Hello, unknown princesses :) You can see what my question is. Would any woman sit with me again .. will she stay at all: D I've been single for a long time. Do not get me wrong. I haven't dropped out. I have some chances, but not serious. Not what I'm looking for. I want a serious relationship, not to entertain a 17-18 year old kid for a month until she's tired of playing me. Not that I will tolerate her making fun of me. And now to give "a little" details for myself. Male 26 from a big city, 185 cm, 85 kg. I look good (I know it, I've been told it, but it doesn't matter - I'm just describing myself to get an idea), body face everything is fine. Not everything is pink (wait). I go to trainings, I love shopping and I dress well. I have a cousin designer and he taught me (big praZ). In general ... without wanting and without purposefully doing it, from the side I look like a cocky and bad boy who looks very happy. I have the permissible self-confidence, I make jokes, I always break the silence around the people where I have been and everyone likes that. Mostly among colleagues and in the jobs where I have worked hard. But here's the main problem that makes me wonder if I would keep a woman by my side. Due to betrayals and disinterest of my previous acquaintances, classmates and "friends-traitors", I was left alone. I stopped all contact with everyone. I'm just tired of being ignored because of my girlfriends, lying about money and so on. I also had a girlfriend for 2 years, but my attention was well distributed between her and them. I deleted them all and when they look for me I don't pick them up. So for a long time. Not to mention that they were vandals and did obscene deeds, they stained me and now the neighbors have a bad opinion of me. So now, apart from going to work, training and malls, I do nothing else. In my free time I am always at home. I call him "House arrest": D I can be with different people for fun, for a party and at a table, but I can't pretend and I can't be artificial just not to be alone. It won't be much, much fun. So, in my opinion, what woman would stay with me in this situation? Meaning if I will be enough for her? If she introduces me to her friends, I guarantee I will fit into the setting. I know my girls and it's normal for them to want fun all the time. I'm not sure I alone would be enough for her.
For example, on birthdays, holidays, NG, Christmas, I've always been alone and certainly no girl will like it. Wouldn't going out to a restaurant just the two of them be stupid? As for myself. I'm definitely good at it. I am caring, I give small gifts emphasizing tenderness and attention. Whatever is up to me, I will do it to make her feel happy. I have a car (Opel at the age of 12), I will take her back and forth, to swimming pools, cinema, theater, mountains, shops, sea of vacations ... BUT you remember that if it's just the two of us PERMANENTLY on her, I will I'm tired: D No one will sit with me because I'm very "beautiful": D That's why divisions and infidelities happen - because they are bored and have no thrill. Well, surely some crazy person would hang out with me or a single mother with 2 children (100%) ... but I can't do that. The dating sites are full of people who have flown from color to color all their lives and at the age of 35-40 have thought of getting home ... but late mom :( All this above prevents me from taking any action to find a girlfriend. What do you think? Ah, I forgot to say, I do not take a lot of money;) I've always worked for a maximum of 1000 levs. Personally, I would be happy to live in a dormitory with my wife / girlfriend and to deal with a common budget. This is all I can offer: D What do you think about the topic and what do you suggest :) CHN: *: *: *
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Well, what can I tell you - happy couples isolate themselves from everyone else. My husband and I are like that - our friends started to fall apart because of different interests / views / achievements, and besides work / fitness / travel / homework we don't have much time to spend together and that's why we prefer to be alone. Whenever you comply with a lot of people, quarrels start. It strikes me that the people around me with unhappy relationships are looking for the exact opposite - all discos, big companies, parties.
I am a woman. If a woman loves you, she will want just that - to be alone. Lovers are self-sufficient. The ones you're describing are pure almonds looking for a way to scratch someone who's not settled. I would be with you precisely because you are like that - you know what you want and you do not tolerate various garbage in your environment.
I personally do not. You will take me for mercantile, but 1000 BGN in a big city is not much. Obviously without your own home when you offer accommodation. F26
I personally would be with you, you sound in very good company and if you look good, as long as you have a mind :)
With pleasure, but if I were 20 years younger ... I wish you luck with women, you deserve it!
I'm also serious and I'm looking for just such a friend. And even if it's just the two of us - why not? I imagine it well. Really, you sound very, very good, and if you're tall, good-looking and talkative, what more could I want? I would even go out with you with great pleasure! It is a pity that we cannot find G, 21
A lot of women would agree if it's really you, but not people like me, for me you can't always be 2! You will want to be alone, everything is 6, but some women want friends, they want at least a little, to go out with acquaintances, couples or just friends, but at least sometimes, because conversations become everyday in a long relationship, everyday annoying, everyone goes out, come together and a little difference in the gray everyday life is not bad :) It's not bad to have friends, and not constantly go out to be ok, but sometimes mutual friends it's all good. F 20
I would be interested to meet you. In general, I personally pay attention to the following things: a person with character, to be intelligent and to be able to learn something from him, to have interests besides fitness, television and eating and, of course, to seem attractive in appearance. Now that I like a boy, what I want most is to spend time together. If he introduces me to his friends and we like him, great. But if his friends don't seem particularly interesting to me, or if he doesn't have any friends, it wouldn't be a problem. We will both have fun. Still, I think it would be nice to look for people with your values and interests to start a friendship. It is not good to be alone. I'm quite an independent person, I have exactly three friends, I go to many places alone without problems, I love loneliness,
I will answer your question accurately, concisely and clearly. Yes. I am 20 years old, I have no experience with boyfriends and men, but for these fragile years I have realized that the basis of love and affection are not money, cars, apartments, appearance, etc. I think that at the moment in who appeared some girl and if she is "correct", then she will not be disappointed by the fact that you have an Opel. I hope he looks on the optimistic side that he will no longer ride public transport. : D This is a joke, otherwise it's all up to the character in my opinion, that's what you decided, that's what you did, you're fine in this situation, so there's no point in thinking that much. When she appears and sinks and loves you truly, she will not be impressed by whether you are two or not, because she will only look for you and your attention will be enough for her.
An author will like you, but a woman will like you. And you will not pay attention to such. This is your problem.
To be completely honest, if you didn't show me some real and honest part of yourself, I probably wouldn't start a relationship. Not that you're bad, on the contrary, but I'm crazy, so to speak. I don't need to be non-stop in big company, I prefer small circles of friends and I can't party often. Your appearance, the jokes and this bad stain from the past, will probably make me think that you will not be very serious about me. I know, I know it's damn stupid to judge by looks, I know it sounds ridiculous to you, but I'm honest. I will need to see the presence of soul to know that I will neither be bored nor want to run away. You are in a prelude from the old to your new stage of life, I don't like the old part, but I like the direction you are going. You mentioned that your friends spent more time with their boyfriends. If you don't understand them, does that mean you didn't really fall in love and didn't want to be with the same person all the time? Besides, I don't like your thinking that we have to be among people forever, to go out somewhere forever, that you put money and Opel in the picture. No, if you're in love, you just want to be with your partner everywhere and you don't get bored. By the way, I'm crazy, as I said, and I don't want to soak in the malls non-stop. These, of course, are my personal perversions, many women would like these things in you. What impressed me a lot and that I would certainly respect in you is that you started to choose your circle of friends. I like that you say everything to yourself simply, as it was in your eyes. I like that you think about whether you are a suitable / good partner, whether your girlfriend will be fine with you. And most of all, that you want to be yourself everywhere. These things won't show up right away, I want to know if you could show them off this site. So to speak, you are not to be thrown away, just for me the information given is more superficial and I can not judge how much I would like you if we met on the street and I know nothing about you.
What can I tell you, I am such an example. My friend and I have been together for 9 years now, he is modest, he doesn't like noisy places and parties. Some time ago he had several friends who were sifted by time. I had friends before we met him, but then I sifted them too. Because he is a homemaker and I became one in the name of love. When I was invited to discos and bars, I refused because I knew he would not want to come. And so 90% of the time we spend at home just the two of us, the other 10 we travel on trips, mountains, etc. New Year, Christmas, we are almost always alone, sometimes with relatives. I can't say it's not boring sometimes, but you get used to the weather. It's just that with us it's different that he never enjoys something completely and that depresses me too. Even when I try to entertain him, he doesn't seem to enjoy it completely. A simple example was the dream of driving a Ferrari, I spent a long time collecting money to surprise him. Finally, after driving him 60 minutes in the mountains, he said it wasn't worth it, no matter what. Abe ... he understood me. In this case, I changed because of him, because I love him, but it's still not enough.
I smell gay tendencies. Why don't you look for a friend, maybe a paralysis. You will walk around the malls again and they will love you.
Number 3, I would not take you for mercantile, if you are from a big city, you take out more than 1k and you have your own home. The Middle Ages are over and no one is obliged to provide us financially. Equal access to education, equal access to work.
Hello. We prefer women to closed boys, what's the point of me being in bars all night or something? Why should the girl get bored? Two people can spend their time very well on their own, be it travel, hobbies, etc. I think you are filming early, and you are still young, have fun, the love that is for you will come by itself. The only thing I didn't like was that: "and with those who have flown from color to color all their lives and at the age of 35-40 they thought of getting home ... but it's too late to cheat" - I don't think it's your job to judge people. They may have their own reason, try to find out from someone what is the reason for her being alone or not being able to get married. The topic of the number has been commented on in a neighboring topic, obviously you are also one of those who are looking for someone who is almost a virgin and comes from a monastery. F32
Number 3, sorry, but being from a big city and not taking more than a pound a month is stupid. Let's stop with these "huge" salaries in Sofia, let's compare the other cities. I'm also from a big city. Here in some places they even call it the city of 600 levs - remember. I personally make 1000 a month, I go to two places. And since some poop will now say that you see, it is because most men have been single and we can't make money, I will say in advance that I personally have several the venture behind me unsuccessful and because of successful crooks; at the moment I pay, but this will not stop me and at some point, I will do what I have decided. So, this criterion is not very real. The author is neither unemployed nor of pre-retirement age, so that there is no reason for his income to increase over time. I'm a few years older than the author, I found a lot in common with him, and I liked his topic, because I have similar questions in my head already. But I want to tell you, Author, that it is still a matter of time to meet the girl you will ride in Opel. So there is no scary :) And a lady above had written something about the soul. If you want something more real do not emphasize so much what car you drive, how you dress or malls and halls. Your emphasis should be elsewhere, and this is for the background. M33 Your emphasis should be elsewhere, and this is for the background. M33 Your emphasis should be elsewhere, and this is for the background. M33
Number 3, which you are discussing, is 26 - the wind blows it on a white horse and the sea and it is next to the miniskirt. When she turns 36 and the backyard becomes 2 decares, she will already be able to see 600 leva of a man's salary ... when she turns 40 and sucks and hangs up to her navel, even if she is unemployed, she will still be curled up;))
My friends are exactly the same, so I try not to communicate much with them. Anyway, on the topic you definitely sound interesting and I guess most women who know what they want would want a man like you.
I would, but if you like rolls that have a lot of girlfriends, go all day in silence, are super active on Facebook and love bars, you will not be. One must be either oneself or behave in the way that one would attract such a woman.
I'm the author :) To numbers 6, 9 and others who would approve of me. Watch this video. It applies to relationships. Pay MANDATORY attention to the comments, where there are periodically competent ones :)
How to find you, the perfect man for me. Only the two of us will be like this for the rest of our lives. Away from all users and traitors: e. I'm 23 to know.
I am N 3. There is a difference between the cities in which each of us lives. I live in Sofia, I am not from here. I work a normal office job and I get BGN 1,700, most of the time my friends also take that much, some even about BGN 2,500-3,000. I do not consider myself rich, on the contrary. I'm just saying that for me BGN 1,000 is an awful little, but here in Sofia there are more expenses. But as someone said above in the comments, a 12-year-old Opel may be a plus for a girl who uses the city one. I'm not picky, I'm just saying that I personally wouldn't pay attention to the author.
In every second sentence you talk about either money or material things. Don't underestimate women so much! In general, why is it necessary to say what you have when starting a relationship ?! My husband when I started a relationship with him until the last I did not know what salary, what savings, possessions, etc. there is! We have been together for 2 years now and do you know when you first bought me something? - 7 MONTHS from our relationship! My advice is not to pretend to be a tramp, but just not to give so much information about your financial situation! And easier with the gifts! If she loves you, she will not wait for your gifts! A 22-year-old woman! Greetings!
No. I want family and children, and you want walks, malls, parties, friends. It seems to me that you are immature for your age.
I find one problem: a person who has no friends, environment, hobbies, and so on usually clings to the other. I have a few close friends that I like to spend time with, a few hobbies that I like to spend time with and so on ... I wouldn't be with a person who has no one but me, because at some point it becomes unhealthy. People should also have a side life, because otherwise they become obsessed with each other and get bored faster.
See the comments on the video I put in the previous post. This is for the one where I would approve of what was written on the topic. To the lady, who takes BGN 1,700, I understand you perfectly. "A girl like me can't be with a boy like teeeb" and I don't scratch: R bi fries It's like going to a reunion with Daddy's inherited princesses and having something to do with them. And they will ignore you as you ignore me. We are not from one rug :) It's up to the person himself. It is probably beneath your dignity to board a flight or take a picture with a friend who is not like you, which will expose you to snobs. Everything is perfect. And when I said that I was walking around the malls, you misunderstood me. I just look around and fill my time. I go to other places, it's just interesting in the mall and it's close to me. None of you suspect that there are exhibitions in the malls, bookstores and theater, but come on. There are also fan meetings, coffee cinemas and more. And if it's stupid, why is it full: D It would be nice for you to share what you can offer to your future husband / boyfriend / partner
I want to say something to this knowledgeable person. But you are stuck when you write on this site and do not have fun outside with your great opportunities and pretensions. She likes Facebook with a smile and a lot of likes, so she sits alone. She is happy for the others, but here she enters.
I feel sorry for women like number 3/23. There are so many other qualities and skills that you can evaluate in a man and take into account, and you have caught on to how much money he gets. You know that's not a constant and it could take 2,000 tomorrow? Well, and? Will it be a different person internally? Some women have very flat thoughts, I'm ashamed that we are of the same sex. To the author: I think there are many couples who are self-sufficient, I even know a few. They are constantly together and do everything together. It is not a precedent. The point is to find your girl who is on the same wave as you.
Up to 23 And would you pay attention to me? I take 12,500 leva, and I'm only 27 and I work out for 2 hours in the gym after work and I run every morning !!! But I don't have a house and a car, because the ones I want are terribly expensive and I'm accumulating money to get them, but I also have to invest ... Abe, I'm telling you it's awful.
28, for example, I have enough fun and one of them is to read illiterate "claims" to people like you. As you are not "stuck" what are you going to do on this site, "expert"?
to 31. In principle, if I don't like you visually and take a million I won't pay attention to you. And for the gym, if you are a cracked dude happy ..... :) To take so much money for what you have to work, if it is not a private business, it will be in the IT sector, and there are some ......
Your wife is writing. Memories of women that you bought them gifts, and immediately 10 are ready to be with you. I'm a woman, but I put myself on the other side, call me a fool, but at least love was not related to trade.
I would not be with you, but not because of your lack of contacts, but for other reasons - you seem too narcissistic and egocentric, and as they are more, these are not attractive qualities for a man. Another issue is that today's young men are as narcissistic as women and more.
I would take you for a boyfriend. The bad thing is that I'm small for you. You said your 18-year-olds were small. It's okay that I'm mature for the years and I'm not like the others. If there was a way I would prove it to you. You are the perfect boy for shy and serious girls like me. He won me over with this "I make gifts emphasizing tenderness and attention" Every woman needs this. How I want someone to hug me without using me :( We want to be protected and valued. Besides, 1000 BGN are good. I work for my mother. I take 700 and plus your 1000 are enough to We live normally. In the sense of giving an example, I do not offer myself. Not all girls are materialistic and want to be provided with high standards. Great job driving an Opel. First, they are not bad cars. Second, we can assemble and sell the old one and that's it. Don't think of such small things. That's why there are two people to support each other in everything. Let me tell you, you did the right thing by abandoning your bad friends. And why are there so many people just to shine on you. What kind of girls do you like to know and absorb information? Like you, I look good, but I can't be with some just because I'm alone. Until I felt it from the inside, I couldn't. Strange how I only dreamed of reading what you wrote. Probably because you're honest and put things clear on the table. Greetings and I follow the topic. What kind of girls do you like to know and absorb information? Like you, I look good, but I can't be with some just because I'm alone. Until I felt it from the inside, I couldn't. Strange how I only dreamed of reading what you wrote. Probably because you're honest and put things clear on the table. Greetings and I follow the topic. What kind of girls do you like to know and absorb information? Like you, I look good, but I can't be with some just because I'm alone. Until I felt it from the inside, I couldn't. Strange how I only dreamed of reading what you wrote. Probably because you're honest and put things clear on the table. Greetings and I follow the topic.
If I am a woman, I will not look at you at all after what is written. And mostly because of the 1000 levs you always took ... and no more than that. AND NOT FOR MONEY AS SUCH. And because You sound super conciliatory, ie a person who is already well and will not do anything to improve. To dig a little, to expand, to strain, to grow. You have some natural endowment, such as height and vision, for example. You are ok at the accommodation, with the Opel and a salary of BGN 1,000 and you do not think of leaving your comfort at all. A valuable woman will not get along with you, believe me. Or if she does, it will be because initially, for example, she will be very much in love and / or does not know what you are. But he will feel you quickly. For fun, if you're cool, as you say, you can roll a lot of babes, because there are guys where they are much worse. But a woman who is smarter, knowing what to expect from life and what she deserves, she will never catch up with you. Women are attracted to successful men or those with potential and not mainly because they are rich, but because such men exude masculinity, ambition, etc., etc. These are my 5 cents on the subject. A 45-year-old man
37, the valuable woman can not fall in love with this. Only when you see his writing ... A normal person would catch up with you or someone like you.
<38> "the valuable woman can't fall in love with this" I wonder how and with whom the so-called "valuable women" "fall in love";) I don't know such people;))
39, and you won't know them and you'll be amazed, hahahaha.
<40> of 39: In reality, all women think they are valuable, and they are. Except that their values are different - some do not cost 5 cents, others do not have a price;) but this can only be verified with the years of living together;)) So I ask - where is this valuable woman who will fall in love and what is this valuable man (not me - of course), which the valuable woman in question will recognize "at first sight" through the glass of Maybach;))
I am a woman of 51. I will not talk much about the topic itself. I'm just outraged at how it is possible to have such malice among people. What did you attack the boy about income, work and career development? Hello, just to remind you that we live in Bulgaria. As I have two higher educations, what? All my life I have proven myself to employers, I work the most of all, I tried to make friends among colleagues and nothing happened. Everyone looks at themselves. If you have no connections, you are nobody. Look in our country how no sphere works. Health, court, educational full hole! How do you want to have productive staff? !! As I mentioned I have 2 seniors and so what? I am sitting on state aid. It is best to have your own business, but small businesses have also wiped it out. Run outside !!! Last to insert and finish. Rich women and men have self-confidence above what is acceptable and always underestimate their partners. Not to mention how much you love each other. Be united.
Honestly, you seem a bit superficial to me for a serious relationship - it seems to me that for a man you pay too much attention to how you look and what clothes you wear. Separately, it will be strange to me if my friend likes to walk around and hang in the malls more than me - for me this is not a favorite pastime. The other worrying thing is that you obviously didn't have a real relationship in which you were self-sufficient with your partner - I think it's immature to be angry with your friends, because they put the time with their partners before going out with friends. Personally, I don't want to be in the place of the boyfriend of the only one in the company who doesn't put his relationship first. Otherwise, the car does not matter what it is - the important thing is to go :) It is definitely a plus that you have it and so you can walk, anywhere and you are not tied to public transport, I don't care how much you get per month, as long as you are able to take care of yourself and your needs and spend as much on our common activities as I do, I would have no claims. What is most important and decisive for me is rather whether we will have common topics and interests - whether we will be able to talk and share, whether I will be interesting and pleasant with you, everything else is secondary :) g27
Ask the patilla is not old. I am a beautiful woman after 40. Not bragging, of course, but I've been with a lot of men. I tried, I tried, and when I got sick I really understood how modesty adorns a person. I have worked for 20 years in one of the most elite hotels and have met only rich men. Pilots, businessmen, architects, doctors and all sorts. These people did not know their money. Yes, they really radiate power and greatness, but only above the surface. I do not hide that I like shiny things, easy life and restaurants. Well they gave me these things at the expense of lies cheating fight and a bunch of problems. Rich handsome men, this just can't be good. Everyone wants them and then they are passed and left. How many romances have I had. They hide children, relationships, illegitimate children. I even received threats from the wives of men I thought were just mine. From the age of 18 until 5 years ago I was only with them and only because of the supposedly good life but I was blinded. I drank wine for BGN 1,500 and they took me on trips to Dubai when only a few could afford them. I kept thinking that there could be love with such people, but there wasn't. They treat you like property. If a rich man realizes that he may have soil to use you only for sex. And if you don't let him go, he'll find another one right away. Even she will come to him alone. How humiliated I was, aunt mother. I had sex by force just so they wouldn't leave me. Well, they left me again because there are many candidates. That's why I found a recent man who has a shop and we live great. True, there is only one two-bedroom apartment, but he is faithful to me and neither beats me nor lies to me. She looks at me like a glazier. I admit that at times I want to have more money and give me more expensive things to feel on top, but remembering the previous dramas, I am satisfied with the rural situation. However, the years go by and my price drops. I don't think I'll ever part with him. Attitude is more important than money and luxury living. I completely understand women as number 3, but you can't realize it until you get burned. Author, don't take offense, but years ago I wouldn't have paid attention to you either. Now life as a cappardos and I landed definitely give a chance to people like you as I already gave. You don't live with money, you live with people. I wish I could get back the wasted years and tears. I give you advice. A woman always looks at the material, no matter how modest it may seem. This Opel forgot it and bought a BMW or a Mercedes. He may be old, but the important thing is to be a jerk. The other thing that never talks about money and how much your salary is. 1000 leva is full of laughter. If you are beautiful, you will always attract someone, but keep in mind that you are poisoned. If she is a gold digger, however, she will smell you, you have it or you don't. Aim down. Good luck
I am 37. 39 ... then love does not ask, but still one realizes oneself. By a valuable woman I mean: vision, behavior, education, career development, origin if you will, ie a cool woman / not necessarily super beauty .... not to be misunderstood /, smart, well-read, which is not for everyone.
If there was a way I would take you to. I am 29 years old and I have only had failures so far. I am looking for someone like you to give me love and peace. Only the two of us would be very well, and without that I don't need anyone.
To the author: have you caught a boyfriend already that I started thinking about you? !! Hehe When someone talks about themselves how much is the best, consider how true it is. In a serious relationship, the person next to you and your relationship come first and then the friends. Good luck
I want marriage 100 percent. I'm like you too.
If I wasn't tied up, I'll take you right away! : D Now seriously, my friend is the same as you. Even if he wrote it, I prefer the man next to me to be meek (I don't mean not to go out and have fun, that's stupid). What you described for yourself is very nice, you have great qualities but for a stable and serious chick. :) If she enjoys your company, she won't look for 'other people' to make her happy / fun. For example, my friend and I quite often prefer to go out and have fun just the two of us, in general we are both a little more antisocial and we don't like a lot of noise. I believe that you will find the right and cool chick with whom to have great sex, crazy things and many adventures. Good luck :)