Would you have a relationship with a divorced man who has children, finds it difficult to handle money and often runs out of money, is it enough if you like him And would you want a child from such a person? Is a man without children the better option?
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It is very relative, but by getting in touch with a person in such a situation - you become part of his life, of his problems, of his lack of money. In general - misery and you have to decide for yourself if you are ready to be part of it. Nowadays, many of the problems, conflicts are rooted in the lack of funds, think about whether you want it for yourself and your child.
Yes, I would, if strong feelings arise between us, what about the fact that he is divorced, children are not a problem either, I am happy with small children. "And would you want a child from such a person?" - I would like, meaning why not, but the problem is that not all divorced men want children, especially if they have their own. "Is a man without children the better option?" Whether a man is divorced or never married doesn't matter to me, so I just think it's more important if you like the other person, if you want to be with him, etc. .. (f. 27)
It doesn't matter if he already has children. The important thing is that he is a complete loser. I can't imagine that I will like it. What is your child like that for?
Absolutely NOT! Especially if the woman has no children of her own! If a woman also has children and gathers in one home love, energy, finances, yes. However, to engage someone alone, free and independent with the whole family and not even his children ... well, I wouldn't.
Is such a person second-hand? No. Naturally, a woman would be with such a man. What if there are children. Well, yes, more difficult, but possible. I have many acquaintances. Especially if the man cares about his appearance. Just for example, there are many more single men without children who are useless, so ...
I would. His money is not my job, and I like children, but I do not want to give birth (by anyone) and change diapers. As long as he tries to get on his feet, takes care of his children and is not lazy, I see no problem.
If you ask this question freely on the Internet, it means NO - this man is obviously NOT for you. Look for someone with a little more money, your own business and most importantly - a luxury car (with a driver). Even if you don't love him, give birth to several children and only then think about divorce. You will be at a profit :) (and we used to be a great country)
For me, love is above everything and I would even help him financially! I would rather worry if his children would approve of me, because I don't know if I could be with a man whose children hate me. But still, I wouldn't want to make my own until they're fully financially stabilized or at least I don't have the guts.
It is definitely better to have a childless man devoted to you and your children.
No, because I don't want children, especially children who are not mine.
The best option is not to ask nonsense. Leave the man to Mira if you plan to grumble for money and then put your children before those from his previous marriage.
the question is quite general to answer unequivocally. you did not write anything about the man, whether you love him, whether he loves you, but only about the financial side. other things being equal, it is better to start a relationship with a man without children if you plan to build a family. not only the children will always be a part of his life and there will be a commitment to them, but also the former. it doesn't matter how old the children are, who they live with. problems while getting used to the new woman next to him are inevitable. last but not least is the financial side. if I still have a hard time, another child would overturn the car, I don't see how he will support you while you are a mother. however, financial problems can be temporary, one can successfully get back on one's feet and move on, or one can sink further. but since you're obviously only looking at money, more precisely, their absence, you better not get involved with this person. F45
If I'm in love - yes. Alpha, w. 26