I am in love with a lady, I love her so much that I am ready for anything for her well, without wanting anything in return, I put her interests first of mine, and there is no jealousy in my love for her without her I feel great loneliness, absolutely no one but her interests me, without her presence I feel my life superfluous, vain and meaningless, only she makes me tremble from head to toe like a feather, and she is still in my head. We've known each other for a long time, but I haven't had such feelings for her, I fell for her from a chance meeting. And although I feel this pure and strong love for this girl, I think that homosexuality is not normal, I do not mean that homosexuality means a mental deviation, just for me it is abnormal because it does not bring a generation. The bare truth is, that I consider homosexuality a mistake of nature, I don't want to be in love with this girl, I didn't choose to fall in love with her, but I still can't do without her, do you think everything is up there and coded, is everything fate? I don't understand how homosexuality can exist in a heterosexual world, or maybe homosexuals are punished people of the wrong sex?
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I don't find anything wrong with that, it's not your fault that you were born that way - that's how nature created you, everyone with their preferences and I don't think it's abnormal, don't blame yourself and don't pay attention to some limited people
When it comes to reproduction, the world is not just heterosexual. It is also asexual and hermaphroditic. And as for sexual urges, they are determined by chemical attraction and personal preferences. You've probably noticed that hardly anyone will experience sexual attraction to a bum, but a nice body with smooth, healthy skin would attract almost anyone, regardless of gender. Most will not admit it, so as not to condemn them as the opposite, but it is so. :)
I don't care how long it takes you not to interfere with your work, whether you're gay or not
No, I do not think that everyone is born that way, ie I do not believe that homosexuals are always born that way. I know heterosexual men who are genetically feminine and look like skinny babes, and there are many cases in which heterosexual men and women tell each other quite honestly that they do not have the same gender attraction and would be disgusted if they had homosexual contact have even created a family they already have children, but one day their lives are totally confused, falling in love with someone of the same sex, and believe me they hardly wanted to lose their minds right on him or her. My thought is that you don't choose who to fall in love with, you don't choose to be homosexual, even if in many cases you are not up to a gene, the thread in my opinion is that this is how it was written for you to happen, I don't know about you but i believe
It's like being born with a congenital disease and saying, "I don't want to be sick of this" - well, you can't, what's there is a fact. Take action as long as you ask for our opinion on this and that ...
Baba Penka has nothing against homosexuals - on the contrary! For the rest it supports 2 and 4!
Off, number 5, what I have explained so far is that homosexuality is not innate, nor is it a disease, no one is born gay or hetero just falls in love with the person they are destined to fall in love with. A congenital disease in you can be a mother with cancer, be a drug addict or have had sex with a person of her kind, and you be born a freak with an excuse, this can be called an inevitable congenital disease, but not homosexuality, homosexuality it is not a congenital disease, nor is it a choice. There are very stable people, people for admiration, who have made a career, people with a good family, people with a strong psyche, with common sense fall in love with a person of their gender, it's like stumbling on the street and falling or meeting a person, who disturbs you, you don't want it to happen to you, but it happens. Number 2, it makes sense for everyone to be disgusted by a tramp and an unclean person, and to be impressed by a lady who is supported. I don't like this girl because of her appearance, I would like her with a bare head, with tied hair, without make-up, dressed in ordinary clothes, even slightly full, my love is not a disease, as number 5 thinks, but it is quite pure. and strong even I doubt that if a man's girlfriend is uglier will last her, do you understand how strong love I'm talking about, I'm not talking about superficial love, but about something real.
For most people we are a sick society, and those who accept us are in fact hypocritical and false, they say I have nothing against you, I do not care about your orientation, but when they see us with our partner and that we are raising a child they are shocked, they start to they stay away from us as if we were freaks. They spit on how you can raise children, but it is a fact that children in homosexual families grow up healthy. They say to themselves, everyone has the right to choose, but they prefer not to have us, so most homosexuals do not show anything, on the contrary, we hide who would withstand constant harassment, ridicule or beating, or those who pretend to be tolerant pretend that everything is ok, but in reality they always have one thing in mind, thinking us more or less about freaks.
Well, you're right, it's not normal to be homo. Realize and change, find a husband and have a family with children. This with the woman is unnatural even worse than animals. Come to your senses earlier so you don't regret it later!
Sexual orientation is not something one can choose voluntarily, everything happens involuntarily and unconsciously. If you are gay - accept it, why go against yourself. People attracted to the opposite sex suffer from complexes because of the stereotypes imposed in society that this is immoral, unnatural and unacceptable and suffer a lot from it. And why all this shame and harassment? Can you choose who to be attracted to and who to love? I do not condemn homosexual or bisexual people for this. I do not condemn anyone. Everyone has the freedom to be who they are and to give in to their feelings, not to go against themselves. Try to get rid of stereotypical thinking and do not blame yourself for your feelings. Listen to your heart!
FROM THE AUTHOR: Nothing that exists in nature is unnatural. Number 10, I realize that it's not normal I don't even want to be like that, but I'm a man in a woman's body, if I had millions of lives I would still fall in love with women. What is my husband for, given that I have no intimate interest in him, and when I think about sex with him I am horrified, I physically feel disgust for men, I would even vomit, if I kiss them in intimate places, I feel bad. A friend of mine, who values and respects me as a person, considers homosexuality to be abnormal, doesn't want to have anything to do with people like me, doesn't protect or crush them, doesn't know that I've fallen in love with women, but she likes me a lot as a person. . And why shouldn't it be real between a woman and a woman, when I'm ready for anything for a girl, I would give my life for her, I feel the sweetest, warmest feelings for her, seeing her makes me tremble from head to toe like a feather only she is in my mind, others do not excite me-only she has no other person after her, I want to share my whole life with her, it is more real than a man and the woman, almost all men think of infidelity all the time, while I would never cheat on the girl I care about. I don't know, maybe I'm paying for past sins, so to be in this situation right now, as number 2 said, the world is not only heterosexual, it is also asexual and hermaphroditic.
Girl you are very right and I am dying to meet you!
I'm bisexual and I don't think it's unnatural. It is simply different, that is why it is rejected by many people in Bulgaria. Whether with a man or a woman, the emotions are the same. Sometimes female love is much purer, beautiful and selfless. I know lesbians who have extremely full and harmonious relationships that I could not have with a man. Women understand each other much easier, while men have a different view of things. Think about why women have girlfriends? Because a woman is able to understand your problems and has often experienced them on her back. Sometimes men can't give you what a woman can. I understand your emotions. I think you need to explore the terrain and if she also has feelings you can try.