight because of men, and when they are disappointed they start to regain the previous weight.
Hello, I'm a woman, more precisely a girl of 23. I was curious about your topic. I have always weighed 5-10 extra pounds. I am 1.60 tall and I weighed about 60 kg, which is a bit much for me. But a year ago it happened, so there came a period in which I was subjected to a lot of tension and stress, constant anxiety and nerves. And just suddenly, on my own, I started to lose weight. In 8-9 months I had lost about 8-9 kg, doing absolutely nothing to achieve it. Apparently stress affects me so much. The interesting thing is that I haven't actually lost that much weight. For a period of 8-9 months, 9kg are nothing. But I lost a lot of size. Maybe about 10 cm. butt circumference, 6 cm. on the thighs. And I explain it to myself by saying that before when I was trying to lose weight, for example by starvation, I was losing mostly muscle mass, and this was reflected in the weight, but in reality the fat and size remained almost the same. Not to mention that with starvation you relax a lot and the moment you start eating even normally, without limiting yourself, you regain your weight. So my thought was now that I have lost so many kilograms and for months now I have been eating completely normally and I do not deprive myself of anything, I do not regain those kilograms. I can even say that I am tight. But who hasn't seen me in a long time, my difference in appearance is quite striking. And I started thinking about the title of the topic. I don't have a friend and I constantly communicate with boys, of course they compliment me on my appearance, but somehow I'm embarrassed to tell them how many kilos I lost, etc. The reason is that they don't think that she used to be fat and prone to gaining weight, because it seems like boys think these things and are even willing to give up a girl for just that. Which is terribly superficial and childish on their part.
Everyone was a woman or a man of 60-70 kg. can become 110-120 kg. But units are those that know and can do the opposite while maintaining the result over time. Otherwise, life is dishonest and in appearance they only welcome, and we know from folk wisdom what they send. But only once can a first impression be made. It all depends on the purpose of a person, but this can only be understood through direct contact, not by opinion or stereotype. If the goal was health, the result will be sustainable over time and will even multiply in the generation due to the accumulated skills. If it is just a placement on the sex market, then the opinions of the men in the company are reasonable. Only direct non-virtual contact can determine a relatively correct statement.
If I like the woman herself as a woman and a man, I even prefer one - it shows will. If only she weren't the type of anorexic-minded woman for whom the vision is a manic end in itself, or if she did it just to "lie" to a man and then float away.
from 5 to 4. Well done! It is quite normal to lose 1 to 2 kg per month in the presence of excess. So that's why these weight loss times are normal. As you noted, when you are starving you have broken down muscles, so by law every organism is natural. In order for the body to get used to the new mass, it takes up to twice the time to lose weight, another 16-18 months you need to be careful about what, how much, when and how you consume. You have probably changed something in your diet because stress alone does not weaken you. There is something changed in your diet due to stress, analyze it for yourself. If you want SHARE!
It really was a dumb discussion, because it was just theoretical talk. It is not written on anyone's forehead how many kilograms he has weighed, or how many will be a factor. And love does not ask. And the dumbest will be a girl who has had such a problem and has "struggled" to lose weight, as you say, come up with this topic and get attached to this nonsense.
What nonsense? !? I "love" such superficial, hypothetical wooden philosophies so much. Such themes and reflections apply to pimply virgins in the ninth grade. No serious person chooses their favorite in this way. And, to be precise, it's not you who chooses, it's love that chooses you. Things don't work out like in a shoe store. Alpha, w. 30 years
I would rather, because in a woman I value other qualities more than the vision, but there is also the moment with the loose excess skin. And this is something that no sport can correct when the weight lost is 50 or even more. There are enough influencers on YouTube and Instagram who tell their stories of how they lost a shocking number of pounds and all of them have sagging skin and are very active in sports. It's just inevitable when the weight loss is really a lot, and what's worse is that even the operation to cut the excess skin does not improve the situation so much (or at least that's what I see when I look at before-after photos of people who have undergone such an operation). The bottom line is that we never run so hard that we wonder if anyone would be with us when we lose X pounds. ;)
Well they are right.
I have to lose 90 kg of myself. And what now to get sick and sick, that maybe no one will ever like me? Is it the end of the world? I know that love will come sooner or later in my life. This is complete bullshit. It's like I never like a woman because she used to be fat. I will even be more attracted to the will in it.
These idiots are hardly a woman spit on them, and they believe that they can choose something ha ha ha The Immaculate to throw the first stone
Woman, 30 Hello, I'm a little over 30, 165 cm, 45 kg, perfectly flat stomach (but also small breasts) a little ass, I have thighs, I'm not anorexic. I gave birth and after the birth I was 52 and that was my max weight then. Because of the face and the structure, they often don't give me more than 23 and I don't think I have more admirers than the fuller girls. The truth is that whatever a person does with his appearance, he must do it for himself! And for your own self-confidence. The one who will reject you because of the potential future weight gain, will reject you for the first quarrel, for example, when even you are not to blame. I know girls, I even have relatives who are women over 100 kg, with a happy marriage, loved and respected. It's all chemistry! If you want someone in your life - you are looking for them! Don't you want it - you are looking for a reason not to be with him and you carry water from 10 wells. Do this which makes you feel happy! Live healthy, but don't limit yourself too much, don't do anything at any cost. The truth is that the man who will fall in love with you will like you and even if you are overweight, but it is good to support yourself, for your own self-confidence. And the arguments of those cases - in the bucket! Together with their authors!
And at number 5 there is also the presence of intelligence :)
Number 10. Would you lie down with an elephant? I would do it with 14. But I think she is happily busy ....
"<14>" The truth is that the man who will fall in love with you will like you and even if you are overweight "What if he is in love and he is 150/150 cm / kg / Like a prime? I've always been interested in how without seeing and knowing the person in question and saying that someone will fall in love with her. And this is mainly advice from women. What? :)
Now, look. They talk like that in theory. In practice, however, to pass by some former fat woman in good shape, will crawl tongues. It's just that people are hypothetical. No one will tell you that you would go with a girl with braces, someone with a super short, masculine hairstyle or a woman who is divorced and has a child, for example. However, how many men are madly in love with just such women, eh? And they are with them, and they love them. Examples of pain. It's just that when I like one, I forget the prejudices. Even women who have lost weight are very sexy because they gain confidence and freedom in behavior.
1st: I cook delicious dishes 2nd I cook delicious dishes 3rd I love to share .... :)
It's all a matter of desire and will, I lost 15 kg in three months. I'm not saying it's easy, but it's not impossible. I have not lost weight to please someone, I did it for myself, for my health and self-esteem. I think it is very superficial to judge a person by weight, if I like the character of a person I will not care if he weighs 50 kg or 150 kg. be it if I look for an intimate partner in him.
I'm 14 from 14: You !!! Of course, even if it won't be square, here 1st - we are not talking about those who take them out of the house in wheelchairs, because they cannot walk because of their thickness, but we are talking about average weight gain. Those who are 150/150 have no movement, except for gastric surgery, they can't bring us to normal with it. And 2nd, to confirm the 1st, the author is talking about drastic weight loss, which enters a normal form. As for talking about people without seeing them, about facial features - there are passengers for each train. Ш и