I am a 19 year old girl. Years ago I was, so to speak, a light girl. There are all kinds of rumors addressed to me. Maybe I wasn't in the right environment and I made a lot of mistakes. Now I'm a completely new person, I don't do anything other girls don't do, I've even become a very anxious person, I don't go out much and I try to think more about my interests and how I should behave in society to be a respected person. The problem is that everyone knows what I was like before and no one believes that I have really changed and I will never do anything to offend people. Once you hear about a girl, it's very scary! I am very sick that no one believes me and I am internally ruined and crying constantly, I know that I had to think in time about my actions, but now should I die or try to be all right ..... I just want everyone to understand that I am able to hold people and appreciate them, but no matter how good I am, it doesn't work, it stays with me for life .... I also want to tell the girls who go back and forth to they think about what they look like from the side and whether tomorrow the boy they like will want them for a serious relationship or just for sex ... Please write me what you think of girls like me! Still, I changed maybe a little late, but it's forever ...... There are girls who never realize it. Thank you in advance! which they like whether he wants them for a serious relationship or just for sex ...? Please write me what you think of girls like me! After all, I changed maybe a little late, but it's forever ...... There are girls who never realize it. Thank you in advance! which they like whether he wants them for a serious relationship or just for sex ...? Please write me what you think of girls like me! Still, I changed maybe a little late, but it's forever ...... There are girls who never realize it. Thank you in advance!
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I feel bad about people like you, because then decent girls suffer too. The truth is that you felt very good at that time, because they paid attention to you and you considered yourself an incredible man-eater. But then (again, well) you realized that not everything revolves around one sex and that to score another number. The only thing that irritates me is that it is full of such light girls and people are prejudiced that even the few who are not - are like that.
Hi I am a 22 year old man. There is a saying "the wolf changes his fur, but his temper does not", I hope you have changed. You are still young and nothing is lost ... it is good that you yourself remembered that after a while with this whore image the man you want will not want you for something serious. The perceived problem is half the problem. I don't know where you are from .. BUT if you are from Sofia, for example, hardly everyone knows you ... if you are from a small town / village, you are now at such an age, you can go to study in a bigger city ... to make new acquaintances and to be a new person. There are no sinless people, everyone makes some mistakes in their life ... so hardens, gains experience, etc ... And one more thing is very important not to be very interesting opinion about people ... there will always be those who do not to be their flower to smell ... The important thing is that you know what you are and that the people around you don't care about others. This is from me, smart and you will see that everything will be fine!
Honey, you know better late than never !!! I'll tell you go forward and up, you will meet many people who will not know your past and you will be in their eyes as you are now! Have patience everything will It's okay. You know that people's mouths never stop vomiting ... don't you care. it doesn't make sense! You know that you are different, people will understand that you are not who you were ... maybe now they won't understand it, but in time ... I sincerely wish you success!
My personal opinion :) if I meet such a girl, if I like him and if I see that it's over with nonsense, really - it doesn't matter what she did before :) and people talk to each other what they want :)
When you are only 19, this "years ago" sounds ... scary ... :) From what you write ... it is assumed that you are from a small town and everyone knows - your only decision is to move to another bigger where to start again.
You didn't mention where you were from. If you are so bothered by what others know about you and your past, I conclude that you are from a small or mostly "medium" city. It seems to me that the best solution, if things are really that bad, is to leave your city and go and live in another, possibly larger city. So you will see that you will suddenly start breathing freely ... And as for the moral point of view, I do not intend to condemn you - anything. The really important thing right now is that you have achieved something that VERY FEW people succeed in - you suddenly stopped and asked yourself the question - "What the hell am I doing?!?" In addition, you gave an answer to this question, even made the appropriate conclusions, and on top of all that, you took concrete action. Um, good girl!
Hello, let me tell you something that I know and I am already convinced, not only from stories, but I am already 26 and I have been doing business in the field of advertising for a year and when I was recruiting I realized that: a whore, a bartender and a merchant are born. ie no ex-whore.
People change - a fact. I recently got burned by a girl like you. She had changed, and I tried to trust her and ignore what they told me about her. Unfortunately, people were right. I also realize that there are not many boys who will take such a girl seriously, but there are still some. When you find someone you love, do whatever it takes for you to be faithful to him and for him to trust you, then everyone will stop having such an opinion of you. You just have to find it, it will be difficult.
Dear girl, I fully understand you and I sympathize with the fact that the "stain" once stuck is difficult to erase, but it is good that you still realized, if it really is so, or you have just decided to change. My opinion and advice is, go live somewhere else, people there don't know you. Live decently, show yourself in a different light. And if you have really changed and the result will not be late, you will be loved, respected and wanted for a serious relationship ...
I don't think you need to worry. Everyone makes mistakes when they are in puberty. Do not listen to what they say about you and the most perfect one will always find someone who speaks badly. And every miracle in three days. Your scandalous behavior will be forgotten only time must pass. I guess you're from a smaller town and that worries you. If you have the opportunity, go to study or work elsewhere. You don't pay public opinion, do you? Don't harness them at all. When you find a person who loves you, he really won't care what the meat gossips say about you, and if he asks you, tell him that you were more violent at puberty but you are already a serious young lady.
I keep thinking that everyone should sip the potpourri they have broken, no matter how old they are and in what environment. Do not complain about people's distrust and do not expect to easily change their attitude towards you. And if your attempt to change costs you too much effort and inner frustration, and if you feel like things are happening too slowly or completely slipping away, just be a whore. Not always a light girl is equal to a bad girl. There are textbook examples in support of my last sentence, described by classics, for example, the heroine of Maupassant's "Hot Ball", Madame Bell from "Gone with the Wind", Madame Bovary, Anna Karenina and a dozen other light women or the most outspoken prostitutes, sung and immortalized for their ability to love. So, we get there again, if you love someone or something truly, selflessly, with all your soul, there is no way this will ever go unnoticed and appreciated by someone. Millet be patient and consistent in your actions and let things come out of your soul and heart.
Well, I was the same before ... all the girls hated me and talked about how with one who how with this one with that one but when you show that you don't care and that you drive your life and you have a faithful girlfriend and everything comes back only the complexes remain and the rumors but if you have really changed and everyone sees it, they will not be interested in what you did.
"The wolf changes his fur, but not his temper."
Emmy, if you've slept with a lot of boys, it's normal for them to think so!
There is no ex-prostitute ...
Bad! Number 15, it's not always like that! There is something else - "Everything is achieved with desire". It is true that you can not erase the mistakes, but at least you can not repeat them after you realize it. No one is perfect. It is really true that it is very bad to brings such fame for a girl, but still when the girl regrets, apparently the mind in her head has come, though not in time!
Well, I personally am an 18-year-old boy with my little life experience, I am proud that I managed to change 3 girls from curvy lives to the lives of normal and decent girls, even without doing so, I just kept them close to me, if anyone is interested,