Hello! I am a mother of two daughters (13 and 12 years old). For more than two weeks, she has been asking me to let her go to a beautician to clean her face. She says that her friends went, let them go, etc. She took the business card of a beautician with her best friend. walk. Before Christmas, all the parents agreed to raise a certain amount of money and for the children to have a party, which we (although we were sitting at two tables away: D) would also attend. As we sat with the other parents, I inadvertently remembered my daughter's desire to go to a beautician and looked at the girls in her class to see what all the fuss was about. Some had perfectly clean faces, others like a daughter with a few pimples, but nothing out of the ordinary for a teenager, and others most likely had a skin problem :(. However, everyone was talking normally, they laughed and had fun - no one was rejected by the group because of what it looked like (or at least I didn't see such a thing). We went home and my daughter's requests started again. So my question is - would you let your 13-year-old daughter go to a beautician or do you think she is too young yet? If you think it's big enough, can you recommend a salon in Sofia? Thanks in advance!
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Hello, Let your daughter go to a beautician ... It doesn't matter what you think she looks like. It matters how he looks in his own eyes. And what will give her a little confidence in this difficult age. As a mother, you need to teach her to take care of herself - how to maintain her face. How to put on makeup, but without looking funny. How to have self-confidence, but to be covered. Don't you want to support yourself? Your daughter wants it too! He asks your child to go to a beautician - not for an independent trip abroad! And, if you don't let her now, she will one day raise money and be afraid to go. Just say you understand her and you will support her. He will remember it for the rest of his life!
I am almost 13 years old. If your daughter has a skin problem OR an awful lot of pimples then it would be good to visit a beautician. I have pimples, but they are scattered all over my face, but not many. Otherwise if your daughter if she needs it then she will need to go. :) ⭐Stargirl ⭐
Hello, First of all, I officially congratulate you on your sensible daughter, who has previously decided to consult with you. Yes, to consult with you, because in the end she will do it, if you forbid her something, it becomes even sweeter. It is completely normal for her to want to go to a beautician to clean her face, because when I was little no one offered me help and because of that in my teenage years 13-14 I took a lot of ridicule, but thank God my mother saved me in time. and then she asked me why I didn't tell her I wanted it sooner! Success! The sweet peach
Those with skin problems at 13 have problems with what's on the plate at the dining table. They are more for diet and sleep than a beautician. Cosmetics will eliminate the symptoms / pimples, spots /, but not the cause. The reason is improper diet and lack of sleep and exercise until the sweating phase. There is no better cosmetics than sweating, the steam bath. Happy 2019!
This facial cleansing is nothing special and will not happen to you if you are afraid of it. Deeply cleansing the face with money and ointments is nothing more. I personally went and I was not fascinated, I would not repeat from the point of view that I take enough care of myself
If you have acne, it is better to go to a dermatologist to tell you how to clean your face, what cosmetics to use. It will solve the problem in the long run.
Yes. I do not see bad in cleansing the face. For me, it is better for teenagers to take care of their skin, instead of covering it with concealers. I went to 18 years old without concealers, with frequent washing of the face and almost no problems with acne. Then I started to put on make-up, my pores started to clog and it took me a while to get my old look back. Let her go once or twice, then buy her a cleansing gel and rose water to keep her skin clean at home. She is 13 years old, has just become a woman and it is advisable to focus on maintaining a clean appearance, rather than indiscriminately staining with poor quality beauty products. The situation may not be bad for her at all, but she probably doesn't feel confident in her appearance when she asks you to go to a beautician to clean her skin. It is better to avoid future complexes and assure her that it is right to remove imperfections and maintain a nice natural look, instead of concealing. Look, I can't recommend a beautician. I advise you to talk to the mothers of her friends to go to someone good who does not work too aggressively on the skin.
I'm sorry, but at the age of 14 I even wore light make-up, so I caught my first boyfriend. At 13, sitting and supervising their collection is a little too much. If you don't trust your children, that's another problem. I remember having a hard time convincing my mother to let me shape my eyebrows. I was ridiculed a lot, and she was adamant. Then my cousin shaped them for me, and in the face of a fait accompli, he could hardly do anything. Now at 12-13 they watch beauty vloggers, they want to try different things. I do not believe that a cosmetic procedure and mascara (for example) will have a bad effect.
Of course I would let her go. I will even be very happy that there is a great desire to maintain.
It is normal to want to go to a beautician. And at that age, I was eager to stop walking like a drag and take care of my appearance. Personally, my opinion is that skin care should start from 13-14 years. I didn't go to a beautician, but my aunt cleaned my face every two weeks. Now, as for the beauticians, usually the things they do aren't miracles, nothing special, I did it myself at home when I was 16, but if the girl has a desire, let her go. However, there is nothing wrong with that, it is not dangerous, and it is at such an age when pimples start, greasiness ... In my opinion, the restrictions should be applied in other areas: time to return home, places he visits, time in front of the computer ...
People eat there, it's very scary. Alpha, w. 30 years
Hahahahahahahahh H12 that was scary. And the woman will hardly believe your basics, because she is not a child after all! SU N
Be sure to even release it. :)
Of course. Going to a beautician is not something super scary, especially if she has acne that worries her. What will happen so much? They will make a steam bath on her face. Because it is clear that for a 13-year-old they will not use any heavy serums and special procedures. At the same time, your daughter will have self-confidence. Because we may not understand it, but at 13 it's very important to be like the others and you don't know how her self-esteem can collapse because of such a trifle that you didn't let her go to a beautician. So if my daughter was 13 and had asked me for something so harmless, I would never have refused. Not that they're going to do anything to her face, just because of her confidence.